I finally found someone!

Philippines
November 1, 2012 1:03am CST
Hello! I have a good news! I have a boyfriend! hehe.. Finally, after a year of heartaches and pain, I got a new boyfriend who loves me and have plans for our future. I am so happy and so inlove! He is older than me. I mean the gap is huge but i do not care about the age. Plus, he has a different nationality. It is going to be hard since we do have different culture but I can accept everything for the sake of love. It is indeed amazing to be inlove again! I love him and I will do everything for him. But then he went back to his country already and he'll be back next year hopefully. I hope everything will be fine for both of us. I am afraid to get hurt but it is okay. I just have to think positive all the time. I am so happy. Thanks for reading mylotters!
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21 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
1 Nov 12
It sounds a bit weird.. you have a year of heartaches and pain and start a new relationship??? If you are not over an old relationship it's not a great idea (also not very honest) to start a new one. But I assume you mean it different as it is written down here. I hope you are really happy and in love and stop seeing problems already (culture difference, distance, etc etc). If you already start with that it will surely be a hard year for you! So keep focused on what is positive, on the end goal (being together/having a future together) and invest your time, energy, love into that for the year till he is back. So you can say you invested in your futures as well and not only he is. And if it comes to getting hurt: we all are in some way afraid to get hurt (again) so it's good to know yourself, to make plans for your own future, to go on with your life and not just sit there and wait till he is back. Work, go out with your friends, be someone! Since the good news is you will always be there for you.
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• Netherlands
1 Nov 12
Ps print your discussion and save it! It might help you to remember the feelings you have now and get you through this year.
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• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Hi tess I'm happy to know that you were able to move on from your past. That's really good. Forget your past and learn from it. The present is much important than the past. What ever heartaches you've been through before just forget it and move on. Always think positive for it really helps a lot. :D
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
We always make some risk in committing ourselves to anyone. We can only hope that we can be able to overcome any problem that comes and also learn to become a better person for our special someone.
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• Philippines
1 Nov 12
Wow good to you! That's a very good news! Congratulations! :)
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• Philippines
1 Nov 12
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I am happy for you, you had found your special someone. I hope you will be happy forever and be thankful for having the man of your dream.
@gary23 (425)
• India
1 Nov 12
That's good to hear . Age gap , nationality are no problems if love is there surrounding you. Make sure you keep contact with him regularly because it helps in long distance relationship
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 12
Congratulation! Love find no boundaries. Good luck to your new found love and hope that you will find happiness with him.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
1 Nov 12
I am glad to hear that you have finally got a new boyfriend despite of the age gap. Love has no age limit. So long as you love each other, take the brave step to love. I wish you happy for your love. Have a wonderful day.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
Congrats! I wish you all the best and hope that man you found will love you as you love him.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
Congrats on your new found love. It's good that you were able to moved one after a year of suffering from heartache and pain. Wish your new found love will give you true love that everyone is looking for. The culture and tradition won't be a hindrance when it comes to love. As long as you love each other and understanding each other,because love has no culture or tradition.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
1 Nov 12
wow someone is so excited .. anyway since you have sound him, try to be positive yes. I am happy for you that after heart aches you have got someone o give you the true happiness that you deserve. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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• Philippines
3 Nov 12
good luck!
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
2 Nov 12
I am so happy to hear that. I wish all the luck in the world Dear. It's good when you find someone who's got a different nationality from yours and it will help you also to build a unique relationship. Do not worry about getting hurt, just enjoy the moment for now.
17 Dec 12
Hi, Though it looks funny that after a year of heartache & pain you got new boyfriend and that too from other state and of old age. Though now you seem to be very happy and dreamy of your future with the said boyfriend, but be careful. I pray God that your dram shall get fulfilled and shall get love of the said boyfriend forever. Be positive but be careful.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Good for you, you moved on immediately. congrats. Hope you will be happy with your new boyfriend.
@jopipay (336)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Hi tess, Wow! that is really good news.Good for you that you are very happy now.Yes, do think positive all the time.Good luck to both of you and stay in love:)
@shm1975 (38)
2 Nov 12
Nice to hear that you found some one. Good news & congratulation.If you both have good understanding then no problem for different nationality.Hope he come back soon to you.By the way may i get invitation;) ( just joking ,lol).at your marriage.Hope both uyou have happy & prosperous life
@Jenniffe (37)
2 Nov 12
Congratulation for your new relationship. Hope I can get my ex-boyfriend ang find my Mr. Right.
@auwielady (116)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Thanks for sharing with us your joys, tess! I am certainly happy for you! Indeed a woman who has found true love will glow inside and out. That's why I'm pretty sure that you are getting more and more beautiful inside and out as well. I wish you all the best and I hope and pray that your love will grow and that it will last for a lifetime. Growing old with a wonderful man by your side will definitely be one of the greatest blessings you can ever have in your entire life. God bless you and your new relationship! :)
@jona777 (78)
• China
2 Nov 12
Among the more curious questions that can be asked about love is this:when one feels romantic love,does he feel it in breaks,with interruptions or changes,or does he feel it continuously,without interruption or change?