does love need to be measure?

Philippines
November 13, 2012 6:53am CST
how much do you love your partner? do your really measure the love he/she given you? does it matter to you?this is just about the girl who keep asking her partner how much the guy love her and the guy keep saying i love you so much and the girl keep asking how much the girl is not contented with the answer and she feel upset until the rain comes and the man ask the girl to go out the house bring everything to get water because he have a surprise after the girl brought lots gallon excited then the rain stop the girl is wet and asking the partner what is the gift shes excited waiting the man answer i love you with all my heart i cant measure how much its like rain in heaven all the water that you didn't catch by your gallon and by your hands is how much i love you
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12 responses
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Oh, that man is so sweet. We can't really measure LOVE. Sometimes we can't even define love. LOL. We know that we love someone so much and they also love us very much. One day, we'll realize how much we love them and how much they love us. Maybe one proof is that when the person you are with won't leave you especially when you are at your worst and vice versa. Loving is being with each other, fighting all trials in life. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
If the man really loves us he cares for us .Loving someone doesn't only end in caring and sweetness but how you support each other in times of difficulties.And conflict is a part of a good relationship because that will make us strong person.
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• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I do agree with you. We should be with each other especially when we are in times of difficulties. We should support each other. Arguments will strengthen our relationship. We just have to settle them down. We are two different people with different point of views. We should meet halfway. Couples should stay with each other for better or worse. Thanks for the comment and happy mylotting.
• China
13 Nov 12
Nice sharing,we always say "I love you", but not all of us know what is love. Love really not from our mouth,but from our heart,our behavior,and care about each other. Enjoy your day!
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
very true words is not always enough
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I agree, love really comes from our hearts and how we care for the person.It's a sacred word that we must not used for fun..
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
I don't think that love can be measured, the usual thing to know is how it was expressed. It is the love without condition. There is no other way to have invasive tools to measure the word love.
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
love in unconditional no measurement that's what i think i wrote it because there are people who measure love because they dont know how to love
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I love my husband very much and I feel the same way too. But I don't think it is right o measure someone's love. How could you do it then? through time, money, material things, physical attraction? I don't think these things can measure love. Exactly love can't be measured of. I love to ask hubby if he loves me and he knows too that when I asked him that it means I want him to do something for me like make me coffee or get me a glass of water. :)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
yes love doesn't need to be measure just show your love everyday
• United States
14 Nov 12
What an interesting way to describe the fathomless depths of one's love for another. I don't think you can measure true love. G-d's love for mankind is thought to be as much as the distance between East and West. In other words, it cannot be measured. I believe I must agree. Just like the rain water that was not captured into the containers could not be measured.
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
love is unconditional love is countless we dont need to measure or scale the love if someone measuring love mean they dont know how to love
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
13 Nov 12
How can you measure love? Hmm... does it have size? How big it is? These are all questions that popped in my head after reading your romantic post. Love can not be weighed, measured or quantified. It's has to be infinite no end. "I love you but" or "I love you if you..." Love has no buts and no ifs. However, it ends when someone start counting how much love she/he gives and reasoning out the she/he gives more than her/his partner did.
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
We can't really measure love for love is unconditional,and the greatest love is a love that has no boundary between lovers.We can love without asking from the person whom we love.If we truly love a person we will not count how much love he give us but love him from our hearts.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
That was a sweet way of saying how much a guy loves her girl. But it is really impossible to measure how much. I think if you love a person, he makes you happy, gives you respect, understands you, is always on your side during your worst and best, I think that would say it all.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 12
Everybody is measuring love sooner or later. If you are the only one always loving, caring, giving up and in, making compromises, forgetting about yourself, your own goals, wishes and dreams for your life, if you are taken for granted you will feel empty in the end. Since love = energy. Energy can't be taken away only or given for free whole time. There needs to be given something back ... sooner or later. And that is why people measure even if they claim they are not. And that is also why love makes so many people feel unhappy, confused, lonesome. They forget to love themselves first which is necessary to go on, to feel great. If you just wait for someone else to do so you might be waiting forever.
• India
14 Nov 12
Hi friend, there is no scale available to measure the real love as well as it is impossible to measure the real love. No one have the ability to measure about the quantity of their love, The guys example is good to measure his love, as it is really hard to measure the rain water.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
13 Nov 12
I dont think it needs to be measured. its there or its not. maybe some people feel ones lover doesnt give enough love out. But... remember everyone love sin a different way.
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
people express love different way and its fine as long as they dont hurt they partner but in love its hard to say we wont get hurt the only thing is sure when your inlove we dont need to measure it just be happy
@lizlee (208)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I don't think its right to measure the love of your partner to you. I mean, do your love depend on how much love you'll get in return? For me, I just love my husband without any questions or measurement. I could show him how much I love him and how important he is to me. And I feel the same way with his feelings for me. Love is a feeling that cannot be measured. For me its an expression. So love without questions and without measurement I say.
@mistika1 (82)
• Romania
14 Nov 12
Love is love. Exist or not. For me is very important to give love, and soon or later you will receive love. I don t like to ask my lover "do you love me?"...just because i want he show me, not say to me.....is nice when somebody tell you "i love you", but can be boring to ask every second; do you love me? For me love is just love, feelings, not words.