threesome

United States
October 30, 2012 6:21pm CST
Would you have a threesome to keep your partner? I mean what if you do and they still leave you?
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• United States
31 Oct 12
No I would never do anything like that, not even to keep my partner/spouse. Aside from the very thought of doing something like that making me physically ill I would lose all respect for him for even asking me to do something like that. To me it would mean that I was not enough for him, that he doesn't love nor respect me, & worse that he is bored with our relationship. So if that were the case I would give him his freedom & by doing so I would gain mine from such a man. Better to be alone then with someone like that.
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
No , not the kind of life i dreamed and i lived , not the kind of values i uphold. I believed in sanctity of that thing , which means it is done only by two person who loved each other . Whatever is your practice i am respecting it.
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
oh, i have written in wrong place , this is a response to Justme ..
• China
3 Nov 12
You are so right. As a male, I'd say females should not accept such requests in my pointview. It's horrible that someone will try to use "leave" to force his partner to have threesome! A possibility is that you have threesome and then you are going to be forsake by him. If he truly love you, he will not give you such a dirty request.
• Australia
31 Oct 12
Ah, wonderful, it's so heartwarming to see the overwhelming tolerance for others' views on the broad spectrum of human sexuality. I bet we'd get exactly the same tolerance and acceptance if the discussion was about BDSM, or homosexuality, for example. Goodd for you, gang. And no, I wouldn't do it just to keep a partner, but I would certainly do it for what it would give us. Have done, I should say. Often. Sometimes with whips and chains involved lol. Lash
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• United States
31 Oct 12
Not knocking nobody we all have free will
• Australia
1 Nov 12
You weren't, no, but others were. Lash
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
31 Oct 12
I would not do anything that I really did not want to do with the sole purpose of hoping to hold on to someone. If they would be willing to lose me if I did not go along with it well, nothing changes the fact that they would be willing to lose me. If they are willing to leave you over that then odds are there will be something else down the road that they are willing to leave you over.
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@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
31 Oct 12
No I would not have a threesome with my partner in order for him to stay with me. I believe that if he loved me he would never ask me to do such a thing. Plus, I think if you risk having a threesome with your partner, then you also risk him either breaking up with you to be with that other person, or you also risk him cheating on you. Another reason that I would not have a threesome is because I don't like to share my men with anyone and I like to have him all to myself. I like all the attention and just seeing him give another girl attention in the bedroom, I would not like at all. I would never suggest anyone have a threesome with someone they love just to keep them, unless they agree to it and it is something that they too want to do themselves.
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I find this threesome as not a human thing but an animal thing. Human being are govern by modesty and respect and not lust.
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@champan (513)
• Argentina
31 Oct 12
Im more on the "You only live once... why not?" side. I think if a person is to opened to want something like that. Maybe you can later sugest something similar (the other way) for your "benefit" .
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• Philippines
31 Oct 12
threesome is no no for me. If he leaves me then be it. I will not force myself just for him to love me back.
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Exactly friend ! It could never a bases for one to stay or go.
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@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
I actually experienced doing it...It was so cool...can't forget it.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
31 Oct 12
just: Absolutely not! If my partner truly loves me, then he would not ask me to do something that he knows would contradict my beliefs. I think that if he needed someone else to fulfill his needs, then he needs to let me go first. I think that whether they admit it or not, men do not really want their partners to be involved in such activities. It would be hard to maintain respect and trust in anyone who would agree to do so. If I were to agree to a threesome, and my partner left me, I would have to believe that I was better off without him.
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@sriroshan (2585)
• India
31 Oct 12
Hey never I will never do such things? And why one should go down to such level to save the relation as such? If you do such things on the contrary I am sure your relationship will spoil more.
• United States
2 Nov 12
I agree with you , doing things like that just to save a relationship will just help sink it a lot faster and let you lower your self esteem . It would be better to leave such relationship because its already over if its at that level . I know people that are together in open relationship and swingers ,, I dont get it but it all depends on what you are into .
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Nope. Never. I agree with the previous poster, this is something that needs to be left as a fantasy. Threesome are for people who are NOT involved in a relationship and they fully understand why they are doing it. As for me, I have my dignity. I would not do anything that I don't want just for the sake of my marriage/relationship.
• Bulgaria
10 Nov 12
Hello I think that If your partner is decided to leave you he/she will leave you and that's it.But the hope dieds last you should be try everything to stay with him.The price is big and some people never make this step and of course they do not have any imagine how to act it. Take a look at this articles and you will receive some more information about it I hope it will help: http://socyberty.com/sexuality/threesome-in-a-hot-bed/ http://socyberty.com/sexuality/threesome-in-bed/ Have a nice day and take care about!
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
31 Oct 12
No he just wants to cheat and be justified for it if he has "permission" but I know there are some couples who do actually enjoy that sort of thing. However it is not for everyone. I'm not into it myself, too disgusting. How perferted do you have to be to have a threesome. One is supposed to be enough, you're not entitled to more than that. No one is, in real life. It is against the morals of society. My society anyways.
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• United States
31 Oct 12
Don't do it, break up with him you will split any way. my wife is enough for me. but it depends on ypour morals.
• United States
2 Nov 12
Good to hear you say that , because a threesome is seems to be most male fantasy these days .
• Newton Lower Falls, Massachusetts
31 Mar 15
If you had a good prospect of finding another partner then no, i would not do it. If you had a very poor prospect of finding another partner like 20% male to 80% female then maybe i would. or like in Australia 1 man to 5 women in the single datable age or Russia 1 man to 4 women in the single datable age or in New York City 4 women to 1 man. in most cases after all the men eliminating attributes in society, women are left with a very small pool of men to choose so in this case, i would do it if i were you.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Nov 12
Even if I would have a threesome but I would never do it just to keep my partner . I would rather leave such relationship because it would not be worth it . I would never agree to do anything out of obligation .