What do you & your partner talk about when you have a heart to heart talk?

We usually talk about his family and ours. Well, I always thought that we are not building our own family, but ours is an extension of his family. Most often, I would comment on how his family is taking too much of our time for each other. Whenever they have gatherings, his relatives would always tell me, oh you're not getting any younger, you should be pregnant by now, etc. They would give advice as to how to do it. Then my in laws and other people who lives near our house would say yeah yeah that's what we're telling them. But seriously, we can't even find a good timing for everything. My office is far from our home and so I live so early and arrive home so tired already. Whenever we are in the mood, someone would open the door downstairs and would call my husband. I really think that they don't understand. Before, my husband won't mind at all but yesterday, after my sister in law go directly upstairs and let his child open our room, I saw that my husband was so upset as we're really trying our best to have some time together so we could have a baby the soonest. They really have no idea.

Most of the time like you it is usually about bills and finances and trying to figure out things, but there are many times, like you, that we just talk, reminiss and remember.

I think the main thing that me and my partner talk about right now is things that we'd like in the future. Like what kind of house we want, how we would discipline and raise our children. Stuff that if it happens unexpected we can be prepared for. We are young and don't have much to worry about right now. We are just preparing ourselves for the things that we will worry about later so that we can be better prepared!

Usually it's about us, what do we feel about something that's going on for us, or on our family, his side and my side. Sometimes we talk about our jobs and our frustrations, our plans and how it would affect our long term plans as a married couple as well as our finances.

My husband and I used to have these talks often. problems was he would always say the same thing. That he was going to stop drinking a get a good job. he never did. So I left him. No more heart to heart talks with him.

In depend situation, If we are in good mood we will talk about romantic thing. Something like How will we go to dinner tonight, or maybe where will we go in weekend to spent our holiday time. But most we talk about something happen that day in office or home.