How will you react when someone confess to you?
By hestylim
@hestylim (1210)
Indonesia
October 28, 2012 1:25pm CST
Hi mylotters,
I just wonder, how will you react when someone confess to you that he had done a very bad thing in his life like killing somebody?
9 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I would be shocked and scared of that person. Why the heck would he even tell me that. Now I will forever be guilty of keeping such a secret. I wish he just didn't tell me.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
29 Oct 12
I think that it would depend on who it was who confessed, and what they were confessing to. If it was a friend who told me that they killed somebody then I think that I would have to go to the police, because I would get into trouble with them if it was found out that I had known about it. If it was a family member then I don't know what I would do, because even though you wouldn't want to get into trouble then I don't think that you would want to tell the police either because you wouldn't want one of your close family members to go to prison for life.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Honestly, I can't tell you what my reaction would be if someone was to confess something like this to me. The reason that I don't know what my reaction would be is because of the fact that I don't know what the circumstances are that surrounded the situation. It is only unless I knew the reason that something like that had happened. I mean my reaction would be one way if I found out that the person had done something in self-defense than it would be if they simply killed a person because of the fact that they just wanted to kill someone.
@samson1 (738)
• Jamaica
29 Oct 12
If the person confided in you professionally, then you may be bound to honor your code of professional conduct. If you were told this story as a friend, then it depends on the circumstances that prompted him/her to tell you that story. Sometimes, the story is told to increase their 'street credit ratings' as it could be a hoax.
However, if you have reason to believe the story being told to you, then you may determine whether it is apptopriate for you to tell another person or not.
@toxic_lifestyle (1213)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Well I will be shocked at first. But at the same time, I will be happy also. Because it's an opportunity for me that someone had confessed to me. Because it feels like that he/she really trust me that much. :)
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I will ask the reason why it happens (of course that will be a shock for me)
But, I won't judge the person as soon as he/she confesses me.
I will try to ask him/her .
If the case just happened recently - I know that would be hard to convince the person to submit him or herself to the police.
But I will try my best to explain it is the best thing- to clear the conscience and have a peaceful life after all- the crime is done.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
When I am still working at the hospital a patient of mine admits that he killed somebody but he did to protect not on purpose but to protect herself because her step-dad did something bad to her while her mom working abroad. She was crying and very afraid during that time but as a nurse it's our responsibility to report the incident and call the authority who can protect and care of her.