It's always good to talk to Aunts abroad.
By leeandrew
@leeandrew (1225)
Philippines
November 28, 2012 9:00pm CST
This Aunts of mine was a very close aunt co's I lived with my grandparents when I was young. She was the youngest in the family while I was the first grandchild, so our age gap was not that big.
She moved from home and came to the city when she got older but I was left home and sad. From then we never lived close anymore until she went to Canada for work and finally settle there with her husband.
We chatted on facebook a while ago, and I really feel happy co's I've got talked with her again. Missed her even more now
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11 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
29 Nov 12
Thank goodness for the Internet! I remember having to write and post letters for my dad who used to work abroad. It would take weeks, even months before we get to receive letters. As for phone calls, it gets cut every 3 minutes or so and it costs a lot so it just isn't worth it. Back then, we also send him recorded voice tapes using cassette tapes.
Since I also have family and friends who are abroad now, I can't help but be thankful to the Internet and the revolution of text messaging and prepaid phone cards. Keeping in touch with them is easier, cheaper and more real time.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
So true! Really thank you whoever invented internet. He/she/they really made/make a great job. This things has really helped me a lot, may it be in terms of financial income or connecting people specially those you dearly love.
Hubby has to do that too co's his dad worked abroad for two years several years ago. His mom has to record their message to their dad, and his dad will do the same too and they could tell that their dad is crying even though it's only audio record.
Now, you don't have to use all those co's it's easier now to get in touch with them. Just go skype and you'll see them or even on facebook too.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I have the same feeling as yours. I missed my aunt too, the eldest sister of my mother. She is 85 years old now and she is living now in America. She went for a vacation in our house about 7 years ago. My aunt is so kind and smart. What I miss most of her, is her words when I am about to leave. She would always say, "Take life easy!" :-)
Now she is old and I hope and pray that she is fine always.
God Bless
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Wow! She's 85y/o, that is so cool.
Yeah, it's hard specially when you can't see them when you feel like seeing them co'z they are not only far-away it's also hard to get to their place because of the visa.
Your aunt is sweet, no wonder you like her a lot.
As for me my only communication with my aunt is through facebook, it is sad but I will make myself contented with that for now.
I wish well with our aunts (yours and mine). :)
@MANJET (84)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Having live together for quite some time would surely make your relationship stronger. I felt the same too as when I was a kid I lived with one of my relatives too and not until I got into teenage that we started to live separately as she went to her hometown to live with other relatives. I was so sad that I cried the whole night that day. I guess I still miss her and now she is no longer here with us on earth.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Sorry to hear that, I know exactly the feeling when people we loved leaves us, specially when they go where we cannot go yet. My aunt is such an inspiration, she is very strong and yet very humble as well. I miss her more now co's it's hard to visit her and when she comes she will only do that for a vacation and it means just a short time.
I really wish God will able me to go visit her in Canada... again and again and again.
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
29 Nov 12
As an aunt who has also moved away from nephews and nieces I have to say 'Good for you'. Aunts are very precious people, they love you without the baggage of having lived with you through all the ups and downs that parents have to suffer from their kids. Their love may be based a little on those rose coloured spectacles, that parents don't wear, but it is wonderful to enjoy that kind of love from an aunt or two.
Regular contact via Skype has brought my young relatives closer to me than when I was in England. Internet is irreplaceable in its instant contact that keeps us up to date right to the minute with those we love but cannot visit very often.
Your dear Aunt must have been delighted when you were able to chat with her on Facebook. Moving to another country when one is older means leaving old friends and family behind and the new ones that are made are never quite so precious as the old ones we had. I hope you will FB her often and make her day!
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
So true! Aunts are kind and precious people that God has placed on nephews and nieces life to add sweetness to it. I love all of my aunts, there were four of them and they have loved me as I am, and look after me when mom went home to Jesus.
It is very true as well that internet is very irreplaceable! I don't know what life would be now without it (I mean when is used properly).
You know what... reading your comments is like reading a novel or a pocketbook. It refreshes me and I love to read it over and over again.
You must be a very lovely aunt! Happy day and God bless!
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
30 Nov 12
i don't have an aunt abroad but I have my cousin there that whenever he calls, I'm very excited to answer the phone because we would have topics on his situation there as well as my situation here. Talking to him via phone as well as in facebook is our way of bonding.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I don't have a cousin abroad but aside from my aunt I have loads of friends. I'm happy for you that you are close to your cousin. Cousins are God's best gift to us. I too am very excited when friends had to call me and I am very excited too when my aunt would chat me on facebook.
My aunt's and I also does facebook bonding. I'm thankful that there is facebook and skype.
@CloudXD (82)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Most of my father's family is at abroad. They have been there when i was still young so i never get enough time to be more close to them. though they sometimes visits us during summer, but i don't really miss them that much.WE sometimes chat too on facebook.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
There are actually a negative and positive side of being close to relatives... and that is being scolded from time to time as if they don't realized that I ma full grown woman and is definitely responsible of my actions. It seems to them their nieces and nephews did not grow old like them. hahahaha.
I know what you mean, but I do hope you'll get close with them since they too are your family.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I know what you mean. Yeah you are right. If relationship haven't develop with relatives, they would never be close to each other. So true as well that we differs fro each other. I am just glad though that even though I don't see my cousins that much they still accept me as I am.
@CloudXD (82)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
Yeah but i guess they just do that because they treated you as a family and not some other people. Well they cannot really force their nieces and nephews to be like them because we all differ in many things and we have our own life to decide what we want, i guess they just want to give some advises.. ahah
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
It's okay, at least your are close with your relatives and you can see them when you feel like seeing them. It's always good to have a family that lives close to each other but don't quarrel.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I know the feeling.
I also missed few of my Aunts who really are close to me.
But there are things in life that beyond our control.
My consolation is they come to visit our country once a year or every two years.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
It's different when you can visit them easily when you feel like missing them. The problem with aunts abroad are the distance, the money spent and the hardwork in getting a visa with no assurance if you will get it or not.
How I wish she lives close that whenever I miss her I can visit her.
Thanks for the comment.
@allknowing (136769)
• India
29 Nov 12
When the real world gets converted to a virtual one, it indeed is a sad situation. But this is reality and we cannot escape from that!
@allknowing (136769)
• India
29 Nov 12
The possibility now to have a virtual contact has made meeting personally a distant dream. So many make do with this. I only wish there was no virtual world when we would make efforts to meet personally. Just a thought.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I understand what you are trying to tell here,and in some point I agree with you. But with my situation and my aunt who lives thousands miles away from me. I just can't help but be thankful that there is virtual world, co's I can't visit her because of distance or simply just hard to get visa. At least with skype and facebook I'll be able to see and talk with her.
I also have loads of friends that lives abroad and there is no way I can visit them because I just don't have the money for it. With internet I can able to contact them. :)
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
But actually... for this case... thanks to virtual world. I'm just thankful that even though my aunt is thousands miles away I could still talk to her.
I really would like to see her too in person.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I also had a similar relationship with my aunt when I was younger. We just sort of lost touch when she got married and went to the US. She would always bring me a lot of Sanrio and Esprit stuff when I was a kid.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
. She might still do same thing if she's only near you. I wish I could have coffee with my aunt or just some bonding with her together with my other aunts her sister. I hope that she'll be able to visit home next year.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
29 Nov 12
I used to live in my grandmother's home for nearly a year. Like you, I have a aunt and she takes care of me. At that time, I missed my mother very much. I even hate my mother for she left me here. But with attentive love from my aunt i feel not lonely any more. I take her as my mother. Now, we live in different place and I miss her so much. We can just communicate with mobile phone.
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