I'm sorry I just need to lie

A lie is still a lie no matter what is the good intention behind it. There are lies that we are forced to do so to avoid hurting the other, or giving our loved ones disappointment. But sometimes telling a lie become habitual - unknowingly.

Yeah, It's really hard when we should tell the truth to someone else even more to someone who really we loved so much and I can feel what you were feeling at that time. but we ought to tell a lie for any strong reason behind it even when we do not want to do it but as a matter of fact we did because to defend the relationship that was long interlaced. Telling a lie not the truth in a pinch is one good decision you made, why not?. nonetheless, we cannot talk on a lie to someone else because telling the truth and make someone cry is better than telling a lie and make someone smile.

its ok and i dont think its a big deal if there is a concrete cause for it and just take it in the stride

Truth is, we can't please everyone every time. Disappointments are inevitable in life. If you lied for the good then get over it and do something good to make up for it. Do something that they won't be disappointed in to make up for it. Maybe your lies will turn true?

Sometimes we all have to tell a lie.. to protect someone. We feel bad about it after. BUt its part of life.

sorry for you too but you dont have to lie for the reason of not disappointing someone.in the end the truth will come out and you'll find them more disappointed.the happiness you give to them the moment you lie will turn into more disappointments and pain.in the future you cant convince them to believe in you anymore.and look at how you are feeling now,yes,u made them happy with your lies but you are umhappy with yourself.you are just more than disappointed to yourself than they do.you have to be true to yourself tinetine,it'll bring you more happiness.have a good day!

I used to lie to my parents to cover the wrong I did back in college. I know it will melt their heart if they knew the lie I did. But I don't want to disappoint them so I have to do it. I still try to cover up for that lie until now and I never regretted it. I just hope that when the day comes that that lie will be uncovered, they will understand me and what I did. All for the good anyway.

Hi Tine! Although a lie can save you one time. It will not save you forever. Sooner or later your lie would be uncovered and it would hurt people more.

Sorry for your choice. Better avoid lying in any case. It is always better to disappoint them now, than in the future when they will find out, because now you will have the time to fix it. Also, when you lie and hide something, sooner or later you are going to have to tell another lie in order to cover up the previous one and before you know it, it will get out of hand.

If people expect you to be different as you are you will loose yourself. But.. you will also loose yourself if you have to pretend, wear a mask, have to lie about what you did, who you are, what you capable of. Since you already disappointed them you better ask yourself this: what is it they want from me? Am I able to give it or do it or not? In the end the most important thing is to be you. You already feel sad, disappointed to choose for yourself no matter what. You have all rights to feel sorry for yourself.

Sometime we need to lie not becasue we want to but because we have to especially if someone will be hurt from telling the truth. I understand what you feel. I hope you can make yourself feel better by doing more of good things to others.

People are expected to be basically telling the truth all the time, but sometimes we have to lie, in order to protect people or not letting them down. A bit of remorse is completely natural in cases like this, but at the same time, you shouldn't be too strivt to yourself when you have to decide for lying. You know yourself whether you have lied for your own interest and for a mean purpose or for a better purpose.

Hi, I can understand your feelings. You are feeling very restless because you tell lie many times and disappointed someone by telling lie. Sometimes we have to tell lie for the goodness of someone. But we can not hide the truth forever. We have to tell the truth after sometime. You should tell them the truth and the reason behind your lying and ask for the forgiveness. I wish they will forgive you. And here after always try to live away from the lie.

I agree with you mylotter.There are sometimes in our lives that we need to lie not because that we can get something,instead, we need lie to avoid disappointment,embarrassment and maybe it can fulfill dreams.And i think that these 3 reasons why we need to lie because each of us are hiding some things that might destroy our dreams or their dreams.we need to do so not because we want to but because it need to.And maybe those secrets will reveal for the right time and the right place.

Lying doesn't make any bad situation right. It is better to be truthful so you won't be haunted with guilt that could be very stressing.

sometimes i also lie, but lately same as your i regret it. i realized that it is better to be honest, and people will really respect the truth about what you and they will learn a lot from your honesty. so i always try my best honesty.

Sometimes we need to lie to save ourselves. Sometimes we need to say no to a situation. There are times I need to tell a lie or fabricate a story just to save myself from something totally awkward situation.

You wish will just remain as wish. You will never know how they will understand you until the time that you confide to them. Now if you cannot, just stand up again and do what is right.