"Good people make bad choices sometimes"

Yeah I agree with you. It is sad to see people taken advantage of over and over again. Hopefully your friend will be able to do better with his friendships. He obviously is a good person. And he was just trying to help her out. It's sad that she treated him this way. He will more than likely learn that we can only be so nice and then we have to set limits.

All of us make bad choices sometime or the other.. But to judge someone and stop talking to them is immature behavior.

I guess if the person keeps making the same mistakes, people get fed up. Now, if a friend of mine keeps getting conned by making the same bad choices, he or she deserves what he or she gets. I wouldn't stop being friends unless he/she kept moaning and groaning about it when he or she keeps putting him/herself into a bad situation.

Hi prashu! This thing happened because your friend, despite the warnings that you have made, still allowed the things to happen. There is a big difference when someone deceived you because you do not know it will happen from someone deceived you and you know it will gonna happen yet you still continue with it. Your friend must have realized already that he made a wrong choice and this is the time when he also needs his friends to be on his side. A true friend is one who would tell you that you are doing the wrong thing but even though you still do the wrong thing, still there to pick up the pieces with you. Have a nice day!

I agree that's a silly reason to stop being friends with someone. What I've noticed about some people is when they have a friend who is making really obvious mistakes and he complains about his situation all the time often people get tired of hearing about it. It doesn't make it right but I've seen it happen several times. Eventually the friends become tired of hearing someone complain about how miserable someone is and start avoiding them. Also some people tend to get frustrated too when they repeatedly give good advice and the person still stays in the same situation and complains. Again I personally wouldn't shut someone out of my life for making bad decisions, wanting to talk about their problems, and not listening to my good advice. Your friend actually reminds me somewhat of a guy I know. He has a gf of two years who insists he pays for her to live in a house 2 hrs away, tells him to buy her things all the time, complains about gifts, and makes him pay for bail everytime her children get arrested. (Which by the way happens a lot) Hes also in a trenendous amout of debt and has very little for himself. Oh, yeah and I almost forgot the best part. She is cheating on him. Match made in heaven don't you think? I'm still friends with this guy. The way I look at it is at least he has one good friend who cares about him. I hope one day he'll take my advice and find himself a women worthy of his time.

Yes, sometimes it happens. I am also a good boy, but i made so many wrong decisions in my life. Explain your friend in a better way, prove the truth. The people who stopped talking, one day will get the same moment in their life.

If your friend is helping someone, it really isn't anyone else's business. I agree with you that good people make bad choices. Maybe there is something being left unsaid. I would think if he is friends with her, there is a reason and another reason why he helps her. Maybe it makes him feel good helping someone else, maybe she makes him feel good about himself. I don't know why he would lose friends over this, really they have no right to judge whether he gives his money to someone else or whether he saves it or what ever else he might do with his money.

Hi prashu, I know that some people just take advantage of others and we can't let that continue to happen. However, I don't feel that anyone is unworthy of our help. Your friend did nothing wrong but he could not let this women continue to take advantage of him. As for the women, she too must learn no matter how long it takes. Blessings.

Poor guy sounds as if he was used by the girl and then really just dumped by his friends. That is a sad situation. Friends should be there through thick and thin.

On his case it is not about that he has bad choices but I think it is just about the feeling of he still wants to give a chance to a person and he can help as long as he can. But at times the experience can teach him a lesson on what to do in terms of helping. That is really true that good people make bad choices because of their experiences, situations and at times it makes them frustrated when they have done so good but in return it became worst.

Hi friend, i agree with you. I feel pity for your friend, his activity shows his innocence. As you mentioned most of your friends alerted him about that girl, but still he is believing her and helping her a lot. It shows his real affection, but this girl take it as an advantage and use him for her money needs. Shame on her, she must realize her fault. Keeping distance from your friend for this activity is not a good thing. I fully support your view

For some reason, the human existence was created not the perfect in its ways. Some people made choices but blinded with the real truth. I am sure your dear friend will realize what's really the truth behind of friendship out of money. Don't get tired of giving wisdom of thoughts to your friend.

I have several friends in the usa who are that way. Cant change them, Ive tried. have a great weekend there.

Well, your friend is really soft hearted, I can see that he is a good person. I think his friends should understand him , I don't know why they stop talking to him as he didn't do anything wrong to them though he made bad choice .

I can't know that I am good person, but I have knew that I were used by my best friend. The people who tricks to others are very jealous. He was jealous that my good communication with our mutual friends then frame up to me. It's abstract my tricking. However I am very happy ,because our mutual friends realized that he is bad person.

A lot of times. Good people make bad choices too especially in matters of the heart. I know of a very good lady who only goes to church, school, and home and who fell in love with an addict. This is just one example but there had been many cases of good people making bad choices.

ideally yes because i have seen so many guys making wrong and waste decisions often

I have heard of such friends who utilize or use their friends for their well being. Sometimes some of them do it for meeting their needs and they used to take the efforts at any extend, it doesn't matter it hurt anyone or not. I am much blessed becuase I do not met such a friend in my life. In my opinion such friendship should not grow in this world. The friends with such a naked attitude must be put alone. So that they will realize what is the need of a friend in their life

oh poor fellow. i agree with you that good people make bad choices at times. they are so good they can not believe that other person has bad intentions. Is he still with that girl? he must realize it now that she is using him. he will get hurt badly later. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

I also have friends like this, they're so kind to the point of being stupid. Sometimes even if all the warnings signs are already dangling right in front of them they would ignore it because they still pity the person who's trying to take advantage of them. They always tell me, that better they'd be the one who are being asked for help than for them to be the one needing it. I do understand their point sometimes, but of course I personally believe that in order for you to be able to help someone else, you should help yourself first. I do encourage them to help those who clearly needed it, and the help should come in the form that is really going to benefit the recipient. Sometimes though, they need to make their own mistakes in order for them to learn from it. So that next time, they wouldn't make the same bad choices, that they are already prepared to handle should the same situation presents to themselves.