Now I know what T2 really means...

@aseretdd (13730)
Philippines
November 30, 2012 9:17pm CST
Yes... the Terrible two... my son just turned two a few weeks ago... an now it started... the tantrums... running around without stopping... shouting at the top of his voice... trying to get all the attention... crying... crying... crying... and more crying... There are times when i feel like i can't take it anymore... but when he smiles... laughs... and say something really cute... my heart just melts... and all unpleasant things about the T2 disappears... How do or did you handle your toddler?... when will this tantrums ever stop?...
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
1 Dec 12
Oh, my! The joys of parenthood. I used the search words "firm" and "consistent" and came up with MANY interesting web sites about how to deal with children at this stage. Enjoy, because soon enough you little boy will be all grown up and gone from home. But he will still love his mom1
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I always say that to myself... he will grow up in no time... and would soon leave... have his own family... and when that time comes... i will always wish that he is still 2 years old... and my adorable tantrum filled baby... Thanks for the response...
@vanz_6 (100)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
awwww, this is so heartwarming :-) --- "he will grow up in no time... and would soon leave... have his own family... and when that time comes... i will always wish that he is still 2 years old... and my adorable tantrum filled baby..."
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• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I think our son didn't have much tantrums when he was two but he ran and ran a lot. LOL. He was really tiring because he wanted to walk alone without any adult next to him. He just loved walking, running and playing. He only cried when he was already hungry and sleepy. Just try to talk to your son. Try to stop him from crying. Don't yell or shout at him, maybe he'll cry a lot more louder. LOL. I hope he will stop having his tantrums soon. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I remember my daughter having tantrums at the silliest thing... and the same is true with my two year old... but now... there are two of them trying to get my attention... and they can be very very creative... he loves running around... climbing... jumping... etc etc... he is such an adorable handful... Thanks for the response...
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• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Oh, your children are so cute. I hope they won't make you tired every day. I guess that will change as they grow older. For the meantime, enjoy them while they are young.
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@AmbiePam (93738)
• United States
17 Dec 12
That's pretty bad. I hope you can get through it with your sanity intact.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
There are times when i think i am about to lose it... but when i watched in the news about what happened to an elementary school in Connecticut... i felt so lucky to have my kids near me... and i love them even more... Thanks for the response...
• United States
2 Dec 12
Yes, it will stop, you won't know the day or time and you probably won't even note it. It will just happen and then one day you'll see a mom going through the same thing and you'll promise her that it will end too. Kids are work, hard work, they are extensions of us, we want the best for them but we also want the best from them. They aren't robots, they have feelings and hurts and when we see those for what they are we can cater to their personalities even better. My daughter has a soft heart for animals and I take her to the pound to see them all the time. My son is turning 13 soon, he's getting a mouth on him and I let him get a few digs in before I set him straight. They will learn if you teach them so I have to be aware when its lesson time. They grow out of their tantrums, then they grow up. Hang in there, love at the end of the day cures all.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
You made day a lot more easier because of this post... gave me hope that these tantrums will eventually stop sooner and not later... just need to stretch my patience a lot more... been working for years and now that i am a full time mom... there are times when i think that i cannot handle the situation anymore... but now i believe that i can... Thanks for the response...
@vanz_6 (100)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
oh my, oh my. I have a son who is almost 14 months. Am I going to experience this so called terrible two too when he turns 2? Haha. He's such a bundle of joy now, learning a lot of tricks, learning to speak, playing and laughing all the time. But what about when he turns 2? Oh well, it's all about children anyways. I guess they will all pass this stage. I'll just have to be prepared. :-) I agree when you said "my heart just melts..." Sigh, yes, what a wonderful feeling it is to have a child, his smile, laughter, really heartwarming. Goodluck to you and take care. :-)
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
A while ago he threw a tantrum because i was giving his sister a bath... he wanted to join in but i won't allow it... the whole house was filled with his screams... oh my oh my... Thanks for the response... but sorry for the late reply...
@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
My sister's son is now one and five months old and he's pretty much like that already. For sure he's going to be a terrible two in months. My sister has been having sleepless nights because he doesn't want to go to sleep. He cries everytime he's taken into the bedroom because he likes to play outside and watch his videos on TV even if it's 12 midnight already. During daytime my sister's having a hard time feeding him because he wants to play and he's a picky eater. My other sister has a two and nine month old daughter and she's a very terrible two even if she's going to be three years old in February. She's hyperactive and restless that she always gets bruises and bumps. My sisters don't need to workout, their kids are enough to burn the calories. The tantrums will lesses as they grow I think. You're right just a smile and a laugh and words you can't even understand and all the tiredness and annoyance is gone :)
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
My son was such an angel during the first year... he is still an angel... but a hyperactive one... he still sleeps early... but also wakes up very early... and would cry if no one will give him the attention that he wants... i don't need to go on a diet to... just taking care of him is enough... i already lost 10 lbs actually... Thanks for the response...
• India
1 Dec 12
there are so many T2s in the world, I got confused as to what you were referring to.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
You might understand what i am talking about if you read the whole discussion...
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