Did anyone go through a very bad relationship before they found their true love?
@kj_kristensen (42)
Philippines
November 21, 2012 7:36am CST
I know no one is exempted to heartaches. Most of us, went through a kind of relationship which is bad or maybe unforgettable before we finally found our true love.
In my own experience, yes i went through a bad relationship before, but im thankful because of it i found my true love. Those kind of experiences make us stronger and better person. I'm happily married now and just one more wish left to complete my own newly-built family.
8 responses
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
29 Nov 12
hi there,
im more happy when i come to know dat people have found their true love after goin thru breakups..yeah its not only tough but its kinda difficult to survive when ur goin thru the stage..
As a matter of fact i went thru a very bad relationship during my academics..n it was one of the horrible experience in my life, N after that i dont feel like trusting anyone. And I haven't found my true love yet..
Will tell you guys the story of it if anyone wants to know.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
it must have been a very bad experience for you, i suppose. well coping with breakups really take a few stages before you will finally say it's over, and it's very normal to be hard at the beginning. when the wounds finally heal, you are ready again. and for me, it is love that make us happy again. your story seems interesting. good luck.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
2 Dec 12
hi,
well i cant say that it was a bad experience, coz nothing in the world is good or bad, its our thinkin which makes it. I can say rather it taught me a good lesson, so its a good thing for me. May be i can be much more careful next time.
And yes, love does have the power of healing almost anything,But your past never leaves you..your memories will always be there and at times you would feel like i wish i could have the power of erasing some days of my life..
Nice pic anyways.. :)
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
22 Nov 12
Good for you and I sure that your bad relationship has turned you to a better person/lover now. Yes I am glad that you have finally settled and built your new world. good thing to move on. Relationship really is hard to tell or predict. One time your relationship is as sweet as the honey and the next thing it is as sour as lemon. So life just has to moved on.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
29 Nov 12
of course no one gets the ice cream if the ice cream man has not come. LOL, what am I comparing. Just kidding. Yes, it is really a relief if you get what you think is best for you. All you have to do is always make yourself beautiful and pretty.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Yup that's what our life should be, moving on. Yes I'm very happy now and thankful that finally found the one I've been dreaming of. Sometimes we need to go through the hardest battle before we finally get our prize. And it's really all worth it.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
22 Nov 12
hi,i've went through many bad relationship before i met i husband.
many people said i have a good character and nice, i always be nice to my exs,but i donot know why they broken my heart in the end.when my last relationship end,i didnot accept anyone in almost four years.it's hard for me to believe in man.
so when i met my husband,he keep waiting me for a couple of months ,then i finally accept him. I was lucky because i found he is the only right man for me,he loves me much,taks good care of me,being considerate and always has a good temper.
Before i met him,i keep complaining life and god ,but now i know that,i'm actually the winner finally,god gives me the most important and beautiful present. we are getting along so well ,i must appreciate all that previous bad relationships ,they taught me how to love a person and how to work on a good relationship and stay in love life,i gain all of them.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
yes thats true, everyone deserves to be happy and treated well. i believe what you said about heartaches. sometimes because of the pain, we tend to build walls around ourselves and be very cautious. i'm happy that finally you have found your true love. it is really indeed a blessing when your man is just as loving as you.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Nov 12
I think everyone has been through at least one bad relationship. I went through two of them before I found my soul mate. =( But like you said it made me stronger and better for my husband now. I am glad I went through what I went through, it made me who I am now.
@passion4fassion (996)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
you are right my friend,well i can say my ex cheated me my best friend cheated me that's really hurt the 2 people i trust who cheated me.but i am stronger now and better than before
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Hello! That's must have been so hard before. Yeah I really hate cheating. People sometimes take you for granted especially if they know you really love them. Well that's their loss anyway not ours. But what's more important is the present and the true love we have now. I must actually thank the past because without it happening I won't able to meet the love of my life.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Yes i have been on a bad relationship on my past,many times i guess but i guess it is usual, most of the people in your life come and goes just to give you some important lessons in your life and without them you can never have what you had now.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Yes it's a test we should take. Sometimes a hard one. But it will make us better person.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
22 Nov 12
Sometimes your are right,just as the experiment,you need to have some test then after that you can figure out which way is right.
But as for me,I will be more cautious for start my relationship because I really do not want to be hurted by a bad relationship,I will know my lover more clearly and after a deep thinking,then I will start the relationship.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Well for me you can't really tell mostly at the beginning. Because its the time you are just getting to know each other and it's the peak of your relationship. You can't just be cautious every time you are with the person you like or you love because in the first place you have fallen in love with her/him, and you trust him/her of your heart. There's no right or wrong they say once Cupid hits you. But it's good to know your lover too as you've said if she or he is worthy of your love. Because it means you value your relationship more than anything. But sometimes even though how much you take care of your relationship, when you are not meant to be, all you have to do is to move on. Though you think you give all the best for the relationship to work. That pain you experienced will be your greatest lesson til you found the right one. You will be stronger and better than ever.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
21 Nov 12
I went through a couple of bad relationships before i found my hubby. Sometimes you find the right person the first time you date someone and some times it takes yrs. There is a saying that goes you have to kiss alot of frogs to get to your prince. The bad relationships are the frogs and the prince is the one you marry or live with that is right for you. I'm happy for you being happily married.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Hello there and thanks. It's really a blessing when you found someone who will be your life partner. That's very funny and meaningful saying about finding the right one.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
21 Nov 12
My boyfriend has been my first and only and we've been together for 2 and a half years now. I wasn't in a relationship before him but I did like a few guys but they all turned out to be jerks or wanted one thing. I met my boyfriend in high school and we really hit it off and became friends. I knew he liked me but I kept putting off dating. After months, he finally won me over and I really liked him and we started going out.
He was in a few relationships before me and his exes didn't treat him all that nicely. His first girlfriend cheated on him multiple times and he broke up with the next girlfriend because she was about to cheat on him too. So by the time he met me he was a little scarred from those relationships and it took him a while for him to totally trust again. I was patient with him and now things are great between us and he seems totally healed from his past. I know he considers me to be his true love and I know that he had to go through a few bad relationships before he ended up with me.
@kj_kristensen (42)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Hello there. That's very nice thing between you and your boyfriend. I can feel he is a nice guy for you and you both deserve each other. Wishing you great life together in the future.
