Two Timer
By ybarradotcom
@ybarradotcom (84)
Philippines
December 2, 2012 12:08am CST
There are those people who can't avoid to have lovers at a time.
But some of them didn't actually plan to fall for two or more people at the same time. those peoples, like the rest of people do, have themselves too. They are those who is in-love with multiple of people and can't even choose to who to keep holding on and who to give up cause both are precious and meaningful for them. I'm gonna admire those people if they give up one and choose the only one up until the breath of their life cause doing so is the only thing for the best of both world. And better of the best is to let them go and give your heart a break. to think it more deeply who to really choose to be the only one!
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14 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Dec 12
Are you talking about yourself? Sorry but I do not agree with that. It's a choice to have more as 1 lover. The feeling of being in love with more as 1 person doesn't mean you have to start a relationship with all of them! And what is the best is a personal choice as well. Might be 2 or 3 lovers is no problem if these lovers do know what is going on and are allowed to have some other lovers as well! Since this is about equality .. and love. And love should come from both sides.
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@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
I'm not referring of my own, its for the T.V. series themes I watch ..And sorry but I don't agree to your point cause for me, I'd rather be with a relationship with one person or with none.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
First of all if the person did not let him/herself fall in love with another person, there won't be a problem choosing between two people. The person must stick to one love only.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Some people just happen to be caught between two loves-unplanned....unexpectedly. I have been in that situation before. I try to give a valid reason for having that second love. I have been through a lot just because if it. Although I have thought that it might be my true love, the question is, how can it be true when it was very wrong in the beginning? It is hard to admit how much pain I could have inflict on the other person. But learning to let go is the best. It is enough that it had made you happy for a while. But that happiness is bound to end.
@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
Sorry to hear so! But I'm glad and salute for what you did! For that kind of situation, what you did is absolutely the best thing to do! :) Cheer up!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
It was a long time ago. I have gotten over it. I still do think about it sonetimes, but that's just. I don't think I can ever forget something that had,a great impact in my life.
@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
i don't know why, but it really sounds like an advice for me! haha! ..it's not really for me .. :) thanks for the response ..
@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
most dogs and cats make love to as many as they can, so they have multiple heart? haha just kidding! :D
@Krizzzy4U (41)
•
3 Dec 12
Human by nature is selfish. It's all up to us to make that decission. Right or wrong, we'll do what makes us happy. It's their choice to be like that. In the end it's them who's going to suffer the consequences.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
2 Dec 12
Hello
ybarra. I understand what are you talking about. I think that having 2 lovers is not easy. And that to have mind and heart peaceit is more easy to love one of them most. That´s clear because you can expend quality time, and energies best.
And I think that marriage allows us to find that mind and heart peace, if you really love your partener
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Blessings ybarra... welcome to mylot... dainy
ybarra. I understand what are you talking about. I think that having 2 lovers is not easy. And that to have mind and heart peaceit is more easy to love one of them most. That´s clear because you can expend quality time, and energies best.
And I think that marriage allows us to find that mind and heart peace, if you really love your partener.
Blessings ybarra... welcome to mylot... dainy@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Thanks dainy! It really sounds like an advice but it isn't about me, or my situation, just about some themes of soap operas I watch ..hehe :D ..But you know what? I don't like to marry if I'm thorn between two lovers, I'd rather enjoy my own company! :) Thanks!
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
People just like challenges. Challenge of having another. Looking if they still got the magic touch.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
3 Dec 12
What I feel there is no harm as such to keep the friendship as such with more then one person. You know life is choosy and every one want's to or like to choose the best thing in their life. But it is always advisable to keep the relationship, that too faithfully, with one person forever other wise it is they only will make the mess of their life and the person they are in relationship with.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
There are people that don't intentionally two time because they are confused who they love more. Often they try to reflect and ask themselves who they really love more and then there's that fear that they might make the wrong choice. It's tough.
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
I think it's not really good to have two love at the same cause there would be a tendency the you will love the other one better than the other one. As it has being said you can't serve two masters at the same time for time will come that you will love the other one better. I think to fall in love is a choice. If you already have a lover it's better not to fall with another one, it's okay to admire but not to make a relationship.
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
If you look every angle, having a too many lovers or torn between two lovers are not acceptable. It shows that you're a certified player in terms of loving someone. It is most likely seen in guy's population, but not all. The status of this, the people involve can be complicated, especially if they are married. The word adultery is punishable by law, concluding that might result to separation or increase prevalence to divorce cases. On the other hand, in some culture, marrying two or more can be possible.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
I do believe in the beauty of love. If a man/woman fall inlove but can fall inlove again with another new found love then it is not love at all. It is selfishness or that person is just a player and greedy. If you really love your partner (boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife or fiance/fiancee), then you will not going to cheat around for love always brought respect, trust, fidelity, loyalty and responsibility. True love is powerful. If someone say, 'I love them both' then ask him/her, 'are you surely do?' or better say this, 'you don't love them, you just love yourself for love is pure and clean and not goes with adultery...'
@kennethfherl14 (70)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
"Torn between two lovers, giving like a fool. loving both of you is breaking all the rules" that's what the songs says. It is really hard to choose between them, but, why they do that? maybe because, they have the reason why they do that. They've been hurt before. Or maybe, they just do that for vengeance or they are just really flirt. hahaha!!!
But still, we cannot judge them. If ever they have to choose between the two. I suggests , He/She must choose the second. Why? because, why they have to fall in love with other person if they still have the feelings to his/her first lover? get it?
