Ladies would you date a man that has no car?

I am dating one right now. It didn't occur to me that a car is a prerequisite to be in a relationship with someone. Important is: we love each other, we get along and we are happy together. I'd rather boast a loyal boyfriend who is crazy in love with me than a rich boyfriend who has a car. Besides, I doubt that most boys can afford their own cars. It's not their car, it's the car they got from their parents' money.

I am dating a man at the moment with no car, and I have to say that I would never even think about ending my relationship with him over it. One of the things that is a problem though is that the public transport links in our area aren't all that great, and that means that we are not able to see each other as we would have been able to if he'd had a car. But I know that there is no way that I can make him buy a car because he doesn't have the money right now, so I am more than happy to wait until he does have enough.

I have dated men that don't have transportation and it has never been an issue. I don't date a man for his car for starters. I don't mind driving us and like you said ...it's all about how he treats me.

Just like you, I can date a guy without a car. I think you liked the guy because of his total personality , with or without a vehicle to send you or to fetch you. If in case you liked someone, and he owns a car- well that's of course a plus point! But for me- if a girl is just liking someone because of the car- then she better marry the car and leave the person behind :/ lol I am not yet married- but I always keep in mind, to love is not looking on the person's properties. The most important issue is his attitude towards you and towards other people.. :) If you plan to get married in the future, and decides to buy a car then surely you can do the driving. His injury is something he did not wished for to happen. And you are lucky he is honest enough to tell you about the bills he is paying, instead of showing of spending money here and there for you. I think he was honest enough so as early as now you can decide if you can really like him despite of his financial status at present. Good luck on your love story :)

I think it would be silly that girls wouldn't date a man that has no car. It would be same thing if men wouldn't date girls without big (you know what i mean). But men do. I think ladies today are so spoiled and think only about money, and not men's personality, the way he treats her. Happy mylotting!

Yes, of course. Although it would be nice for going out with one who has a car, that's not the only reason for dating him. Gold digger much? His personality and how he treats you is much more important that what he has. Anyways, in the college where I study, there are only around 5% of the student population who own a car, so I don't know if that influences my way of thinking (that it's only natural to answer "yes").

It depends on the country. In my country I could date a man that doesn`t have a car. I dated a man some time ago that had had a depression and the doctors advised him not to drive. He sold his car. Depending on where we went, we took a cab or we went by taxi and metro. I didn`t mind it at all.

I don't see a problem with that either.. Having a car doesn't mean he is a good boyfriend.. People should not judge others by the things he owns, but by his character and how he treats me..

Let me make a wild guess. Are you Chinese, Sindelle? There is no denying that nowadays Chinese are more and more pratical and snobbish. No offence,

I really don't mind if the guy I am dating has no car. Although it could be really comfortable in riding on a car when going on a date, I am not after guys who has one. If I date a particular person, it is not because of what he has, but for what he is.

i think it is best if a man i date has a car, although i wouldn't mind too if he doesn't but it is of great advantage if he has one so that it would not be a problem for the two you, you can easily go where you want to go and everything. but also the most important thing for the man that we date is how he treats us or his attitude towards us.

Car is not necessary for marriage, but house is!

It varies , some girls are so materialistic , that they wanted to date only those having cars but they are only few. What if the man has a car but then he is a rapist or a bad guy , still you will date it ? Of course am not telling that we are also that safe to those who don't have one. My point is , with or without car , it is alright to date a man whom you feel having good values. Cars are never an indication of an attribute of a certain person. Ladies should not be deceived with the outside things but should look more with whats is inside .

It's definitely okay to date a man without a car. Not everybody in my country has a car. Most people only ride buses, jeepneys, and other public transportations. Owning a car here is way too much expensive for everyone to afford it.

The reason for not having a car should be considered. Of course, the reason would play into the overall package of who the guy is. If you said that your guy's car was totaled in an crash that he caused while he was drunk or high, your friends would certainly have room to criticize. After all, that sort of situation would indicate a problem with your beau. However, if some jerk plowed through a red light and slammed into him, he would be blameless, and your friends should ease up and realize that they could easily be in the same situation. My boyfriend didn't have a car when I first got involved with him. He was coming from a large urban area where there had been wide availability of public transportation. He was a bit reluctant to take on the responsibility of car ownership, but he recognized that, since we don't live in a major metropolitan area and do need to do a lot of traveling by our own schedule, it is a necessity for us.

I have dated men without a car most of my life. Well, it seemed that I was always paying for gas and repair on car and Insurance. They never even thought about how much it cost me and would want to go places all the time over a hundred miles away. Well, I made my new friend save for a car now that he has one. Boy things have changed. Now he says things like oh no we can't go there as I can't afford it. I looked at him and said but when I was doing all the driving it was OK. LOL so yes I have and yes I will. But next time they have to help pay for all the good things that come with owning a car. Have a good day.

Hi Sindelle, I think i totally agree wtih your point of view. I think it really does not matter whether our boyfriend have a car or not. and those people who say they will not date someone without a car is indeed shallow. Real love is not based on material possession and it's more important that he loves you :)

I am dating one. He does not even have a license. As long as he would accompany me to places and would bring me home after a night out (by foot or by public transport), it's fine with me. I'm not materialistic in that way.

Its what man has inside that I want, not what he has outside.

you have really silly friends. that's all.