I've lost the most beautiful person in the world - My Mother

Oh Eppie2010 I am so sorry, no words can help you get through this awful time just a lot of good friends and family! I lost my mother 2 years ago and then her mum (my nan)3 months later, even now I haven't dealt with it, I go to sleep therapy sessions as I have vivid dreams all night every night, very draining! I know my problem is I do not relax and need to come to terms with everything but am worried if I relax I will break down and then will not be in control. I guess I am telling you this so you don't go through the same thing I have. I have realised life is far to short regardless of anything though and am so thankful I have so many happy memories like you have. Take care and sending you a big hug xx If you every want to offload then I will always listen (well read!) xx

Hi Eppie, really sorry to hear about your situation. You must have been through a really hard time. It is not easy, i can understand. Although my parents are still around, but i could not bear the thoughts of them leaving my sight. However, things happens for a reason. Although it may be sudden, but do take courage and be strong. I know there is nothing much i can do, but i can give you my moral support and strength here, and wish that you can overcome the lost. Every human being on this earth will need to leave one day, even i myself will leave this earth one day. Just that our time has not yet come. I believe your mother has leave the best for you and your family, and would not wish to see you shed tears, but be strong to live for the family. God is your Strength, and He is your Comforter. I would like to share this i found, "The love between a mother and daughter is forever!" =) Grace of the Lord is sufficient for you. Take care.

So sorry to hear that. I also lost my best friend my mom about a year ago now. i will also miss her very much this xmas. Take care there.

My eepest sympathy to you and your family. Losing a loved one is really hurt so badly that sometimes you feel it is very difficult to move on without them. I also lost my mother more than a decade already, yet I still long for her specially when my friends would say something about their mothers. They are our bestfirends, they understand every inch of our personality more tahn anybody else, even our spouses. That is why losing a mother is like losing oe half of you.

they are together now and parents being parents, will always watch over you and your siblings. don't hesitate to "talk" to them.

I am sorry for you loss Eppie, people come and go, but they taught us many things that would make you a better person. Yes, you lost one of the most important person in your life, but still, the show must go on. Eternal Rest grant unto the soul of Eppie's mother, O Lord. And Let the light of God shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen.

It's a very sad thing, when the people we love, leaving us forever. I really understand your feelings. I'm sorry, you lose the one you love. You should always send a prayer for your parents. I'm sure your mother does not want you dissolve in grief.

Sad to hear it. Its really an irony when our parents are alive we don't understand their value and once they pass away we realize how important they were in our lives. I also would tell people from my response that don't let your parents feel alone and always love them.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Mother is really living god to us and there is no substitute for mother.

First my heartfelt sympathy and sincere condolences for the recent passing of your beloved mother. You really lost the most beautiful and wonderful person we can ever have. Not that the father is less likely than the mother, but mothers are different. When you feel sick, the first person you will be looking is mother. When you are looking for something missing, the automatic thought is, mother. When you have a problem, the first person you will be consulting is mother. Mother. Mother, Mother. So for those of you who still have mothers and fathers, PLEASE don't take them for granted. Love, serve, respect and honor them, while there is still time. Besides, It is the commandment of God with the beautiful promise.

I still have both my father and mother. I usually don't express my love for them. They always remind us, their children, that we should always express our love for them while they are still alive. We would feel sorry and regret that we didn't do when they are still alive. Then, I realize how important time is that as much as we can, we should express our love to our parents.

oh i'm sorry to hear that you should be patient like me on 2009 my girl was born on january, then on february i lost my father because sick,my mother still sick next year exactly on march 2010 i lost my mother , so i lost 2 parents. i agree with you , who still have their parents, please give them love ...

Yes, I do feel lucky that I still have my mother and father. I often took their presence for granted but an orphan friend of mine made me realize (albeit unconsciously) how valuable they are. They are the people I automatically run to when I am in trouble and they would never turn their back on me. I am sure your parents loved you very much and you them. I feel for your loss. But be happy for them also. They are in a better place now.

Im so very sorry for your loss. My mother passed away in 2007 when I was 17. Although my mum was my best friend, there are still things I regret never saying to her. She was a truly wonderful mother and I loved her so much. I obviously still do! That will never fade. Her passing was very sudden, which only made things harder as we didn't have time to prepare ourselves for it. Christmas is always one of the hardest times I'm sad to say but never forget that you are never TRULY alone, even if you may feel it. We all think about the 'what ifs', where we dwell on things we should've said when given the opportunity but you can't live that way. It took me a while to learn that myself but in time, I hope you will see. Take care.

I am so sorry to read that you have lost your mother. I have not lost either of my parents so I can only imagine how you feel. It would be terrible. I am glad she isnt ill or in pain anymore but its still so sad for us when the people we love die. I lost my husband due to heart disease 2 years ago in March.

First, accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom. May she rests in peace. I understand how you feel this time. I just lost my mom about 6 months ago. Whenever somebody lose a parent, my mom will immediately come into my mind. I already miss her.

How sad! And it must be really hard for you to lost your mother. I can't really imagine my life without my mom. :(

Try and remember all the good times you had with here .

My condolences Eppie2010.. As I became a mother now, I value my mom more. I regretted all the pain I cause her and would love to do more for here. I hope that in the near future I would be able to help her more financially and give her treats that she deserves.

I am so sorry for your mother. she is in better place now, no doubts she is in better place now and will watch you from heaven, I know the way you feel , be strong , my friend, time won't heal your wounds anymore as you lost your both parents. Pray for them, remember them.