Do you still have the same beliefs as your parents did?
By 34momma
@34momma (13882)
United States
November 8, 2012 10:46am CST
Growing up my family didn't really follow a relgion or a way of life. Yes we believed in God and my grandfather use to go to church sometimes, but that was about it.
I have been searching for a relationship with God for all of my life. I converted to Judaism about 15 years ago. At first it was very healing for me. I think more because it gave me something to be apart of. After a while, I just didn't connect with the message. I didn't want to be seprate from everyone else. or teach my kids that they were better then others or choosen... it was all so confusing.
Well i started my journey again and I must say I finally found what I needed. After reading Creative Meditation... It changed my life! I now have the relationship I always wanted with God and it feels amazing!
Do you still follow your families beliefs or have your found your own path to God?
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8 responses
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
8 Nov 12
My mother has always believed in God.. We were members of a couple different churches as I was growing up.. But we moved around quite a bit so there wasnt really any speific religion that we followed.. I havent found a speific church to go to; I am not sure when I will join one.. I have some of her believe but not all of them.. I have also added beliefs from other people along the way.. So basically my many beliefs are a little of this and a little of that.. To create my own belief system..
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I have been there myself. I don't belong to a church. God dwells in each of us. There is no need to go to church. You just have to sit in silence and focus on God. Just be full of happiness and joy and never take anything that happens personally. that's how you have a real relationship with God.
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@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
9 Nov 12
From my own reading in the bible it stats that we should meet others and spread the word of God.. It does not speically state that you have to go to a "church".. I read the bible to my boys every night before bed.. We talk about God and pray together.. We share our faith by helping others.. Nowadays if you are what they call a "bible thumper" a person may get turned off and actually get angry.. So I share the word, and Gods love in my own way..
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@habibti320 (925)
• United States
9 Nov 12
Definitely not!
This has been an issue for me. My parents are evangelical Christians and church planters/pastors. My whole childhood and early adulthood was spent learning about the Bible, missionaries, and trying to get everyone around us to believe this way in order to become "better people". Church planting caused us to move about every 3 years, so it was hard for me to really get a taste of the world outside of my family. We lived in poor, violent neighborhoods where it was easy to see that following God changed people.
However, I no longer think that God had anything to do with it, but that a belief in hope, positive people, support, and inertia was what really helped people change their situation.
I have given serious consideration to Islam, Hinduism, mysticism, etc. but about a year ago I realized that I am happiest as an atheist. I don't need a belief in God or the supernatural in order to make sense of the world and my experiences. I also love knowing that there is so much more to be learned through science!
This has caused some tension since I am always around religious people (Christians, Muslims, and HIndus!), but at the end of the day they respect me for my lifestyle. :)
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
9 Nov 12
When "religion" is forced on people, most people grow up to totally turn their backs on it all together. which is what happened with you. I don't follow any relgion. I knw and understand my relationship with God. and it's not some mysteries person floating in the sky. God is energy. God is positive thoughts and love. God is doing the right thing all the time. God is being a servant leader and helping others. God is forgiviness to everyone all the time.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Nov 12
I also do not like religion forced on others..makes me feel sick. There is a history of Goa whereby it was ruled by Portugal once and my hubby says that people were forced to be Christians and this was like hundreds of years ago. Goa today has a lot of Catholics and some of them are always very bad and think they are the superior. I don't like it. My mother in law is like that. We must not forget we are all humans. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
9 Nov 12
I don't understand how you are drawing those conclusions. I know that's what I would have liked God to be a few years ago, and I thought that I was better than other Christians who were dogmatic and thought that their way was the best way. I just felt that I was taking too much of a leap from what was "revealed" knowledge. If God is real and wants us to worship him and follow him, I think he should make it more clear to ALL people so that they make a willing choice to follow or not to follow. I also think he shouldn't penalize people who didn't follow him with such a harsh punishment, especially given such confusing revelations.
I am happy where I am, and I want to encourage anyone who is questioning that it is okay to do it. Being an atheist doesn't mean being an immoral person or being hateful. It just means not having to follow something you aren't comfortable with.
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I grew up in church, as a matter of fact, I was going to church nine months before I was born, so I grew up in the church, but I didn't grow in the church. It wasn't until I got outside of the ceremonies and traditions of the church that I realized I had the same beliefs but I believed differently. I know Jesus is my savior and I don't think we really know it until we have to call on him. We can raise our children in the church but we cannot protect them from life. My children know God through our example, we live what we preach because kids can see fake a mile away. Some of my family have turned their backs on God while I have drawn closer to him because of what they've shown themselves to be.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Nov 12
I don't know really what the believe of my parents are. They are both raised with a believe (not the same) and I know my dad was suddenly not believing anymore (I doubt he ever did). At a certain point he decided to believe or at least he put a bible next to his bed preaching around (although he was not and still is not a great example of how one should live and love and respect). I think the elder you get or the more life experiences you get the more you know. It's a good thing to discover and develop yourself. If the beliefs your parents raised you with are not working for you, there is no need to hold close to it. If everybody would be the same there wouldn't be so many different beliefs. I am surely not a christian or believing in what my parents (once?) believed or still believe or claim to believe if they are in need. I am also not a person that needs a god (esp not if he is male and looks down on women) to have a better life. I don't waste my time with praying, hoping for the best. If it's worth to me I am active, I go for it, fight for my rights. I also don't need a hero or someone to rescue or save me. I also never had an idol or someone I would call my great example. I will not blame anyone else if I fail or things don't work out the way I want or wanted or expected. And if I succeed I thank myself since I worked very hard for it and I can be proud at what I did for me, or my kids.
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@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
8 Nov 12
As for religious beliefs, I still sharekind of the same ones with my parents. But not because I trust them so much that I don't think about it, but after several years of thinking and pondering opinions and evidences.
I myself don't believe in religions and that we as humans could get to know the supernatural power which created us/the earth. I don't know if my parents believe in a supernatural power as me, but I do know they're not religious, and nor am I.
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@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
8 Nov 12
My mother sent me to Sunday School but neither of my parents attended church. Just as I was getting bored with Sunday School a new pastor started a Youth Club so I stayed in contact with church. When I was 15 the church took a group of people to hear Billy Graham preach. That night I decided to ask Jesus into my heart, which was how it was described in those days. My life as a Christian began at that point and continues to this day. Both my parents and my brother later made their own decisions.
I am pleased to hear your good news, although I have not heard of Creative Meditation but whatever this is it has evidently been what you needed and led you to a relationship with God. Thank you for sharing.
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@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
My parents and I, including my wife have the same spiritual beliefs, I was raised as a Catholic and remained to be one and doing our best to observe what is being expected of us as long as I live. We may have different beliefs here in this discussion but we are one in enriching our spiritual lives. I respect whatever beliefs you and our fellow mylotters have right now. Thanks
@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Nov 12
My parents were converts and i love what they chose. I do believe the the Lord and My family goes to church and prays to the Lord. I follow the same. I do as my family does. It is good to have a connection with God. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.