Betrayal in love?

yup, i ever been betrayed by one of my ex-boy friends. it happened when i was in a college. i fell in love with him since we were studying in a junior high school. i liked him cos he was so charming with his brain. i knew that i crushed on him but nothing we could do cos he had already had a girlfriend who was my best friend. yup, a puppy love story of mine. lol. time went by. we met again when we were in college, at our almost mature age. we felt in love again easily. we then had a hot love relationship. but we should separate each other cos he should study in other city far away from my college. but we always kept in touch by letters and phone. but someday he said that he loved another girl. my world was upside down. my world stopped spinning and i was so so sad. i hated him very much. and the funny thing was he ever visited me to my house, asked me to had relation again with him. sure i rejected cos for me, once you betray, you'll be a betrayal along your life. i loved him so much, but i didn't want my heart being hurt anymore. i chose to let him go and found another guy, the good and loyal one..

yes. i had been betrayed for several times and it hurts like hell. no words can express how much pain it was. it is like your world had turned upside down and you are hopeless. but i do believe that everything happens for a reason. i never let myself down. i never let myself live in bitterness. yes! i had been bitter. it is a part of moving on. but once you had cope your bitterness, you will start to bloom like a beautiful lotus flower. full of purity,full of life.

I have been betrayed a lot of times by someone I love and it hurts like hell. I never want to go through it again. but after all I've been through in this relationship. I still am very optimistic and I am still able to give my love over and over again. although I know that it's hard to hold on when all I do is cry, I also know to myself that it is going to be harder for me if I just give up and let go. I know one day, I will find the happiness and the right kind of love I deserve, I just have to wait and see. :)

How to avoid being betrayed? I don't know how to avoid such situation. I was betrayed once and I was the last person to know that my partner is cheating on me. That was hurt and desperate move for me to kick him out of my life. Maybe one thing to detect it from the early stage is to observe our partner and be aware of what is happening around when there is changes on his/her behavior.

thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well although i have never fallen into love, buy i have seen how many friends go through after being betrayed in love. I see them being completely broken after such an event. I think misunderstandings and tensions do happen in every relationship but it is out duty to keep it intact and see to it that every thing is sorted out properly. Betrayal and break ups is not the solution to all this. What say?