I'm Kind Of In A Pickle

I thin it is better to tell the person, because on way or another.. the person will know the truth. i guess it is impossible to keep something a secret forever. it is better if your loved one knew the truth from you..

When you love someone that too from the depth of your heart then question of cheating does not arise. And if you cheat to so called your loved one then it is not a love as such. I am sure you must have understood what I want to say in this regards

This is something that shouldn't be told. It brings out a lot of pain and anger on someone that probably don't deserve it. Unless you're looking for a fight, anger and mistrust, don't tell. If your guilt is getting the best of you, it is something you probably should deal with. What were the reasons of cheating? What can be done so that you didn't cheat agian? what good would come out of telling the other person? Probably no good at all unless you wanted the relationship to end or become more difficult.

If ever I will cheat but has no plan of dumping my husband over my lover then no way I will tell him about my cheating, but if I cheated and decided to finish my marriage then yes I will tell him.

I don't think people who have cheated would ever go clean to his/her partner by saying that he/she cheated.

I think it would be better to say it than know it from the others mouth. If it didn't turn well, then you need to face the consequences.

No I would not, if I did cheat which I can't see myself doing. Alot of people that do that think I'll be honest and promise to him or her it was a mistake and it will never happen again. If that's the truth and you know it will never happen again then don't. Don't tell him or her. In most cases, all you are doing is trying to relieve the guilt you have but in the mean time, you're hurting your loved one. I think the best thing to do is not say anything and never let it happen again.

I think you better not tell anymore. It will just cause a little damage to the trust that your love one gave to you. Just make sure that you will not do it again. If you do it again, then it is better that you will not pursue that kind of relationship. Just by doing that you are being fair to your partner and somehow being honest to him or her. Be honest my friend.

Nope, because if they were your loved one- you have never cheated on them in the first place.

If it was a one time mistake that will NEVER happen again, then NO!! Swallow your guilt! It's your mistake, you live with it. If it keeps happening, or you want to do it again, then maybe you don't need to be in your relationship. There are problems that either need fixed, or you need to be single, or with someone else. It is that simple. Unless you know they will find out, then tell them. Honesty is best, and they would rather hear it from you than someone else. But if no one will ever know, then shut your mouth, and live with your secret. If no one will ever know, then no one needs to. It was a one time mistake, and you will only hurt the person and the relationship.

No because 1hat - believe A person can give you often, What exactly he has, Someone gives you a punch of cheating Or someone gives flower pot of love.

"If" I ever did that to someone no I would not tell them I cheated unless I had reason to believe they already knew. For example if they heard something from a friend I felt like it was a corner I couldn't back out of. I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings and I'd probably feel awful enough as it is without making them angry or upset.