Do you think women's gossip noisy and boring?

China
November 18, 2012 6:58pm CST
First of all, I am a married woman. I like gossip, like most woman, but my husband seems a victim of my continuous talking. It seems it is very difficult for him to sit silently and talk with me. But I like gossip with him, especially when I see something strange, something interesting, I want to share with him. And I also like to talk with him about family members, and he tend to keep silent about other members. He thinks I talk too much, and noisy, but I just can not stop. Do you think women's gossip noisy and boring? What will you do under this situation? I really want to hear the voice of men, married men.
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5 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
A gossip can be something amusing or annoying, depending on the person who hears it. Obviously, you husband is not interested in gossips so he responds to you on that manner. Gossips among friends is a different matter coz friends do love to talk about everything and anything.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
If a gossip goes out of hand, it can be really dangerous. It is okay to gossip sometimes coz really, we could not control ourselves to be talking about people who irritates us. But going to the extent of adding more stories to it that is way out of line, well, that means trouble for you.
• China
19 Nov 12
Yes, I agree with you. So I do not want to be too intimate with friends, espeically relatives. People talk about you, and you can not totally do not care about it. If you care, you may get hurt. So gossip need a line, never cross it!
• China
19 Nov 12
I love gossip among friends, that's fun time! Most women around me talk a lot, and we can share a lot things together. But sometime I myself get bored of it, and I just want to escape from it. Too much gossip may hurt each other, do you agree? Thanks for sharing!
@gunsing (142)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 12
I can say my wife just like you, talking about anything soon as we are in bed. at first months of our living together as family, I was like your husband, I never put attention to what my wife told me, and yes I felt annoyed and I thought she was noisy. but after that, I'm getting used to it, even I always think it's like an entertainment before sleeping (or like a bedtime story maybe ha.ha....) see my points : I know celebrities gossip without reading/watching TV, I know what happened to our neighbors without even stepping out the house and many more. really, if you ask me now, I prefer she talks than no talks, because if she talks, she has a good mood and you know the rest, lol
• China
19 Nov 12
Haha, it seems you are used to the gossip and enjoy it. Women around me all talk a lot, happily the teeth would not get black under sunshine:) Thanks for sharing your opinion, and I will discuss with my husband about it.
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
well gossip really wont help your life sometimes gossip can put you in bad situation rather talk about your life what did you do what will you do just talk about you and family not gossip
• China
19 Nov 12
Yes, I agree that sometimes gossip brings trouble to you, because I care about what others said, and other people care about what I said too. Sometimes, we just quarrel because of gossip, and I hate this. Thanks for your sharing.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 12
Hahaha...gossip is really juicy but a bad habit indeed. Some article mentioned that gossip is bad because it contains negative energy. Sharing infomation and interesting educational stories is good but we should not gossip on others too often. That is just my opinion.
• China
19 Nov 12
That for your opinion. I also share information and interesting stories with my husband, and other friends, but not always. I will take your advice, and good luck to you!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
29 Dec 12
I like talking but not like gossip tell about the person behind them. My husband also not like my talking but I talk mostly in funny way my conversation is funny so the person are laugh while conversation with me. If more women gathered in one place and they start talking then their voice is feel like shouting then feeling bore but in general if two or three women meets then not feeling noisy.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
I think it is an appropriate behavior, it will not bring any good thing to other people. I guess this is an old women politics. Good day!
• China
19 Nov 12
Wow, you are cool about this, maybe I am an old woman now... On today's bus, two mid-aged woman kept talking and talking till they got off the bus, which makes me ask this question,haha Thanks for sharing...