When betrayal comes....:(

It really hard to trust again after experiencing a painful betrayal but we need to keep in mind that not all people are the same. We only need to put our trust to the people who are worthy of it.. but a good person can change any time, a friend can betray us one day, we really cannot tell what will happen next. the lesson is do not let betrayal stop you from trusting again.

Sometimes, we really can’t determine whether such people are genuine with the relationship you are having with them. Sometimes, we really can’t see it coming until you will eventually snap out and realize that the only way they are making friends with you is that they have taken advantage on what you can offer to them. I don’t like such people, and the only thing it will stop is to confront them and never ever communicate with them again, although some would reconcile but still the pain remains and leaves a scar in such relationship.

Ahh this hits SO close to home. Its hard to trust.. its hard to learn from the experience and not let it happen again. It is painful, hurts a lot, and I know, in the future it makes us bigger and helps us, but getting through those problems is so hard. Thanks for the post!

Hi, This is somehow similiar to what I just posted. Yes, it does hurt when someone betrays you. I been through this kind of situation before and it's not a good experience at all. No matter how hard I try to motivate myself to always take it in a positive way, there's never something good about being betrayed. I have learned to just let go of the betrayal and move on. Life goes on with or without that person who broke my trust. Though, I no longer have communication with that person who betrayed me. It's best if we live life separately.

I can understand what you mean. I'm sure that to be betrayed would hurt more than we could imagine. Yeah it is important that we not lose our ability to trust others. That would definitely only create more problems in our next relationship. And that is not a good way to start a relationship.

I cant imagine when betrayal comes into me, i will be devastated. Trust is earn and should be kept but once is tarnished, it can not repaired anymore. Everything will change and fall apart and all we can is move on.

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. It is very hard to tolerate the cheating or betraying activities if we are in sincere love with our beloved persons, also we don't have the ability to break with them and forget about them, since forgetting about a real and sincere love is impossible. So we give a lot of chances to our beloved person and forget about their faults. Some persons take the chances as their advantage and continuing the betraying activities again and again. If you are in a true love, you don't have the ability to betray your partner, as well as you have good trust and understanding with your partner. If you have the ability to betray your beloved person, then your love is not a real one. One of my friend is suffered with this kind of betraying activities from his girl friend. Finally they were broken, but still he don't have the ability to forget about the girl due to his real love. He loved her sincerely and thought she is his world, she too loved him. But she already have another boy friend and hide this information from my friend. After some time, my friend come to know about this fact and asked about it to her. She told that she forget about her Ex. But still she is communicating with him through social sites as well as going dating with her Ex. After realizing about her fully, my friend keep distance from her. In fact he gave a lot of chances to her, but she failed in all the chances and finally they are separated and the girl moved with her Ex. Now we are living in the modern world and most of the love are in this sort. It is very hard to see a real love in this world. We must have the ability to tolerate a lot of thing in the real love. Try your maximum to avoid this kind of cheating and betraying activities in your love and if your love is real and sincere, you are not interested in cheating your beloved person as well as you don't have the ability for it. There is nothing wrong in giving second chance to your beloved person to change their mistakes. Hope most of the lovers will change with the second chance, if they still continuing the cheating and betraying activities, better to forget about them and keep distance from this kind of betraying and fake persons. This kind of cheaters are not deserved for the real love.

You're right, it does a hurt a lot especially if the betrayal comes from people you least expect, from people whom you yourself will never even consider betraying. But I agree, things happen for a reason and whether it's good or bad, we must learn from it all. If there's something good out of this, is that we learn to appreciate more those people who remain true and loyal to us, and we also learn how to protect ourselves if ever this happened again.

Yeah, that is really a painful event if you are betrayed by your most trusted person. You will feel down and may regrets the good things you have done to that person and could say If only I can bring back time. :(