How would you feel...

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

I just want to hear your opinions about this. Yeah, maybe it happens sometimes. I hope the discussion maker won't feel bad about it. I feel sorry for him though. Yeah, it's a part of the learning process... Thanks for posting.

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adnileb

@adnileb (5276)

• Philippines

9 Dec 12

I wish I knew who that is.

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jeztrose

@jeztrose (1405)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Well i think i somehow feel bad because they are saying bad things about it, but in the other hand will also feel good in the sense that my discussion is really interesting enough to talk about.

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your discussion

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

You got a point. I hope all of us feel that way. I guess we should just be positive all the time. Let's just let it pass and keep on posting. Thanks for posting.

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jeztrose

@jeztrose (1405)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

I think if many people argues about your post, it will be very good since we can share more of our ideas and post more hence it will really help on our earnings.

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• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Yes, that is the advantage of the other person who made the discussion based on your discussion.

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bluespygirl

@bluespygirl (2112)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Hello angelkarah! If my discussion were being discussed here, I would feel good or elated in a way. That means my discussion were seen or red not only by respondents but also by the other lotters. Happy Lotting to all of us!

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day to day discussion

discussions

mylot

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Oh, that's good to hear. You'll feel proud of your discussion. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (139828)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

I ignore them my friend. I used to open from different points of view. Good day!

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• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Oh, thanks for posting. I hope all people are like you. It's good to be open to all point of views. Let's keep on posting. Happy mylotting.

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21893)

• Thailand

6 Dec 12

When I was 2 week year old mylot baby girl, I had been so disappointed with responses, comments and all unfavorable to my reading. but then I realized, why do I need to be affected by such comments and responses. It is their opinions so why not just respect it or just don't go back to read it over and over again, just to whine and get offended over and over again. If there is one thing I have learned here in MYLOT is to accept the difference of each other. Yes, I have learned to accept even the weirdest discussion or intellectual one. I have learned to accept that some people just don't agree on what my views are. Sometimes, they say inappropriate words against me, but hey, they are just people like me so.. it is just like that. Different folks with different strokes. Yes, if I think of a good discussion I will post it here so everybody that who will be interested will be getting and learning something from me. I am a teacher, so I think it runs in my blood and system to teach at the same time to learn. OPEN SESAME....

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people

• Philippines

7 Dec 12

Oh, it's nice to meet you my fellow teacher. I can also tolerate such responses and comments. But if the person isn't you, I guess the feeling is different. Yesterday, I've read a discussion and responded to it. It was very personal. It did't mention the name of the original discussion maker but based on the discussion itself, you already knew who was the person referring to. I felt bad about it because if he ever read it, he might be discouraged. I don't know if you've met those two discussions.

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• Philippines

7 Dec 12

Oh, I got a notification awhile ago informing me that it was already deleted. My answer was deleted because the discussion was deleted.

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21893)

• Thailand

7 Dec 12

I really don't anything on anything here... sorry angel. I have not even aware if there is a malice in a discussion being posted here. maybe I am too naive

I just don't put a lot of effort whether, the discussion is about someone or something. maybe you can tell me where the discussion is through PM so I may see if it is below the belt. Thanks for telling me about this.

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vernaC

@vernaC (1491)

• Romania

6 Dec 12

I don't feel bad at all, it's their opinion and they have rights same with me and everyone. I just shrug my shoulder and say ok.. and continue pointing out my own opinion. As long as no insults and cursing, everything's fine.

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Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

12 Dec 12

read the guidelines as the admins says report insults not take them as constructive as thats not what they are, an insult is an insult.

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• Philippines

13 Dec 12

You are right. Insult is insult. That's so obvious. I hope others will just keep their insults to themselves. LOL.

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Oh, yes. I guess if ever some bad things are written, we should just take them as constructive and not destructive criticisms. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

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insulted and wou ld report them to admins

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

12 Dec 12

hi angel this is not l ike facebook we do not do likes and we should not p ost bad things here about anyone, mylot wants us to be decent to each other. if someone thinks a discussion is awful he or she cam go to another one. there is no room according to admins for us to be nasty to each other here. i feel I do post meaningful discussions and if yo u or anyone do not like them you are free to got o another discussion. if someone insults me I will do what admins suggest,report it to the admins and let them look at it. I do not go arou nd post bad things on discussions as we are told not t o do that. this is not Facebook we do don have a l ike or dislike thing here. we rate discu

sssions not the makers.It would not motivate me if someone broke mylots rules and wrote bad stuff it would make me report the remarks and let my lot deal with it.What motivates me is when people tell me that they appreciate my discussion.

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• Philippines

13 Dec 12

Yes, I guess even Facebook. They should not be mean to others. That's why Facebook is becoming a bad site nowadays because of those online fights. Is that right? I mean wall-to-wall figts or posting their status with bad stuffs. Yeah, I guess that's the bst thing we could do. To report those insults to myLot admins. Thanks so much Aunt Hatley. :)

Jenny1015

@jenny1015 (13366)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Well, I might feel bad about it but I would just let it pass. After all, we are free to post anything we want for as long as it is within Mylot guidelines. If it were other member's way of expressing themselves, well and good. They just need to be careful not to make the post too personal as it will surely be deleted.

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Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

12 Dec 12

angel in the guideline the admins says its not f un to be insulted and cautions us not to do that so harsh criticisms are insulting and I do report them and they are deleted. we are suposed to be decent to each other. so if we see a discussion we just do not like bypass do not tear the person to pieces as my lot will not stand still for io anyway. the response will be deleted believe me. I have been here for five years and have seen mean responses deleted. after all there is no law that says if you do not like a discussion you must respond to it'but there is a rule telling us not to be hurtful to one another.

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• Philippines

13 Dec 12

Oh, you are right Ms. Hatley. Thanks for the information and for sharing your experience here. It's not really nice to be mean to others. Maybe they don't mean to be rude, but their words are painful. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Oh, thanks for posting. Yes, all of us are free to post anything we want. I hope we'll just be aware of the outcome. We don't know if the person is open to criticism or not. I guess it's better to avoid posting discussions based on other people's discussions especially if the content is to criticize. We can take it as destructive criticism. I hope te peron won't read it. But it's impossible I guess.

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adnileb

@adnileb (5276)

• Philippines

9 Dec 12

Of course I would be hurt if there are bad things written. But I know I won't do any discussions that would make them do that. (hopefully)

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• Philippines

13 Dec 12

Yes, I guess we have to be careful in posting our discussions. I guess others are critic here. LOL. We better watch our for them. I hope we won't be the center of their attention or the person behind their topic. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

prashu

@prashu228 (37524)

• India

6 Dec 12

There should be some reason for the discussion right. If there is then i wont feel bad and let the things go. As people will definitely forget about it the next day. If there is anything i should learn then why not i will definitely learn , after all life is a learning process.

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• Philippines

6 Dec 12

Yes, I agree with you. I guess it's also inevitable if some of them want to make their discussions based on our discussions. I guess somehow they have some benefits in making their own discussions. They'll learn and earn. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

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kenshin2143

@kenshin2143 (1880)

• Philippines

6 Dec 12

I did not get what you mean by saying "your discussion be discussed here". But as I understand it, I think I would be grateful because my discussion is worth discussing outside my website or community.

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• Philippines

6 Dec 12

For example, you posted a discussion here. Then, another mylotter will post his or her discussion too based on your discussion.

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kokomo

@kokomo (1867)

• Philippines

7 Dec 12

I think I don't feel bad for it. I just take it as positive and I can not please anyone here to tell positive about my discussion. Everyone has its own thoughts and its up to each of us if we take it negatively or positively. We are free to utter what is in our minds and we should be open minded about others thoughts.

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open minded

• Philippines

7 Dec 12

Oh, you are open-minded and open to criticisms. That's great to hear. However not all people are like you. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.

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AkamaruKei

@AkamaruKei (5219)

• Malaysia

10 Dec 12

Do you mean example like if i post discussion another member also post a same discussion?

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• Philippines

13 Dec 12

No, that's similar discussion I think. For example, you made your discussion. Then, I don't think it's a good discussion. (It's nonsense.) I will start my discussion about your discussion. I will write the content of your discussion and talk about it and ask mylotters about their take. Got it?

applefacier

@applefacier (56)

• China

6 Dec 12

don't need, just ignore it and keep yourself happy!!

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