Men and Beer

See if you can maybe visit with the other wives during this time if you can instead of all of you being home alone. Maybe find a place where you can all go home when your husband does. I used to go and visit with other wives and I would either go home when I was ready or go home when the husband did. Nothing is worse than sitting around waiting for someone to come home, I used to wait up but it is no fun spending time with someone that has been drinking when you haven't. Find something that you like to do a lot and just go to bed instead of waiting up.

Thanks for this discussion, yes if he lives you alone, it is quite natural you feel neglected and ignored, as a couple passing more time together adds flavor to life

this is a inevitable combo and which cant be avoided ,men do it for various reasons like to beat boredom and get over the past

I had never seen such an approach or doing from my father or other relatives in my family. Most of them have a good touch with the family. They are well aware that drinking becomes a big thread to the happiness of the family and more over the society will see them as a bad one. More over it is really bad for health. Due to these reasons we, the males do not use to drink or smoke.

I think it is in the culture. It will be not fine if it is one regularly. We need to consider the health.

I know it is very irritating matter for womans, the reason is they want to spend only their evening time with their husbands. Because their husbands will go on duty or work on day time. If they do it regularly, they may completely unavailable for you. Sometimes My mother also facing the same problem with my Dad.