How much time will you give to your friends in busy shedule ?
By gurung63
@gurung63 (72)
India
13 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Nov 12
I dont want to give the time daily for friends in my busy schedule but if they are came in some time then I will share my free time with them. Now no friend are good all are selfish. If we need then they not help us so I not like friends more.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
22 Nov 12
It is really a hard question to answer. I think true friends don't need everydays' communication. But we have to communicate with each other when we feel sad.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
16 Nov 12
Actually I am ready to spend as much time as I can with my friends, but due to my busy work schedule now a days I can hardly give one or two hours to my friends in a week that too if they too are also free. We all knew life is busy and each one is busy in their own work but even then we try to take the time and meet our friend, go to picnic go to some party and if not possible atleast we try to have some get - together once in three month or once in a year at our friends place on everyone birthday. You know meeting friends and keeping the contact with each other is to call all the friends for the birthday party. By this atleast once in a month you can meet most of your friends,
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
My friends know that I always want to be by their side when they need someone to talk to. However, since I got married, I rarely have the chance to see them. well, it's another story. But I do call them and give time for them to hear whatever they want to share with me. Practically, phone calls are our connection.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
16 Nov 12
Honestly I'm not able to spend as much time with my friends as I would like. We all are so busy and have our own families and schedules to take care of. Though I would like to work on it more to associate with them and keep in touch better. One of my friends we try and keep in touch through email. I do admit that there are some friends and family that I need to send letters to and see how they are doing. I will definitely have to put that on my to do list so that I get it done. Thanks for the reminder.
@cgicale (137)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
Hi gurung63,
Yes I agree with you. Friends are very important to our lives. They give us joy, and help us in times of our need. In a busy work schedule sometimes we can no longer communicate with our friends. Sometimes a month goes by without seeing them.
Everytime I have a free weekend I alot some time for them. We spend a day together just to talk and to catch up with each other. True friends really lastt the distance and time apart because when you're together it's like you haven't been away from each other at all. :)
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Yes, it is very important indeed. Despite of my busy schedule, I am able to reach out with my friends through social network if I have a free time. That is how essential if you are my friend because I always find a way just to communicate them and they did too because I'm not in my local country so we need to communicate in every single day! :)
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
16 Nov 12
In my life friends play very important role. Infact i will be busy with my friend itself. My friend love me very much and i do love them. I an really lucky to have such a friend in my life. Even after marriage i am in good touch with her.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
16 Nov 12
Hi,
Welcome to mylot.
Since friends are the ones who understand you, it is not a problem if you tell them your hectic schedule, they will not force you to be with them.
When i'm busy, usually i take a minute to tell them / make them aware of my tasks so there is no misunderstanding.
Anytime and everytime i am accessable for my friends so being busy is not a major concern for us.
Happy lotting..
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
16 Nov 12
As much as possible, I would always try to squeeze in my role as a supportive friend whenever I am needed. It is true that I might have something going on for me or my hands are already full as it is, but a simple text or a few minutes of call just enough to make my friend feel that I care about her and her predicament, that I will be there for her and if I am needed to be by her side, I will a long as I have made sure that I have taken cared of some stuff first or get them out of the way. If this isn't possible, I will still try my best to be in constant communication with her. I'm sure that ias a good friend, she will also unrstanding me.
@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
It is normal for us, to cheer up someone that is close to us, especially if they are so down. For being there beside them, a friend will feel well-supported. They knew that there's someone out there. That's the sample for having the time with friends.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Of course, I do find time to greet and ask my friend's condition. At the end of the day, I am communicating with my friends because it is the only time for them because the whole day I am so busy with my work. I do living with my friend right now because of work accessibility.
@littlejamie (11)
•
16 Nov 12
I will send short messages to my friends when I have time.I believe that true friends won't blame you then out of touch with him.