have you been a victim of love? a jilted one? a forsaken lover?

@nicanorr (1789)
Philippines
November 1, 2012 3:46am CST
what was your first reaction? what were your feelings? how did you overcome the sad feelings? Did you think of ending your life?
4 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
I have been to a lot of dramas in my life because of love. They were of different stories. Everytime, it broke my heart. It was hard to get over it right away. But I have learned to get up and face a new life without them. Ending my life for love? Well, almost. Gladly , my husband was so fast to stop me from doing it.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Your struggle with love is fantastic. It's one for the book. It teaches a moral lesson. Hope it convinces others to follow your way.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Well, passion, feelings and love are but parcels of a total whole. It is for us to master them so that they'll not go beyond control. Besides, why be slaves to negativism, when there are so many beautiful things in life to cheer us up. Just gaze at the early dawn, marvel at the setting sun and frolic in the morning sunlight. Even the hooting feathered friends during the night are balsam to a weary heart.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
We always find a lesson in every story. And no matter how bad it turns out to be in our own lives, still it remains as an important part and a reason of what we have become.
• China
1 Nov 12
On the whole,I sgree with what jdalaqui said.Rather than be a victim of hatred,I'd like to be a victim of love.Seconds that I had thohgt of prospect of my future life met an end,and with struggles I was trying to get out of the dilemma and finally I made it.I came to a conclusion after experiencing a unmutual relationship that life without romance of love can also be colorful and beatiful! SO,cheer up,everything will be ok!!
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
I am at a loss on how to go about with that kind of "life without romance of love can also be colorful and beautiful". Explain how to achieve it.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Hi, dama... Easier said than done. But some souls can adjust poorly to such kind of problem.
• China
3 Nov 12
Well,I had gone through sruggles for a long time.Things are not so bad as we think and there are still so many wonderful fantasies out of romance!Try to lean your concentration on what you favours,such as your career,your hobbies,and why not start a new journey,emptying your mind,free of troublesome affairs! Just have fun, you are sure to make it!
@Shavkat (140030)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
broken heart - http://www.google.com.ph/imgres?q=broken+heart+images&hl=en&biw=1024&bih=679&tbm=isch&tbnid=_sHd-Lf1YDP1_M:&imgrefurl=http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/02/18/10-tips-to-mend-a-broken-heart/&docid=1w3aLtOtvjhhtM&imgurl=http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue/imgs/broken%252520heart.jpg&w=300&h=276&ei=CVCSUM7GBquxigL9gYGACw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=104&vpy=178&dur=276&hovh=215&hovw=234&tx=68&ty=63&sig=107831047831805845786&page=1&tbnh=141&tbnw=161&start=0&ndsp=15&ved=1t:429,i:116
There is no reason to end your life just because you had experiencing a broken heart. It happens for a reason, it will bring the thought of loving yourself more than anything else. If it didn't work out, it gives a learning insight from it. You will grow better as a better person, if you are ready to love again then it will be more easier.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
You've a way of explaining the phenomenon well. I just hope others can philosophies it your way.
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
a victim of love? I'd rather be a victim of love than be a victim of hatred. Anyway, I understand what you mean. It hurts when you are rejected but it's not enough for someone to kill himself. It's not the end of everything.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
You've got a positive outlook and you're one of a rare species. You've got a fighting heart and the will to make life worth living for.