He was not worth your heart

China
November 4, 2012 2:38am CST
Once in a short time,we thought we deeply loved the man,afterwards,we know that was not love,just a lie to ourselves in our lonely times. Those who you thought you would never lost,still abandoned you. You dried all of your tears out for him,but there's another one try to make you laugh. You cry your heart out for him,then you find that he does not love you,he was not worth your heart.
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10 responses
• India
4 Nov 12
Actually we are the responsible for our pain. And we give the blame to other. We always love someone whom we will choose, whom we will love. But we never try to love somebody who loves us more than us. Because everybody has thought about a particular dream person. And we never see that person who doesn't match with our dream person.
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• China
4 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment my friend, that's true, we always easily love those who don't love us but neglect those who love us. It is really a pity. Have a nice day!:)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 12
Do waste your time for relations hip like this. Try to find other man that can support you any time you need him. Still many man out there that can ready sacrifice his soul for you. Keep patient and be careful when you choice your best man. And remember about no body perfect, just keep try to find him
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• China
10 Nov 12
Thanks for your reply my friend, I believe there's a man waiting for us in some corner of this world.Have a nice day.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Maybe it is because you have love the wrong person. Yes, it's really sad when we lost someone after giving all our best. But- I always tell myself that I don't have anything to regret after losing someone. As long I have given and shown all the best that I can give- then, I have nothing to regret for. If someone I love turns his back away from me- he is not my lose, but he lost me.
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• China
6 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment jaiho,we should not be regret,maybe it is not we lost him,but he lost us.Enjoy your day!
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
I have experienced such things with my ex-boyfriends. We learn from relationships. There are people not worthy of us and we just have to know in time our worth and learn to respect and love ourselves too before looking for another love. A person who think that they need a boyfriend to be happy again is misguided.
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• China
6 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment my friend,you are riht,anyway we should respect ourselves. Enjoy your day!
• Bangladesh
6 Nov 12
Hi Gretchen, I cant help getting moved at your life oriented philosophies. These are deep realisations of life, life's incapabilities and limitedness, we acquire from the runs of our life. We cant get this realisation as not any already readymade ones. These all help consolidate our life and help get perfection of life. But that does not mean we can borrow these experience from others. Because these experience was of a certain time and space that is not similar to mine Im in and not as just right as we require to beat my time and space. And yes there is none to love us or Im not there to love others. Actually we dont know who we are, what we want, what we have to do as if we just a parnoid or any congenital idiot. Stay well.
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• China
6 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment, my friend.I like your sharing, in order to make our life perfect,our heart should be strong first.Enjoy your day!
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Nov 12
you're puling strings again, Gretchen. Lovely post. we all fall into this trouble. Why should you be bringing back old memories that should be left in the waste basket of memories and time? I think this deserves three stars rating, Gretchen.
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• China
6 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment mydanods,all of us have a colorful memory,that's the present God give us, we should cherish it. Enjoy your day,my friend!
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
4 Nov 12
If he is not the kind of person worth your love, there is no need to develop relationship, but you may remain general friendship with him. This way, you won't get hurt if you know he is not the type of person for a relationship. Enjoy your life.
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• China
4 Nov 12
That's reasonable,wasting time with those who don't love us is not good for the two, maybe keep a general friendship is not a bad choice.Thanks my friend.Enjoy your day!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
We must have loved a person at the wrong time. But it doesn't always happen that he was the biggest lie that you had in your life. Sometimes, things could just not work because of issues you had.
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• China
4 Nov 12
Thanks jenny,yes,sometimes things not so worse as it appears, sometimes it depends on what we thougt,we give things special meanings.Enjoy your day!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
20 Dec 12
hi, indeed,heart always easily fall in love when someone show that we are special to them,in the first we really feel the love but in the end we gradually feel and experience the hurt and pain and realize that love is not really worth it.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
You must be responsible enough with your feelings. Choose whom to love and who will accept your love. In love we should take the risk and that is to be hurt.
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• China
4 Nov 12
That's reasonable we should keep two eyes open before we decided to give our love to him.Have a nice day kokomo!