Feel guilty when fail to give Comments to the response?
By HuaZhao
@HuaZhao (457)
China
November 21, 2012 12:15am CST
Hi,mylotters,recently, I am really busy with my job and only have a little time here. I feel so guilty when I failed to give comments to the response. When I found that my discussion is so popular and got more than 40 responses here, I am so glad and also guilty because I couldn't find time to give comments to them. Oh, my dear mylotters, you are my real friends, could you forgive me about that?
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6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Hi again, HuaZhao! We really aren't required to respond to all comments on our post but it would really help your rating improve if you show fellow members that you took time to read their opinion about what you have posted.
Well, work should come first and I know that fellow members can understand that. You can always go back to your posts and respond to them at your own pace.
@youless (112561)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Nov 12
I can understand your feelings. But I try to respond to the people who responded to my discussions soon. At least it really takes a long time if you do it at once. But if you do it one by one, this is fine. It is alright that you are too busy to reply to us. I think many of us will not mind it. But if you do, then it is more like a communcation
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
21 Nov 12
I try to respond to discussions too and it is quite a time consuming job if there are lots of replies. Your idea of doing one at a time is a good one.
Some of the discussions are lengthy with many people joining in but others are just long strings of sentences usually between the one who started the conversation and an interested reader. To reply to one of these seems like interrupting someone else's conversation so I usually just scroll down.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
i usually do feel guilty whenever i fail to give comments on my discussions' responses. sometimes though i feel i have nothing much to say or nothing to respond to except for the thank yous that i can give which would seem a bit too short for a response. :D he he
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
No need to feel guilty you can come back any time to give your response. I myself cant reply promptly on my discussions started since Im an all around person but I try to respond while I do our laundry or while cooking or anytime I find sensible words to comment. Just enjoy here in Mylot dont feel so pressured its the least thing we need in here anyway..
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
21 Nov 12
Of course it is always nice to be able to give comments back as soon as a response is posted. But we are not always online at the same time and each of us comes here only at his/her own affordable time. That's why there is really no time limit to comment back. We can come anytime later to comment back. I've received comments back weeks or even months later. Of course, I'd probably forget already what was my response...
@123Eagle (8)
• China
22 Nov 12
Some people in the failure feel guilty speech will be shy or small voice, because they think they are a loser, they can't face the audience.Another aspect, their fingers will can't help hold.
But some people it is not so, they are optimistic, although they will feel guilty but will not be too concerned about, they waiting for the next opportunity and to motivate yourself.