Why most of us complicate life?

I agree with you! Many people used to make their lives too complicated when in fact, there's nothing to be complicated about if they just do the things that should be done. :)

I agree with you! For the past days, something is bugging me and my husband and I had some exchange of words. I was deeply hurt with the things that he said and didn't realize that he is capable of saying them to me. I let it pass, but deep inside very much hurting. For 2 days, I barely ate. I felt my chest was about to burst. I didn't know what to do. But I just want to feel fine. Last night, I curled up in bed and hugged him. No words said but I have just let him feel that despite everything, I still love him. Then this morning, while reading a discussion here at Mylot, I felt the sudden urge of texting him. We don't text everyday. Only when needed. So this morning i just sent him a simple message: "I love you". It made me feel good and got even better when he replied.

You are right. We have to try so that we won't regret in the future. We should not waste our time. Life is too short. We have to enjoy it to the fullest. We are responsible in making our lives complicated.

People have too many fears. Fear of rejection and getting hurt, fear of failure and alienation, fear of being lonely and not loved. That's why some people rush into marriage-for fear of being lonely. Fear is a great weapon. However, I try not to fear for I have understood unconditional love and faith in God conquer fear. Fear itself is actually what we should fear the most.

Im dealing with something like that here. I have a friend ( a close one) in a near by state here. He went back home a few months ago and promised to call and e mail me often. So far almost 2 months and nothing heard from him. Im worried, even though he has don et his before. Sure bothers me though.

We live no longer. I will try to be honest to any one. If there was a problem, I try to finish it immediately. No hidden word. No complicated life. If I don't like to something, I will ask them to don't do it again. I want to be live with no problem. Just be cool and enjoy our life

yes, some complicate life because of fear and some because of what they wanted. we fear to do the good things and sometimes easily do the bad thing.

Most of us do not have a complicated life. Some people have others don't. Sometimes we have complications but in many cases they solve themselves and it's just a period in our lives. I believe that most people who do always have the same kind of complications or problems. So it's a good thing to invest that and ask yourself: what do I need to change to not bump into these complications anymore? Only if you know yourself, if you change, your life will change. So they are there for a good reason. They are lessons we have to learn to develop ourself. And if it comes to love, feelings, what is going on in your mind, I can only agree with you. Say what you feel, think, want. No matter if other people like to hear it, believe it. Express yourself. This is very important (no matter if you get a positive respond) otherwise it will eat you more.

Well, people differ from one another. Some people want to complicate their lives, some want to simplify life. These are choices to make. And you are right. Keep it simple. God Bless