Insensitivity

The fact that it was intended as a joke, doesn't mean he is immature, right? In cases like this, i think the matter of weighing things that are to be said depends most likely on his perception of the incident and it was probably some sort of a defense mechanism against criticisms and alike. I have seven sons given to me, and i do make some jokes about them being too many as sort of a way to redirect others notion of me having too many children, ok? We are all unique in so many ways and personality-wise we tend to be who we are and what we want to be. so, in this case, i think is a joke gone wrong, and it's your opinion that it was wrong, but we should never judge a person by a simple mistake especially if it was meant to be a joke.

I just want to voice out my opinion. I did not judge a person and this is not a case of being self-righteous. I was hurt on what he said for that woman. It is painful for women on what he said. I'm calling out to some people that one should be careful on what one is saying and not making something a joke that hurts. This not being judgmental thing; i want some people to be aware of it.

I don't think what he said was really right. He was immature and boasting and satisfying his ego. This is not a case of self righteous, what I'm pointing is one should weigh what one is going to say. What he said, is really wrong. Children are gifts from God.

yes, he should know by now what his wife likes and dislikes. He got a good slap .Hope he realized his mistake.

yeah that was good slap he got and following was break up, he must have got a shock of his life..

That is right. However, I'm not saying all of them, some are still serious or know what they are talking about. Thanks for your response.

That is my point. I want some people to be aware of it or be careful on what they are saying. Not everything can turn into a joke. Thanks for yout response.

That is my point too. To some, everything is a joke, even if it hurts. It's kind of flow of trends now. Unlike the good old days, people have respect for each other. Thanks for your response.

Yes, I agree. I admired the wife too for what she had done. I hope the husband would realize his mistakes.

Yes, that is my point. One should think first before they speak. I mean there are a lot of youngters like that nowadays because for them its a joke. However, I do not mean all of them, some are serious too. Thanks for your response.

yeah it is a behavior pattern that stays with a person throughout their life.. not good behavior at all. Life is not a joke yeah. well said lovingmybay!

Thanks for your response. I just want to clarify that not all young adults are insensitive, I wrote, "some." There are young adults who are serious as well in their lives.

Baby is the best present sent by God, I am not willing to be joked by everybody around me, especially my husband! respect life is the basic norm that everyone should abide by!

Yes, I mean not all youngster are like that. Some are serious too in their lives. Thanks for your response.

There are grown people too like that however what I mean is because of this new age we have right now, a lot of youngters would like to keep on the flow but not all of them, I mean a lot, because they want to be in trends, even in their languages are different now, they have their own languages in calling names the other people, that is what I noticed. And they do not care if one will be hurt. My point is one should think first before one should speak. Thanks for your response.