same age, younger or older than you...who to choose?

Wow! 20 years older? that was really far gap huh? My father was ten years older than my mom. Well, of course there are always instances they do have misunderstandings about things. But there are times there are unresolved ones which can be hard,specially to my mom. Anyways, if love does exists, two people can work things out...

Hello deriellevc! :) SO, you mean your present boyfriend is ten years younger than you? Oh, well, if you say that he is matured and he doesn't look younger than you and best of all you both understand each other well, I guess there's no problem at all. It just depends on how things work out in the long run. I hope you two find happiness in each other's arms...

WHOA! That was a decade gap and I don't like the idea though, same with 30 years gap, my God! I feel like not me when I do have realationship with such... A big NO for that! Well, to tell you honestly, I have somehow dated a guy who is 7 or 8 years older than me, though it was just a date but having relationship with him really is a big NO! Well, now, there's one guy who is more than a decade older than me that I think who likes me. Well, I think hanging out with him would be nice but the thought of having relationship with him, I can think about it though...if he has the qualities or personality, why not! Haha, yeah, it's good to know your story, in the end you have end up with 3 years older than you. That's what I am thinking about as well. Too much of an age gap can feel like unable to talk to anything about the world. For me, I like to have few years gap who still catches up with my sense of humor and can hang out wherever I want. The fun brings with two people sharing it is different than just love alone.

Hello aja! Yes, it's true, personality comes first in priority when you really want relationships to work out. It is indeed the person and not the age, but sometimes age still matters though it depends on how people think and react to some matters in life as well. I'd love to see a person's character but the thought of their age younger than me makes me feel like it's not me doing that type...

Hello Gracia! :) Thank you for the wonderful input! Yes, that's what I also think. Older men have more experience and can have better understanding on how to deal with every situation they face in life. As a girl, most of the time, I have observed girls really end up with having relationships with older guys. I do like the idea but not that too old that I can see my grandfather in him... I would choose more of 5 years older than me the max. What about you then? I hate it when celebrities or ordinary people choose too much old and age gaps are too far, cause it feels like it doesn't look good anymore. Yeah, having older guys who act mature and responsible enough with a bit of sense of humor is just the right kind for me. I hope I can meet him someday, though. ^_^ It feels good being loved and appreciated and the fact that they can take care of you, is really like heaven...^_^

What about you then? What do you prefer, you can share your experiences as well. There's nothing wrong with it, right?

Hello GemmaR! :) Thanks for the wonderful insight! You are right, when loving someone, age doesn't really matter. I just am curious about the chances you mylotters have and it's a great thing though that i have started this topic for I can learn from a lot of you here. Yes, it is the personality we have to deal with for us to be abnle to understand one another and see who we truly loved the most. It's just that I realized, I have met a lot of guys but i wonder why I can't find the right person to be with... it's true that there are people who can be younger than you but more mature enough and there are people also who are older but seems like somehow not responsible and can't stand on their own. Of course, I want a guy who would be more responsible and can take really good care of me for I don't have any brothers and for me, it will be a great thing to chose a guy who will truly love and respect me and accept me as who I truly am. For in the end, we are worth loving, no matter what we are, right?

Hello sajujohn! :) I think that's what most guys choose, girls who are younger than them cause they want to be more intelligent or more powerful than them, isn't it? Well, these reasons can be left unsaid, but you can see it when you really look at it. What can you say about that? As for the same age groups, you are right. When it comes to experiences, we get to share a lot of common ones. SO, it looks like we are equal when it comes to such matter.

Yeah, I also do like guys who are older than me but five years older the max. I feel like too much young if paired to 10 years older than me...really! I can also like guys younger but still prefer those of my age groups. Unless, it can change as well if I really feel love to a certain guy younger or older than me...who knows, right? But if you spend most of your time with guys, you'll know who you can fall for.

Hello watcha! :) yeah, I can see most girls do pick those guys who are much older than them cause it shows that men rules, is it? I think they are more mature when being paired with younger girls than them. For sure, it would be better to have a guy partner who is older than you cause they know how to take care of most things. Depends on the type of the guy as well. There are guys or men who isn't mature enough even if they are old. Of course, it would be better to be paired with guys who are more responsible and knows how to be a man enough to build his own family. Thanks for your shre, watcha! :) nice name huh?