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adforme @adforme (2114) 22 Mar 13

So many people "looking for the one". What if he or she is not out there? There are people having expensive divorces and having a relationship with someone means taking chances. I did not say that one should not take a chance on...

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rockyk Very true. People should learn to be happy. Does not matter whether you are in a relationship with someone or not. One should have a good relationship with oneself first. If you have a good relationship with yourself, you act like a magnet to other people. The...

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Shavkat @Shavkat (139367) • Philippines 16 Mar 13

Is it balance to have inner and outer beauty? I assume that people had their preferences. Is it s gift to have them both? Some people would say, inner beauty counts the most, others will say that the outer beauty is far better. If...

beauty

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rockyk I think inner beauty is more important. Outer beauty is temporary. It does not last. It can be destroyed as well. However, inner beauty always remains. You can trust inner beauty to last forever. But outer beauty can disapper any time. You can't trust it.

23 Mar 13

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 22 Mar 13

[b]Friends, when you make a new mistake for the first time, it is not really a mistake; but you have learned a valuable lesson. But if you keep making the same mistake over and over, it is a mistake no doubt, in fact a big...

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rockyk I completely agree. If you make a mistake, you should learn from it. If a lesson is learnt, it means that you won't repeat the same error again. But if you continue making the mistake again and again, you need to go in a little deeper and ask yourself, "What's...

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 1 Mar 13

My exboyfriend and I,we were college mate ,we had relationship for almost 3 years. we love each other much at that time,our only problem was we both had a bad temper and we never try to accept and bear each other.but i do not...

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rockyk It will be a very sweet gesture on your part if you do help him out with money. But this is a very vulnerable situation. He seems to have feelings for you still so if you carry out their interactions alone, one thing may lead to another. As you said, you...

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rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk Very useful advice! I completely agree with you that online relationships are indeed tricky. One should not trust someone blindly with their money or their love on the person at the other end. It is always a good idea to get to know the person in real before...

1 Mar 13

Mavic123456 @Mavic123456 (21893) • Thailand 20 Feb 13

Once again, I made it through the night. whew.. everyday is a survival day, we wake up in the morning.... we work ... we sleep. Every day is such a day that maybe some of us were bored and some of us find it exciting. Every day I...

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rockyk Wow, I needeed that post to lift me up too. Even I have hundreds of reasons to complain and cry. But I too try and focus on the present moment, those small things, and it just makes me feel better. I think the more we focus on our problems, the more sad we...

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Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 23 Feb 13

Hello there ! Friends , they said that money can't buy happiness but what if my happiness is eating chocolates and cakes , isn't it that i need money to have those ? Or what if my happiness is to travel and travel , isn't it that...

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rockyk Well, chocolates and cakes make me happy. So, I am all for the money! You are right, money cannot buy happiness but money can definitely keep you away from depression and sadness. If you don't know where you next meal is going to come from, you surely cannot...

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rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

So, I have always wondered what is the deal with baseball cards? Now I know what baseball cards and I don't want to offend any baseball fans here. I myself have worn a cap or T-shirt to support my favorite baseball team. But I...

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rockyk I actually never understood this fascination for cards. But I guess it allows you to own something that is related to your favorite sportstar and game. And yes, this fascination does seem to have done down now. Kids these days are I guess not much interested...

15 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk Yes, I agree. They haven't met yet. And now it's been a couple of weeks since they have known each other. They are talking to each other and taking it slow thankfully. Hopefully, it will turn into love, the real thing.

15 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk I agree with you. Sometimes, people fall in love with the idea of being in love. Thankfully, my friend has understood what I was trying to tell her and she is taking it slow. She is still talking to this guy and seems like things are going fine. But they are...

15 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

Ok, I was someone who never believed in things such as black magic or curses or hexes. But then I experienced something which could just not be explained normally. I almost died 4 times within a span of 48 hours. It was like an...

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rockyk That's some very good advice. I agree it does seem odd when strange things begin happening in your life that may have killed you. But the best part is that in your case as well as mine, while someone may have tried to harm us, there was something more powerful...

15 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk Thanks for sharing your story. It indeed is lovely. As you said, I guess it is definitely possible to fall in love so fast. I can see my friend did. But as you said there are questions that remain. Well, two weeks and the relationship is going on OK. So,...

9 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk I can say one thing. This guy is no pervert because he is known to us indirectly through a common friend. My friend just hasn't met him that's all. But yes, you are correct. It is too quick to fall in love with someone, especially someone who you haven't met....

6 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 5 Dec 12

Have you ever been betrayed in love? I am sure there must be many mylotters who have experienced betrayal. So, have you been betrayed in love? How did it feel? How much time did it take for you to get over it?

love

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rockyk That's a good thing that you said. Everything happens for a reason. We should take such experiences as learning opportunities and move on to better people and a better life. It is the other person who betrayed us. It is not our fault. They are the wrong...

6 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 5 Dec 12

Have you ever been betrayed in love? I am sure there must be many mylotters who have experienced betrayal. So, have you been betrayed in love? How did it feel? How much time did it take for you to get over it?

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rockyk I can imagine it must be really painful. Well, the other partner in the relationship is usually the last one to learn about the cheating. Everyone knows. The worst is when you own friends don't tell you that he is cheating on you. Well, at least you got...

6 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 5 Dec 12

Have you ever been betrayed in love? I am sure there must be many mylotters who have experienced betrayal. So, have you been betrayed in love? How did it feel? How much time did it take for you to get over it?

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rockyk I think I understand when you say that you sometimes still think about him. I think more than the love you shared, it must be the pain that he caused you. I think a person can forget the love but forgetting the pain is something different. So, I think I...

6 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk Yes, that is exactly what I wanted my friend to do. Maybe they both know, just like you, that they are meant to be together. But, to be sure, they should still take some time to get to know each other and then proceed. Thanks for sharing your story with all of...

5 Dec 12

rockyk @rockyk (159) • India 4 Dec 12

I have a friend who met this guy online. They exchanged photos and then chatted for about 2-3 days. Well, these were long chats as my friend puts it. And now she says she is in love! And that's not all. The guy she is chatting...

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rockyk You are right. Well, the good news is that my friend has agreed to take it slow. Spend more time getting to know the guy before actually taking a drastic step such as marriage. That's what I was more scared of. I did not want her to rush into things, that's...

5 Dec 12

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