Amalayer - new victim of Cyberbullying...

I believe her reaction was wrong, I will not try to justify her actions as well. What I hate about the entire story is that they perceive the lady guard as an innocent helpless victim. I believe that the lady guard just met her match, I also believe the girl's version of the story is true, that the guard was rude and even tried to man handled her. I mean here in the Philippines, I am sure that many if not everyone has been mistreated by someone who is a person of authority. It is very common I'm sure, so in my opinion, (no offence meant to anybody) and this just me and my opinion, the girl was wrong and the lady guard also was wrong and deserved what she got from the girl.

I heard it from a co-worker earlier and just watched the video a few minutes ago. I went in here to check if there are new discussions about her and I wasn't mistaken. I really wanted to know why the lady acted that rude. I am thinking with what I have just seen is that the lady guard must have done something that made the "jaime" ( i think that was the name of the girl) so mad. The guard must have been already too stressed with work and with the many people coming in and out of the station maybe that was why she was not able to addressed the girl properly. The girl on the other hand, maybe not in the mood, was already pissed by the crowd might have cause that rude reaction. Even so, she told the lady guard "my pinagaralan ako" she went to school, for that alone, I believe, she should have reacted like a civilized educated lady. They could talk it in private so as not to cause attention. She could have not been in the news, in social networking sites, youtube and so on if she handled it in an educated manner. I feel sorry for her, and it just gives us all a lesson. Even if we were not able to go to school, we can still try to handle things in a calm and civilized way. We can't really stop the people from taking videos if in the first place, we don't try to make a scene.

I'm also disappointed with whomever recorded the incident, and the people getting into the bandwagon. It would've been acceptable for me if the entire incident was shown, but I guess this person only wanted the 'juicy' stuff. I mean, I for one don't know what had happened before this girl lambasted the lady guard. Maybe both were at fault. But people already passed judgment without knowing both sides of the story.

Well, she did made a mistake by creating that attention. Am not aware how it all started, but the thing is, she doesn't have to react that way. And look what happened now? A lot took advantage over her "mistake" and had to drag her all over the internet.

i saw this video in Facebook and it has been the trending video ever since it was started to be uploaded. I know it is really a disgusting scene at first because of the girl shouting towards the lady guard. at first I read "Amalayer" in tweeter but I didn't know it is a scene from the LRT station. A lot of pinoy net users reacted over the girl majority of it are hates towards the actions of the girl. Since the video started a shout scene we couldn't know what exactly happens between them, how did it started. So I think we don't have the right to accused the girl immediately since there is two sides of a true story.

i saw the link of this video in a forum and the title say passenger berates lady guard if i remember it right. i just feel like pople judge "amalayer" with what they saw. please don't forget that the video did not catch why "amalayer" reacted that way. there are two sides of the story and i think she deserves to be heard.

I guess saying her side of the story would lighten things up for her but I think there are still other bashers who take advantage of this. I think it is a harsh lesson for her to learn that education, position in life is not a good basis to disrespect anyone no matter how small or big the person you will insult. It is always best to hold your temper and the choice of words when dealing with other people. The technology is just around everywhere where your action can easily be taken by unsuspecting strangers and misinterpreted that easy and be the new target for the net bashers. If the guard was fault, then I guess the best that she could have done was complain to her superior and not doing her own ranting in front of the public which caught attention of everybody. This is somehow similar with the one caught bashing a defenseless MMDA traffic enforcer doing his job.

Well, even if not right to bully someone else. That lady should think also that way when she bully the lady guard in front of many people. She is pretty good enough because she is not bullied in front of many people. Those people didn't know her and she don't know them...

we can come up with all kinds of justifications on our behavior when we lose our temper and that girl is no exception. maybe I would sympathize if she spoke in the local dialect as that would mean she's real angry but being "kunyo" for the most part of it makes me think that she's practiced her lines beforehand and she did a great job, that is, annoying anyone who watch the video.

I think she deserves it. Too bad that she has to learn her lesson the bad way...By the way,I like the parodies of the original video.

In my opinion, she learned her lesson the hard way. I mean do you really have to behave that way in public? Do you really tell others that you are an educated person and should be treated fairly? Everybody should be given respect regardless of their education. With what she has done, I think that she's the one who caused humiliations to herself. It is just sad that it is not only her, the guards, or the people present that time would know about what happened, but people around the world. If the guard did grabbed her, I think that the guard just did her job. Amalayer did not passed through security inspection and therefore should not be allowed to enter. Should we really allow someone to just passed through without inspection given the fact that they are educated? I don't think so. It is for our own safety and it is the security guard's job to make sure everyone would be inspected before going in. I honestly think that the way she behave is improper. She could have just filed a complain against the guard if she really feels that the guard disrespect her. Does LRT have a video of the incident where the said guard did grabbed this girl? I am sure there are passengers who saw the incident and can prove that the guard did not behaved properly. But still, why on earth she just go straight without being inspected? If I were the guard, I would not also let her in. That's part of my job. I know that she is really having a hard time because the video was all over the internet. Now, her mother and the rest of her family would know what she has done. I wonder what the mother would say? Because if it was my mom, definitely she won't take my side. I am sorry but she would never tolerate that kind of behavior. We should always be careful on how we behave and treat other people especially in public and with the technology we have at present if we do not want to put ourselves in this kind of situation.

She said in an interview that the issue might have been resolved PRiVATELY, but how can it made private if she was there shouting in PUBLIC? I just felt bad for both of them (amalayer and the lady guard).

I have seen this video a day earlier and I don't give a dime to this kind of video. This is a one sided video and does not reflect what really transpire between the lady guard and the girl. Although obviously from the video that she clearly over reacted thousands of netizens have no right to insult the girl for what has happened because they did not see the whole story. Wish the one who shot and uploaded this kind of one sided story to be more careful and should cover both side to give justice to all concern. Have a nice day. Ciao!

I saw that video and have my share of emotion too. Actually, I can have the same anger too but would definitely not react the way she does. I could probably look into the eyes of the lady guard with a killer look like telling her I like to punch you in the face look, and would say something not polite... but not in a nagging way. hahaha. I just hope though that it won't happen to me.

She is irritating on that video for sure but I feel sorry for her, for all the negative attentions drawn to her. For sure something triggered her to be angry and made her to react like that but too bad she was caught on cam. Everyone should be careful now on how to react and should control their temper to prevent being another victim of cyberbullying, yes it is definitely cyberbullying what the netizens been doing to her. I think this issue will die down especially if there would be a new controversial video, unfortunately people will likely remember it even after a long time I guess.

This was the first time I've seen this recording and I find it disturbing in more ways than one. First, I feel really bad that a college student (or is she a college student?) can speak to a person older than her in such a manner. I find it so ironic that she said "Ate, may pinag-aralan akong tao!" while her words are telling otherwise. However, this one-minute recording does not tell the whole story - something might have happened that caused the girl to react rudely or whatever. Unfortunately for the girl, whether or not she was just provoked or whatever, the social network has already made her such an undesirable character. I do not blame the people netizens for blasting upon her - it's only natural for people to feel empathy over the one apparently being oppressed. With a kind of social media that we have right now, we all must be more responsible for whatever we say or do. With or without anybody recording, a person must always act with good morals and respect for other people.

I also feel sorry about her. I hope she didn't act that way. She overreacted. I guess even if we're that tired, or sleepless, or in a bad mood, we should not act that way. It's not good to belittle other people. Well-educated people know how to handle things like this. I hope this issue will die soon.She maybe learned her lesson already.It's her biggest mistake so far.I hope she would manage to keep her feet on the ground next time. It's not good to be rude or arrogant. Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting.

I think partly, it's the fault of the uploader and mostly, it's the girls fault. I think even if we are at the peak of our anger, we should control our temper. It is important to note that public scandals like this could not happen if both parties agreed to just talk it out without raising voices. It's quite sad though that this lady gets the angry cyber mobs and lots of parody videos were made. With the incident, hopefully, all of us learn from it. Being a victim of cyberbully is not a simple case, it can lead great depression if we're not guided carefully.

She should be ashamed of herself. She humiliated the LRT lady guard...the lady guard was in fact doing her job of protecting and following rules and regulations of 'no search, no entry' policy of the department...that feeling social/"englishera" passenger who humiliated the lady guard did not undergo search for her bag in the x ray machine! So definitely, the lady guard will do her job by requesting that girl to abide by the rules and that she started to humiliate the guard! She should suffer cyber bullying! She should ask apologies for what she did! She keeps on saying English, where in fact she is a very big wrong grammar! So pathetic for herself! She was telling the guard that she is an educated person! Well, she just proved where she's getting her education! So pathetic for her school!

Actually I believe this scenario is comparable to the case of Claudine Barretto happened months ago. I myself cant be sure to maintain a good manner if someone give me unpleasant behaviour or service, as a matter of fact I even had two different bad experiences with guards. Yes I talked to them with anger but I dont think to belittle them just like what that student did is a big no no. Its alright to insist our right and what is right but maybe lets present our concern with mores and nothing personal. So what if we are educated and theyre not? So what if we are elite and theyre not? maybe if that student who claimed herself being educated has acted like one and seek proper assistance rather berating that lady guard would possibly claimed honor rather bad reactions from many people. For the issue of cyberbullying I cant establish my exact side on this matter but one thing Im pretty sure once we do something may it right or wrong there will always be consequences or return.