"Don't think too much"

@prashu228 (37521)
India
November 1, 2012 2:42pm CST
hello friends, I have seen people ,especially friends, who think a lot . They create problems in that way. They think about some thing else but end up with some other problems ,which were not there in the first place. So i think , thinking too much is also not good for us.Friends what do you say? How should one control their thoughts ,especially the unwanted ones. Your views please.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
2 Nov 12
I know for myself I overthink a lot of times. I cant see how one can just turn it off and not think about it.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
Exactly this is what i meant, i am also like that, i over think few times and land up some where else. I completely forget about the main problem and start thinking about some other one. Its too dangerous i feel. I mean a lot stress is caused due to this .Still need to work on this aspect.
• India
17 Nov 12
yess friend i agree with you over thinkng is very dangerous and sometimes it may lead to headache. So plz be careful so that you dont over think .cheers
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
1 Nov 12
when i find i have too many thoughts or problems clouding my head, i just try to write things down. that way, i can try to prune the important and unimportant ones and think of solving the important ones first.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
1 Nov 12
yes. writing is a better method to stop thinking. write, analyse, screen, search and then stop thinking. many times what we think difficult may be solved easily. what we think as easy may be difficult to solve.
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
hi mydanods, good idea, yes writing helps us to solve many things. i hope you get the perfect result with this.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 Nov 12
It's hard to control your thoughts I don't know any way how to. I don't even try to control my thoughts but I can keep my hands to myself.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
yes, it hard for everyone to control their thoughts, but what kind of thoughts we entertain is in our hands. Its good to keep our thoughts to our self but ,the problem comes when we try to use them on others.
• India
3 Nov 12
Thinking too much to a doing before we do is not good. It will increase our stress and keep us confused but we have to make sure that we should think about the side effects of the things we do. This is how we should take decisions in our life.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
yes too much of anything is bad for us. Stress levels increase and also our brain doesn't work properly due to overload of thoughts. The side effects are too many, we start indulging in other problem because of this.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
2 Nov 12
I also have a number of friends who over think things. Sometimes even I'm guilty of it. Usually I only over think things though when I'm worried about something important. My two friends drive me nuts though with it. Especially the one who is my ex bf. On occasion he'll message me on Facebook. I'll message him back with an innocent greeting then he'll respond with "I don't know what I did to deserve that" and I'll be like O_o lol. I realize especially with typed messages its easy sometimes to take something the wrong way but he is beyond all normal limits. He'll come up with things that are so out of left field it isn't even funny. It frustrates me a lot sometimes because its been known to start one sided arguments lol. As far as I'm concerned people who over analyze things that much are sucking the fun out of life. Sometimes it's good to think about things carefully but those over thinkers start to talk themselves into all kinda of craziness.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
yes we end up thinking about some unimportant things when we over think. This happens all of a sudden and without our knowledge. The problem with you is completely different, your bf is acting innocent. He may be having some different kind of thoughts for time pass. yes over analyzing things always gives us stress and fun disappears from life.which is most important .
@robspeakman (1700)
2 Nov 12
Are you honestly telling people not to think too much? If we didn't think we would never question, If we never questioned, we would always be controlled. I suspect that you are confusing Thinking with worrying. Thinking is what makes us differ from animals - we think to solve problems, we think to make the world a better place. The day I stop thinking is the day I die
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
I am saying about the unwanted things and also about those which are of no use to us. Such thoughts lead us to unwanted stress . I don't mean to stop thinking completely.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
As with everything else, too much of anything isn't good, and this includes thinking. We'll get stressed up and so it'll affect our health. Some people like myself address this by meditating or praying to clear their minds of too much thoughts, especially those unwanted ones. There are other alternatives but for me this one works best.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
yes,too much of anything is not good, and thinking a lot eats us from inside, we become ill from inside . yes meditation helps in this case ,it helps us to keep our mind calm and have control on it.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
Yes...because if we keep on thinking on certain problems, especially, we will be having headaches which might causes us to feel dizzy...and I think if not controlled, might lead to greater problems.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
yes getting solution to the problem is necessary but , thinking too much is not necessary as this may lead to more problems and disturbance.
@jeolex (64)
• Turkey
2 Nov 12
I think, much thinking is good thing. Because you can judge own daily behaviors to your friends. If you can think before do anything, you will do the truths.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
ohh is it? I felt the other way, over doing of anything is not good for us.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
We sometimes could not control ourselves from thinking too much especially if we are bothered with some issues. Years back, when I was at my lowest, I had a lot of sleepless nights. Of course, those nights were filled with lots of thoughts about a lot of things. It took months before i got over it. No one helped me over come it but myself. I was afraid of having a nervous breakdown and so glad I was able to get back on my feet and have lessened the "thinking" during the night.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
hi, i am glad, you are able to overcome that. yes it really makes us suffer from inside and one thought leads to many , and the link follows ,causing us disturbance.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
2 Nov 12
for sure it will guide us to grow beards and grey hair and the stress creeps in,well said
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
ohh yes, growing beard and grey hair surly follows with such kind of thoughts.So better we realize what is best for us.
@Manasha (2818)
• Pondicherry, India
2 Nov 12
Had we not think twice , we have to face problems in certain situations. So, we cannot say that thinking too much is not good
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
Its not about thinking twice, i said over thinking about unnecessary things. Too much of anything is not good for any one.
• India
2 Nov 12
Hi friend, you are right, thinking a lot will make us to be crazy, we must avoid unwanted thinking and do the needful. We must organize our thoughts and give priority to important things and avoid thinking about a thing and end up with another one, it is not worth for our time
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
yes, petty thoughts are real waste of time and energy and and cause a lot of mental stress . Disturbances in relationships too.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Nov 12
yeah it is good not to think much. some people i have also seen that they think unnecessary things and mostly all negative things and then it leads to different sicknesses. too much thinking is bad for health. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
14 Nov 12
yes too much of anything is not good for health, too much of thoughts leads us to negative ones and stress which results in sickness.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
3 Dec 12
Thinking too much creates some troubles or porblems. Here when we say thinking too much means overthinking is no good at all. You have well narrated the disadvantages of thinking too much. There are quite a lot of unnecessary problems due to overthinking. If we could think in a proper way, it would not create so many problems to us. Thanks for sharing us the nice discussion, prashu.
• India
15 Aug 21
It is not posible to control thoughts. One has to keep thinking and be aware of the thoughts, without judging any thought as right or wrong or good and bad. Just keep on with the flow and at the same time, be aware of the breath and the noises and environment around you.
• India
17 Nov 12
I write research papers in my field of specialization, examine PhD THESIS ETC, naturally i have to think a lot; one should not keep mind vacant, an idle mind is said to be a devils workshop ; well may i know, if you do some job?
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
1 Nov 12
Too much thinking is not good. At the same time lack of thinking is not good. We have a class of people who worry about the unknown future too much when it is not required. In terms of friends relationship too much expectations also cause lot of disappointment and too much thinking. Some people think too much and create further problems for others also. One can control thoughts by taking up some other work that is interesting--like mylotting, watching movies, writing stories, reading books etc
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
yes, worrying about unknown things is completely not necessary. Also expectations from others leads to disappointments , but can we live without any expectations? we expect some or the other at some point of time, i think its completely unavoidable. But expectations out of limit is not appreciable. Even mylotting cannot be done when we are seriously involved in some thoughts and disturbance in mind. As we need to use of mind here.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
1 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are right, there are many people who think too much about petty things. No doubt a deep thinking is utmost required for all the issues before we take out decisions but that does not mean thinking even on small issues as it reflects narrow mindedness and might not go well many people also. We should have a control over our thoughts and think wisely where it is required. What say?
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
2 Nov 12
yes friend, and by doing so, they sometimes leave the main problem and suddenly another problem arises, with this thinking. It is a mix of all, so proper thinking is always necessary.
• India
17 Nov 12
hello, in my view thinking is a good habbit but over thinking on a particular issue is dangerous.over thinking in some cases may lead to another problem. So friends think but dont over think. Cheers
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
17 Nov 12
yes friend you are right. Thinking is good but over thinking is dangerous,thinking is necessary in life.