She would loose her head if it wasnt attached
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
November 27, 2012 9:03am CST
My sister is the most unorganized person, she tries to be perfect at everything, and to do multiple things such as jobs. She said the other day well if you can handle it, so can I (obviously not).
She has been working 2 jobs (1 full time, 1 part time), now I have been doing that for about 7 years now. You need a routine, but then I give up other things such as shopping, etc (which I dont like anyways).
She then has her boyfriend which when she isnt at work, she has to spend every minute with him (so then she is running around like a chicken with the head cut off). I told her this morning she needs to pick, shes obviously cant handle it and either going to hurt herself or someone else (including the animals in the house).
She came home parked on the road, as soon as she walked in I said your going to get a $100.00 ticket itf you park there..... she just runs by me nad goes Ill be 5 minutes. I stood at the front window watching them write her a ticket (we have a new by law officers), so now she has $100.00 ticket.
She lost her clothes, she was running around screaming where her clothes are (by the way she is late for work everyday because of her unoragnize difunction). I dont bother looking for her because she will just scream her head off at you took it, and so on.
She wwas running around and slambed her arm against the wall, now its hurt she was saying. She got the adbil out, and dropped it all over the floor, and then left it (a few of these can kill a cat, and dog if they eat it). So I ended up getting down on the floor to pick them all up, and took the bottle to my room.
She made food, and she ran out the door its still sitting here. She texted me to put it in the fridge. Left the burner on, on the stove, with the pot on it. She left her purse on the table, and well her problem if she gets pulled over.
This is her daily life, I was standing there today, scratching my head as she flew by. I couldnt function like this, and
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11 responses
@GardenGerty (160708)
• United States
27 Nov 12
The most recent studies indicate that women who try to multitask usually make a mess of their lives, even if that is what your job expects of you. She is a mess and sounds like she is very competitive with you as well. Therefore she never listens to your warnings like about the parking ticket.
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@GardenGerty (160708)
• United States
29 Nov 12
@prashu. . . men are less able to multi task than women. Perhaps I should say that Women are expected to much more multi tasking than men and it is not good for them.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
27 Nov 12
Is it? women can't do any multitask. I didn't hear about this recent studies . I will check it.Actually i thought the opposite. 
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
28 Nov 12
I find woman tend to take on a lot more, I know I do. But I give up other things, I can handle 4 jobs, but then I come home from work sit online, then go to bed. I am not one to go out, I like to be by myself (I do go out just not every day of the week). My sister is always with her boyfriend, and complaining she is always tired. He wants her to go here or there, she will finish a 12 hours shift, then go to the bar with her boyfriend then go out drinking, then go to work in the morning. She was saying she wants to go to school ( 3 classes a semester), but she is a profectionist and she couldnt handle university for 4 years, and work. She always compares herself to me, and tries to do better than me. The reason she is going back to school was I said I was when I save up enough money (I was registering in a few classes). I also was looking at trailer, and I cant move out, and buy a place before she does because she is older. My older brother is the same way as well. I could care a less what they do, and if they want my advice I will give it to them but I dont have to live with the decisions.
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@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
27 Nov 12
It sounds like your sister is juggling too much at one time. I used to be really disorganized and finally realized that I had to slow down to speed up, keep things in their proper place if I didn't want to spend a lot of time looking for things.
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
27 Nov 12
Oh my gosh Ricki, seriously? She's going to kill herself one day. You can't have a normal life when you're doing crazy stuff like that. And left the burner on too? That's no way to live. You can either handle it or you don't. Better keep an eye on things when she's around or the house will burn down.
@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
28 Nov 12
When you just don't listen or take any advice, it is a detrement sometimes to your lifestyle. I hope everyone will be safe with her around, including the animals. She needs to open her ears up a little and really LISTEN to what people are telling her before it's too late.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Dec 12
I agree, I found a Tylenol on the ground. My parents started screaming at me, which I cant have a lot of the over the counter medication. My sister takes it on a regular basis. It's just funny, when my Mother just walked by and goes oh your sister must of dropped it. That one pill can kill an animal. They really are clueless of what she is doing, and the rest of the family.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
28 Nov 12
She is a perfectionist, and wont listen to anyone. She does things like this all the time, noone else thinks its a worry. But when she leaves the burner on each time she uses it, or leaves things out. Her cat ate some ribbon and I had to pull it out of her mouth, and she had swallowed it, it was long and she ended up puking it up.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Nov 12
While I do believe that there are some people whose life situations require that they function in those kinds of circumstances, an example being a working mother who has three or more children. I don't think that I would be able to be that kind of a person.
It doesn't sound like your sister is able to function in this way either and the thing that I think that is really sad about her situation is that she is actually doing it to herself.
@sakurage123 (77)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Hi! I hope you try to help your sister about being organize.And you try to find ways that he will change.It;s better to give good advice than criticisms.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Dec 12
She wont take any advice, she thinks because she is older she knows it all. I have tried giving advice, and barely talk to her for this reason. My family is all about them being right, and selfish. I avoid them, but when my safety comes into play, or my animals I dont fool around.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
27 Nov 12
She really does need to examine her priorities and decide what is most important to her. Obviously, she is stretching herself too thin with this schedule.
Of course, you really cannot tell her that. She isn't going to listen to you. What she will listen to, possibly, is when she hurts herself or gets sick from the amount of stress that she has piled on to herself.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
28 Nov 12
She then said tonight that she is going back to school online (taking 3 classes a semester so every so many months). She couldnt handle university while not working, she wont be able to handle what she is doing now and school. She cannot finction at all, she cant make a doctors appointment (at 25), nor book her car for repair she is that dysfunctional. she wont listen, and I do what I do and just let her run around like an idiot.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
27 Nov 12
Ohhh, your sister is complete opposite to you. she is not at all organized. I hope everything is fine with her. We should always do such work which we can handle. What is the use of starting so many works when we can't even complete one properly. That's so sad about her. Hope she learns it.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
27 Nov 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, we must organize our work to avoid the haste. Hope your sister learned a lesson with this incidence and change her attitude hear after. We must do the work in proper time and avoid the last minute hurry activities
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
27 Nov 12
Sounds like your sister is a complicated person. Maybe her head is filled with
so much work to and trying to keep up each of them as a result, nothing is
accomplished and everything is a mess. Sometimes when our sorrounding is filled
with stuffs like literally stuffs scattered everywhere, this can cause stress in
or mind that we cannot function well, cannot move freely. You can help her ease
by organizing her place.
@drravikiran (38)
• India
28 Nov 12
Hi there,
I went through what all you have written. I think there is no way you can help her. She has to help herself. All you can do is to help her once or twice... it is not possible on a regular basis. And, advising is of no use until she understands it all by herself.
Keep your cool. Don't get infected with her ways!!
