What is your style in Marriage Life?

I don't know what you will call this type, i guess its No.6 Give and take. I've been with this relationship for 8 years now. I won't say its equality because we are not equal in terms of tasks, finances, duties and everything... For instance, we both work (equality) and I had much of the income rather than my husband. For the task, I do things that he can't do like budgeting, going to grocery.. We both took care of the kids we have (3). He takes care of our laundry, cooking. You might think this relationship will fall on No.4, but no, when we disagreed to anything and my husband got angry, I will be the one to lower down the voice and became submissive to him. that means he is still the boss. there are times that he wanted to go to his friends and drink and i will allow him. also he will do the same when i needed to go out for a party.. we are both free to go out and spend time with friends.. sometimes, i feel i am the dominant one in our relationship, but however, i felt different when talking of major problems and tasks. when extreme situations happen, he is still the one that decides and wins.. what can you say?

Before getting married, the partners should be ready to the next chapter of their lives. They need to be sure that they are really meant to each other. If it didn't work out, commonly taking to account for filing divorce. It will be convenient for the couple, but how about the children.