Have you been hurt?

hi LMB, I have a neighborhood that every time she sees me she will comment that I am a fat one and I was annoyed with her remarks as she is more fatter than me one time I told her that our refrigerator is always and I end up eating all the time. Some people are tactless and doesn't think first before saying something towards other. happy mylotting

i think of a word after saw what you said .NO HURTED,NO GROW UP!

hi LovingMyBabies yes about a year ago a my lotter told me she hated my discussions about mylot and thought I was just too harsh and mean and on and o n like that. It made me so angry I forgot about no flaming and I let go of my anger with her hence both our responses and comment were deleted. next time someone insulted me I just reported her a d let my lot admins handle it which they did and felt I had been wronged so her responses all four mean and hurtful were deleted.Its just so awful when someone here does that to you as its sneaky and cowardly because they are hiding behind their computer. I know that they would never have the guts to say it t o your face.

Through time, I've learned how to be rough-skinned. Sometimes you have to develop this in order for you to live through life without getting strayed for nonsense. There are some things that will trigger your anger but are not really meant for you. You can't just tell them to stop it since it's not really directed to you, so all you can do is nothing. You can't even react to it if it's not really that big of a deal. All you can do is get over it.

hi LovingMyBabies Dear friend, I have a short term memory when it comes to remembering things which have been hurtful for me. So definitely not in the recent past. But unfortunately, these past few days I have some unidentified problem which has made me feel irritated and behave hurtingly for no reason at all. I had been to the doctors but the blood pressure and other results were okay to them. I dont understand the why of this for now.

i think we should remind he/she that hurtme,however he/she isn't deliberate. Because there is something subconcious what isn't the same as they said,

Aww sweety, so sorry that happened to you. I dom know what it's like. It's the kind of hurt that makes you terribly sad. A lot of the time you will feel that way because of something someone didn't say. Try to rise above it my friend. It's a harsh world sometimes.

I have heard a lot of bad things told by a few about me. I did not bother confronting them. I feel that i do not need any explanations to them. I can live my life without them. And I know that the reason why they were saying those was because they were envious of my situation that time. And so I get to thinking, these people are sour graping.

Well I guess every people have been hurt. And I assumed that you're not a normal person if you haven't experienced being hurt by someone or something yet. :)

Sometimes, there are really people who will hurt us despite the fact that they don't want to hurt us because we do differ in principles and perspective in life. Of course I experienced this kind of feeling sometimes I let it go and sometimes I tell the person who hurt me unintentionally, that I was hurt by what he/she did. Depends upon the situation.

It happens for so many times, but I didn't dwell from it. I just move on and ignore the fact that they cause inner pain. Life is like that, we need to feel the pain and be stronger from it.

It happens mostly to people who can relate to that "something". Though it wasn't intended for you, you feel the same pressure inside you, I bet it is what they call paranoia(?). I don't see bad being paranoid sometimes, 'coz part of it is being sensitive to your surroundings. The good thing about it, is that- it won't give you hurtful surprises tomorrow. You are already prepared to others judgment on you. The defense mechanism inside us are the ones hurting us. It's more on having an argument "unconsciously" with your own self. You wanted to defend yourself from something "that SEEMS to appear as YOU" though it wasn't directly you.

Its happened to me. I say let it go IF they really didn't mean it and they probably don't know they hurt you. I would address it if it something they do all the time towards me but not at me!! If they didn't mean it, no sense making a big deal of it. If they do it on a regular basis I would think they are deliberately speaking to me without directly speaking to me and in that case i would say something.

yes my cousin and her mum talking about finding a job and i was their me and my cousin both have the same degree my cousin told her mum that she will work rather than like me who just staying at home after got a degree well its hurt they dont understand my situation so i told her never compare your self to other but you can put your self on their shoe, i had my degree ages ago but last year until now i am just stuck at home well not working but continue my dad shop he die last year and no one will do it and no one will looking after my old mom who have heart problem i want to have my doctorate degree but still dont know when because of my situation and some of my cousin hurt me by telling things that why i am still at home they get far i am still nothing it hurt

This is actually an ongoing problem of mine. I think that the more I get older, the more sensitive I am becoming. I feel that I get hurt by what some people carelessly say. I'd like to think that I don't let it bother me, and that I don't show it, but deep down it does get hurtful. I'm always trying to teach myself to ignore it/them. I hope you're learning too.

hi, yes,i have been hurt so much in my past love life,i have been in relationship in five guys and they were all serious relationship,of course while experiencing that i was silent and can't talk to someone especially when it was fresh in my mind.

I know words can hurt if you internalize them. The words may not be directed at you or anyone else, personally, but if you take the words to heart they can hurt. I think you were offended once by something I said. I don't even remember what it was, but I felt bad at your reaction, because I didn't intend to hurt you. I was hurt more than once by a friend and I felt it was best that we part ways. I can live them from a distance and not offend them and they can't offend me.

I would say this kind of things happens all the time. Most people are not good at talking. Perhaps they have certain things that they want to express but they always express it in a manner or choice of words which implies certain implicit meaning. I had experience such things quite often. In fact, my girlfriend did that a lot and I always explain to her what she implied when she said certain things.

I have been hurt by other people, it is really hurt in heart. I have also hurt others, I knew it, because I was so upset or angry. Hurt makes us grow up faster. Be mature to accept hurt and forgive people and things. Hope us happy everyday!