Relationship with Ex Girlfriend

I'd lost contact with my ex-boyfriend for about nine years but then early in last year we got back in touch with each other. From that time, we've talked on a fairly regular basis. You see, we were always very close friends as well and though my husband did have some issue with this at first (he had some insecurity about it), now he doesn't mind that my ex and I are friends and my husband and my ex have actually forged a sort of friendship as well.

I'm far more easy going with my exes. I'm don't have any feelings for them anymore but sometimes I pretend I care, LOL, just kidding. I still care a little, there! I don't have such awkward moments with my ex... well, i don't see them anymore. But when I do, I greet them like a friend, chat for a bit and tease them a bit. You can be friends but not to close because you have a wife already and it's gonna cause trouble if you're too close. I doubt your wife would believe that you are 'just' friends if you hang out with your ex too much.

I have accidentally bumped to my ex boyfriend but I was never with my husband. But just the same, I was civil with him. NO big deal. And you should also need not have a big deal over it. She was your past and now you are a happily married man. What else should matter, right? Don't give your wife any reason to be jealous. It is okay to say hi or hello but I don't think you should be really in contact with her anymore as your wife might be uncomfortable with that.

Ha Haaaa Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa My dear I am finding less truth and more thread orientation in this thread. Why you felt confused with your girlfriend in front of your wife with and your son when it seems as if they were all well known to it.

since you are now a family man, it is better and it is best for you to avoid and kill any possibility of having a communication again. You have nothing to do with her any more so keep distance.

whatever your reason have, i just wanna say, even if somegirl love someguy very much, she will not disappoint her love. And dont disappoint your wife cause its very hurt.

You can treat her like an old friend I know the awkwardness feeling you have since your wife is also with you but that was already past I think you both already move on. I know your wife will understand you also just don't think of contacting her again it is not healthy for your relationship.

hi tedifa oh my be careful and do not give your wife any reason to be upset. Treat the ex as an old old girlfriend and not have any relationship with her. You and her already had your chances and you are exes for a reason so do not give your wife a reason to want to make an ez out of yuo over the ex girlfriend.Just do not form a relationship with her at all. old friends can sat hi and bi and go their separate ways no relationship at all.

Yah it's kinda awkward meeting your ex-girlfriend especially when you are married already. But if your breakup was a good one then there shouldn't be any problem.

She's your ex so there is nothing to be afraid of or getting nervous. Unless you haven't had a formal break up with her. Just say hi or hello like an old friend- nothing to say more or else it will surely create a big trouble between you and your wife.

What's past is past, help yourself to think that way if you really love your family, just think of your wife and the kids

Do you still have the feelings from within? If not, then there will be no reason to feel awkward. It is fine to talk with the exs, they were been once a part of your life.

u ask must be your ex still not married right? if im in your wife place, i don't think she like u to contact again your ex, even u are already married but she will still have the worry. also afraid if i get in touch again, your ex will recap all the sweet memory before. u will never know what might happen then.

Just say something like an old friend. Don't keep in touch with her, its dangerous.

When I met my ex, in my heart I wanted to say I will marry my ex but I did not answer it because I saw he was holding a baby. I think it's definitely baby her. Go I simply approached him and hope that he's carrying a baby After I talk to him or her it turns out it was indeed her baby and said a was married in 2011. Finally I failed again seeking a life partner. Maybe next time I will get my life partner. (sorry my english bad)

Hello tedifa. When the relationship between me and my ex-girlfriend broke, I met her only once at the fair when I was together with my wife, but she was not that close to us. Even if she was together with us, I would not say anything to her as she broke my heart to go to another man. Ever since, I have not met her again any more. I have no idea how she looks like after more than a decade, but I have already forgiven her with the time passing by. Take care.

You have been seperated from your ex for a year and now you are already married with a son?. This would be ackward if you didnt end it on good terms. I know whenever I see my exs its just odd, and some of them I just keep walking as if I talk to them they will stalk me. A simple hi would suddo or how have you been, it will always be ackward especially is you still have feelings for tem.