What if there were no rule on mylot

I don't think it would make much difference. Each community will attract a certain kind of "customers". I don't think mylot will ever be likeyahoo or facebook since it's for a different group created. To answer your question. I would not surrender why should I? I am who I am. Might be to keep some distance I would not read back the responses of other people. I never chat here, also did not make any (closer) friend. So actually I don't think it would make a difference to me at all.

Yes, people have a strange way of expressing their feelings and saying what they are thinking. For some of them I believe it is truley difficult to say something to someone without trying to show him that he is a "bad boy", using "the F word" at every 2 words they say. I like people who use a clean language :) I mean, if you are not angry with me or something why to be rude... ?

silverfox no I would leave as I ha ve been on forums for diabetics where peopleinsulted you , cursed you , and were unbelievably rude. I ha ted that and after a few months I left as it was too much for me. I like a place where there is peace and har mony and maintained by the adm ins.as for perfect people here how can there be as we a re human beings and humans are not perfect. We all have some faults so how can you say that about the perfect people here and the other side of them?last time someone said that to me we both got deleted. he accused me of thinking I was perfect. a bunch of crap but my lot decided he was insu ting and deleted his response and my anger got mine deleted which is good as we should not insult people just because they did it to us. that is why I disliked that "the perfect people here" phrase as it sounds like you are demeaning someone here and thats also not right.

I had put up a topic on why the real world cannot emulate myLot when it came to following rules! I am here just because it has rules. I would never be able to handle rudeness.

I'm glad myLot have. That is one of the reasons why I love this place. Well, perhaps even if there are no implied rules, what will prevail is our own personality.

If there were no rules here, there would be so much spamming here. Wouldnt be fun at all.

I think that it would be crazy a mad house around here if there were no rules. Oh I could see it now, . All the rude people and all the weird discussions, it would annoy me like crazy and all the drama forget it. I wouldn't want to be here any longer. Despite the pay or whatever. I'd not be caught here. Thank goodness for rules right.

I have to say that I wouldn't be happy at all if they were to get rid of the terms of service on mylot because I am the kind of person that always tries to be kind to other people. However, I also have to say that I would still be on mylot because I've made a lot of friends in the time that I've been on here and I couldn't bear the thought of losing the friends that I've made on mylot.

Hi silverfox Well, doesnt work that way for all. Just as bad would be bad, the good would always be good - rules or not. There always will be goodness. Yes, life would be definitely a little clumsier here but then I am sure one would find his/her niche and continue on just as we do right now with the Laws and Rules around.

In simple and short but sweet words I will say there would have been all mess with all harsh words and unwanted post on different topics and discussion too. You when there is no control how one will behave and which direction they will move on.

better for me to have rules andall here to keep them because then it will become a nightmare everyone would do what she wants and is unlikely to keep the good and the beautiful relationships as the payment is good that at the end of the month because we have a whole month to make a minimum especially for working people who do not have time to sit here all the time. success and hopefully stay ahead happy working here.

This place would be a disaster, rules are in place because things were once allowed. I like the rules and I am sure we are all guilty of breaking them but we learn from the mistakes.

That sounds a little harsh to me silverfox. I think that the people who stay with Mylot over a period of time are ones who appreciate the rules. Why assume that there is pleasure in being rude to people or breaking the decency rules? If we want some 'adult' material we can get it but I prefer this carefully edited site and it is a pleasure to join in discussions that are 'innocent' ones. I would recommend this site to everyone I know because of its content which is safe and, in my opinion, brings out the best in people.

In my opinion for the paying site like this, the members are more respectful than any other non paying sites. However, if it happens that there are no rules and members will comments rudely at you, I think I cannot stand and I will probably not visiting the site again.