What do you usually did when broken heart ?

@tedifa (1232)
Indonesia
October 28, 2012 10:29pm CST
I saw many friends did weird thing when they're felt broken heart.Sometimes crying,silent,and angry.Lots of them always got drunk and doesn't care each other.When first time i felt broken heart,i listen rock music very loud.and eat so much.after that i'll try to get closer with God.Can you share here your experiences when broken heart ?
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
4 Nov 12
Only time can heal. Mostly we admire and see someone as bigger than they are but only because we identify their qualities to ours or want to become something like they are, and when we learn that about ourselves we can let that person go. The real love of our lives will love us back, there's no separation. If someone broke your heart, it might be a while but that person just wasn't the one.
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@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 12
Very deep feeling,nice response,i believe with true love and broken heart is not a disaster,that's just other ways to get right person.
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@zurichann (235)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I'm not really good in handling a broken heart. I will usually try to exhaust myself at night by crying hard so that the following day I wouldn't have to think of the pain that much. Weird, right? But aside from that, I usually go to different churches or hang out with my friends.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 12
I agree with you,hang out with friends can forgot about your problems,i did it too when i got broken heart,playing guitar together with my friends.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I usually would reflect a lot when brokenhearted and then just be still with my thoughts. Sometimes I couldn't help but cry. Then I would drown myself in work.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 12
Crying sometimes would be the best way to release your pain.Don't worry about that,just make your self be happy.
@GemmaR (8517)
29 Oct 12
I think that different people deal with things in different ways. A couple of years ago I broke up with my partner for a short time over something that was a bit of a misunderstanding, and I coped by going out with my friends and trying to live life to the full. I was hurting inside, but I was never going to let this show. I know that a lot of people would lock themselves in their house and not go out for a long time until they felt as though their heart was healed, but there was no way that I would ever have been able to deal with it in this way.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
I am sorry to hear that,you're strong person and can handle your problem with your ways.Hope you can forgot your problem soon.
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I don't drink so what I actually do is binge. I eat ice cream because that's my comfort food. I really really like ice cream. There would also be moments when you can't help but remember stuff that you did with that special person before but I try to write poems or letter addressed to them. Then, I convince myself that I am still alive and that's something that I should be thankful for.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 12
Please be careful for eating ice cream,maybe you will fat someday,hahhaha...yeah i like writing poems too and i build it become the song.
@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
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The essence of love can not be determine if you didn't take any chance to try it. Some people might feel afraid, it is a part of life to feel sorrow if it didn't work out. Instead, take it as a learning process for you to know of what love really means.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 12
Very wise advice,thanks my friend,sometimes true love is not have to together,if we can see our girlfriend/boyfriend happy,absolutely we're happy too.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
29 Oct 12
I tried to keep busy but I also ended up throwing away quite a few things out of being angry which was wrong of me to do.I should have just stopped and prayed myself.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
Tried to keep busy is good solution to forgot your broken heart.I ever did that last years.And that's working for a while.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I broke my heart for a very long time. Of course I did cry, scream, shout and ask a lot of whys- why it happened, why I need to suffer- so many why left un-answered. Accepting reality is the easiest way to moved one from a broken heart and bad experiences.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
Sometimes crying can release your feeling,there is no wrong with that,life must go on and you have to continue with your life.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
It was hard for me to get over a broken heart. It didn't just simply go away after a few days, a few weeks or a few months. It took me years to finally say that I have moved on. When I love a person, I make sure that I give my all. He may not have asked that much but that is just the way how i want to show my love for a person. So, the intensity of my love is as much as the pain that I get when the relationship ends.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
I know what did you felt jenny.Sometimes between man and woman has different ways to forgot their broken heart.Woman's more difficult to forgot about that than man.Thanks for your response.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I think those people who get drunk because their heart got broken are over rated. they should do something positive for themselves. the best revenge for a broken heart is to make yourself look good and improve yourself and then someday you would be ready to get out and love someone else. When I got my heart broken, i made myself look good and spent more time with friends. I didn't get to do these things because my ex wants all of my time. When he wanted me back, i rejected him, that made him angry at me. Then i found someone else faster than i had expected. I like that you tried to get closer to God. This will make you stronger spiritually. When you have that strength you won't be easy to bring down.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
Yeah,same like you,i prefer to tried get closer to God,all of our destiny is in God hand,i felt free and no regrets after i take pray to God.
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Breakups are very crucial in every unsuccessful relationship; it can also make or break your life because you find it that you are a mess because you ended a what was a happy love story. The thing you can do so, is to suck it up. And get over with it. Although it may take time to heal and it indeed hurts the most you should remember that life is subjective to change and part of that change is ending a relationship. In order to get recover from such heartache, you need to find yourself. Loving someone is like loving yourself. Although it is hard to recover, you should remember that knowing yourself without thinking about your partner is the best healing tool you can garner in order to get yourself recover from that bad breakup. Wash away the bad memories and fill in yourself with good possibilities. Get away from it for a while, take time to contemplate and to know more about other things rather than sitting and eating chocolates watching over Bridget Jones Diaries, take time to have fun, meet new people and also, it is a great time to keep in touch with your family after all, family is more important than any other lover you’d probably meeting. Lastly, reinvent and change your lifestyle. Change for the better and not for the worse, learn to look back from the past and try to minimize what bad things you’ve done about the relationship and try to fetch another fish in the sea.
@Magz1989 (271)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
Well, When my heart was broken , i did exhaust myself from work , as in double work then at my pay day. I gone to a saloon and make myself a total make over. I said to myself " I am single today, i should be very beautiful" and i also gone to many places , travel...travel...shopping..shopping. That's what I did.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 12
That's good way to forgot your sadness,make over can make your mind fresh,travel and shopping is really fun,you can enjoy your life with that.