does listener really liseten or pretending

I could say you are a good listener as you tried to listen to your judgment first before actually believing one's statement. Now, listening to other problems/concerns and pretending to care is another story and you can simply tell who is faking it or not by just observing their attitude towards it.

hi , i have found some people who really pretend as if they are listening but actually they don't.Its so hurting when we find such people ,whom we believe are acting/pretending with us. So we should think twice before sharing anything with others.

A good listener is a good reactor. When someone interact in the discussion or in the speaker he or she is a good listener. But of course it defends upon the topics that you want. You can participate to that topic if you are interested with it. When you listen to the speaker you may be a good listener.

A listener is someone who is interested to know what the other person is telling. How can you be a listener if you really don't listen?

Listening I have learned over the years has two definitions. 1) A person listens but doesn't really hear what you say. 2) A person listens and actually hears what you say. If someone really isn't listening you will know because if you ask for a response they won't be able to answer you.