Waiting for love to find me...

November 3, 2012 1:31pm CST
I'm seeing someone but I don't think we're going to last. I don't feel the spark anymore. Do you guys have the same situation? Have you ever wonder who your prince charming is? I've been wondering about that since I was in high-school.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
3 Nov 12
oh my. if you do not feel the spark than do something about it. make th relationship interesting by doing things that you never did before. go out and talk. I hope things go better for you and you start feeling the spark again. I have found the prince also and we are doing good. he is my hubby. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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4 Nov 12
I want to do something but I don't know how. Every time I saw him nothing changed. I guess I'm sick of it because he always say I Love You to me. And it irritates me..
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
3 Nov 12
I am 50 years old I have not found my prince charming. I have longer and not looked! I had boyfriends. Nothing lasted. Thought that was what I needed and wanted. I wanted to ride off in the sunset with my prince charming. I know now it won't happen! I have given up on the thought! I am a lone and will be for the rest of my life and I am fine with that! That is what I needed all along!
4 Nov 12
You're not alone, you have friends right? me.... :) As long as you're happy you are not alone. God is always there watching over us...
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
4 Nov 12
It is great you don't have great expectations, maybe this is even the right person! They come when we least expect. Now if you accept an advice: don't create expectations. Humans will never be the way we projected them. They'll be worst and better in parts we didn't expect, and no one is perfect so we must learn to accept that person's flaws. I heard this advice that I always took with me and it helped me with the person I'm with: choose 5 qualities in him and stick with it, I found this. The rest could be flaws but we must to learn how to be thankful and love those 5.
10 Nov 12
It's great to have no expectations but my partner always ask me what I expects from him. So that he will change the way I want him to be. Is it even right? Changing personality is quite hard or even impossible. Honestly, I'm having a hard time accepting his personality right now. I don't know if I can take it.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
I think love happens all the time. It is just a matter of our choices that we make on what we decide. If we decide that the person that come to us is the one, then he or she will be. And love is just already there. Love is all around us, we just need to open our eyes about the possibilities of love and be open about it. Love lots my friend.
4 Nov 12
So, you mean we can still open our hearts when we are in a relationship?
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@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Nov 12
it is one the open secrets of human life that everyone on earth has some imagination about their lover. but some of them does not except this, but i am not one of those. yes i was also in the period when i am waiting for the someone who loves me unconditionally, someone who completes me and fill me with love. Someone who is mine and i could proud on her. at that time days were going so fast and everyday comes with new hope and that when i found mine princess was the one of most beautiful day of my life, and now i can tell you that i am not disappointed with her at all. she is just i thought and always will be like that. i will suggest you that friend do not only wait , do something for that and i am sure you will get your love and your wait will be over for whole life.
• Indonesia
9 Nov 12
I find good lover every decade in my life. Since I was in high school, my love sotry has begun. If I like some body I will try to speak honestly. Some times I get bad response but I don't want to be lose and try to fight to get my true love. It was hard but always keep me smile if I remember it again
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
When you feel that there is no more spark then it means that love between you and your partner is dying. It happens when you doesn't feel anymore excitement or felt bored with your partner. You may settle this matter- why not sit down and talk with him by heart.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
It is difficult to be having this mask of trying to be nice to a person whom you think you can be with forever then you suddenly realize that he wasn't Mr. Right after all. I think you should be honest to tell the person that you'd rather just have him as your friend. Don't go thinking about when will the right person to come. Just do things you need to do. Keep yourself busy. Before you know it, he might be just a few steps away from you.