How do you feel if someone keeps on hurting you?

If this happens in repetition, I think you start to learn the word part ways.. If being together would cause you or her , or both of you- cause into being worst, then there's something wrong.. You are supposed to make each other happy, happier and better in things you do. Be of good influence/effect than bad.. God bless your relationship:)

hi, for me it will depend if what kind of hurt is that,actually when i was in a relationship with my ex lived in partner he always keeps on hurting me because he gave more time for his friends rather than me but i accepted it,but of course my heart tired for that.

I am going to respond with a question to you - WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? I am not good at second guessing because if I am I would have won every state lottery's jackpot prize in the world. This is a discussion and I believe in sharing. So, I do believe that it is in your part to share exactly what happened in the first place before you expect others to share and discuss. I know I should move along and not be bothered with your post but I felt that it will be an injustice to do so. So, what is it that pissed you off?

If I were on your shoe, I will feel so exhausted and worst maybe I will give up on our relationship. Everyone of us has the right to be happy and being with the one we love makes our life more miserable is not right already. If that's the case, I will not forgive him that easy for him to realize his fault and will not do it again.

You give them a boundary. No one can hurt you unless you're letting them. i know that sometimes we have to be patient with people because we don't want to lose them but it's not right to just let them hurt us. Mistakes can happen but if it happens so many times then it's not a mistake anymore. She's doing it on purpose and you need to put an end to it or else you're going to be hurt all over again.

The best is to communicate, if possible rather keep hurting you, may the it is unintentional. There are many situation in our life as we keep assuming, she did this to me, she intentionally did to hurt me. Even we feel hurt when we don't reply back of sms or email we sent. Best is talk to her and express all the things and after knowing your point of view, still the person keep hurting you, then move on, that person don't deserve to be your friend or kind of relation you share with him/her.

Maybe you should be honest and tell her to stop her nonsense as it is hurting you deeply. If she fails to improve her ways then it is up to you discretion to teach her a good lesson. But again it is difficult to change a person habit. They seem to enjoy seeing others in misery. In the long run the mounting hurt will eventually turn love into hate. I would not blame those on the receiving end to go astray. When the sleeping tiger is awaken all hell breaks loose.

I would be piss also , I will not sit and take it over and over . I think some people will continue to hurt certain people until they make a stand . I will not intentionally hurt someone I love because I dont want them to hurt me .

Get a life! You don't have the right to hurt me! :-)

I feel very bad. I like when people tell me sincerily about something I do wrong that might have hurted them or something like it cause I want to correct my self, I feel horrible to know I done something and they misstook as a bad thing I done on purpose but on the other way around I say what I don't like and it hurts and if the person don't stop... can't be my friend anymore, I'd think they are doing on purpose.

Sorry to hear that someone keeps on hurting you. That is such an awful feeling. You should talk with that person and let them know how you feel. It is definitely not a good feeling when someone continues to hurt us over and over again. It really does make us sad and feel like they do not care about our feelings.

I know the feeling. Sometimes my boyfriend will do the same stupid thing over and over no matter how many times I tell him it annoys or upsets me. I guess sometimes people just don't realize that some of the things they do hurt others. If it keeps happening, let your loved one know. Maybe they don't even realize how upset you get by what they do.

I will be very upset and disappointed and I will feel that he don't really care because if he did care to me he won't keep hurting me. Did you tell that someone about it?. Have you talked to that someone how you feels?

risk-taker20 i am so sorry to hear that...its not a usual thing for me as i am doing the same for my bf...he said i am always hurting him repeatedly with the same mistakes...but only him aware of it as what i know i didnt hurt him intentionally, i am just being myself...wanted encouragement and appreciation, complicated yet i know also why ur gf doing it, she want u to realize that she act as what u deserve...sorry for that....it doesnt mean she doesnt love u...she do love u much to the extend she wanted to know if u still love her if she is the most worst woman u ever known

Have you sat them down and asked why they are continually hurting you, unless you speak to them, they will never know just how much they are hurting you, unfortunately telepathy hasn't been invented and she cannot second guess you, you have to tell her, otherwise you will bottle your feelings up and it's not healthy for you, believe me I have been there. Get it out in the open now so you can build fences, leave it and it will only fester and possibly destroy your relationship with her.

What does she say when you talk to her about it? Let's face it, there must be something about you that pisses her off about you and so she keeps doing the thing she does. Either she can't or won't talk to you or you are not listening when she tells you. Love is a two way street and so is respect and tolerance and forgiveness.

well maybe that is his weakness so because I love him so much I just pointless his weakness and point out more for his strength

I will definitely feel the same like you did...love should be feel by the two parties that no matter what problems you are facing, you should not hurt anyone else.

well, i fell upset. sometimes there are people who doesn't know my weakness because i am not vocal and i never show too much emotions or feelings. i am not expressive. if people hurt me unknowingly, i just keep it to myself. but sometimes i take enough courage to let them know my side so that they know how to adjust. but if they really mean to hurt me, then i would fight back and give them what they deserve.

Maybe it's the person, your in a wrong person to love. I know we can't dictate our heart whom to love. But face the reality and be strong to accept that She or He is not meant for you. If he/she keeps on committing the same mistake I think he/she doesn't care about you at all, not afraid to see you hurting or maybe its her/his purpose? Not a serious type of person. Its my view, my opinion to someone like that. I really hate those people who hurts their love one as easy as that without knowing that we are bleeding more inside.