Got my first Christmas card today

@GreenMoo (11834)
December 6, 2012 3:34am CST
Isn't it a bit early still? I'll have lost it by Christmas, or someone will have used it for a book mark / coaster / note pad. It's from an old friend of mine I speak to rarely, and it's nice to know she's still alive. Other than that, it tells me nothing about her life or how she's doing. I'd rather have got a note, or a phone call. Can you tell I'm not really into Christmas cards? Seems to me that they're often used to keep in touch without, well, without keeping in touch. Seems to me that people substitute sending a card for actual contact the rest of the year. What do you think? Am I just being miserable (again!)? Do you send many cards? Do you include a personal note?
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• Greece
17 Dec 12
My first card always comes from the same person each year. I am always disappointed if there is no note with the card. Why send it? I have cheated this year and just sent email cards, this is quick and it is easy to include a short letter or a long note. So it is personalised, not like so many of the cards that one feels have all contained the same message and signature. However I realise now that I should have checked with my address book because now any friends who do not have computers have all been missed out. I do enjoy having a few cards to put on the mantlepiece so I guess I am a little double minded on the question of Christmas cards.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
19 Dec 12
I'm disappointed that most cards end up in the bin. Who takes the time to recycle them these days.
@GreenMoo (11834)
8 Mar 13
I assumed that most people did actually! But perhaps I'm giving too many folk the benefit of the doubt! Mine would tend to be recycled at home by the kids in their crafts, but there are plenty of organised card recycling schemes about. There's no real excuse not to.
@GreenMoo (11834)
19 Dec 12
I'm afraid I just don't like ecards. Although I'm not a great fan of Christmas cards, I still prefer them. Although, the way I'm going, ecards are going to be the only alternative I have this year ....
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
6 Dec 12
I received my first card yesterday. Also nothing too personal either... It's from my chiropractor office with probably an 'efficient' front desk assistant who sent out a bunch of cards to all his patients early (so she can be done on time to take her vacation...)
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@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
Wow, No one will give me that since here, they don't celebrate it in Thailand.
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@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Dec 12
Well Nerlerks, I don't think you'll miss a Christmas card from your chiropractor!
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I love Christmas and everything about it - except for the cards. I send less than a half dozen and receive about the same. One is to an elderly aunt that I only hear from once a year, one is to a former pastor and his wife that I hear from about the same number of times. The other few are to real friends that I keep in touch with off and on throughout the year. I always send a little money with one of them and another is more like a special "hello." I hate to write notes in Christmas cards so keep that to a minimum and do only what I have to do. Can I be miserable with you?
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@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Dec 12
Absolutely you can! I send cards only to those who will be hurt if I don't. Which reminds me that I must get my tail into gear and get the kids to make some.
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@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I got my first and so far only Christmas card about 2 weeks ago. I have the last card my Mom gave me before she passed away the January after that Christmas and I always hang it up with any other cards I get. It's been 5 years now and I haven't missed a year!
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@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Dec 12
Two weeks ago? I swear Christmas starts earlier each year! I love the story of your mum's Christmas card. Such a nice memory.
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@ElicBxn (63569)
• United States
7 Dec 12
I don't send cards normally, or notes, fact is that if they aren't online they probably won't hear from me.
@ElicBxn (63569)
• United States
10 Dec 12
I'm down to only one elderly relative and my sister goes to see him all the time.
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I have to make exceptions for those who don't have access. Elderly relatives for instance.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I got my first one on the 4th and what a delight it was! I love getting mail like that! It was from my nephew and his family and although it wasn't chatty they wrote that they loved me. I get photos-real photos, not digital!-of the kids from them 3-4 times a year and we email back and forth. I generally do not send or get cards from people that I don't have regular contact with, I don't maintain those relationships. I figure if they're not willing to work at keeping in touch they don't care about me. So I only get cards from people that I'm close to. I feel really blessed that I'm sending out 16 cards this year--that's 16 people with their families that I have a loving relationship with. Why don't you call or write to your friend? Maybe she thinks you are too busy to read a letter or take a phone call. Go to lunch with her if she lives close enough.
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@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Dec 12
I'll write to my friend, she was already on my list which i was hoping to complete before Christmas. I only send a handful of cards myself, to close friends and family who would feel upset if I didn't send one. If they're close enough friends then they know I'm thinking of them every day and they won't need a card from me to prove it!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
14 Dec 12
I choose my card list carefully and only send to those I care about. I'm letting them know that I'm thinking of them and wishing them the best for Christmas and the coming year. I don't send many and I include a personal note for some, not all.
@GreenMoo (11834)
19 Dec 12
My list is also short and sweet.
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@BarBaraPrz (47144)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
6 Dec 12
I got my first card yesterday (Wednesday). My cousin used to continue her mother's tradition of being the first to send out cards. They would arrive by the first of December. But I haven't received one from her yet. (Maybe today's mail?) I haven't sent any out yet but I suppose I should get to it soon. I don't even know what the postage is.
@BarBaraPrz (47144)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
6 Dec 12
Our first Christmas early in my married life, we didn't have a lot of ornaments yet, so put the cards on our tree to fill in the spaces. Cards can be taped to a door or wall, or strung on a line. What I do in this place is tuck them into the hall wainscoting. Never lost one yet.
@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Dec 12
Bad move. First card I receive is the first to get lost. But I guess your cousin must have family and friends who are more organised than I am.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Dec 12
It seems it is early to receive a Christmas card. But I still think that your friend is sweet because she still remembers you and then send you a Christmas card. Being early is always better than being late. She might just want to avoid the busy posting moment. Perhaps there is no more recent details in the Christmas card, but she may just wish you a merry Christmas and that's all. The cards are too small to write down more words. I don't send Christmas cards any more. I send E-cards since it is much more convenient.
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I don't like ecards myself, but they're much cheaper than postage.
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Christmas is the time of the year where families and friends get together to celebrate. I guess this has been the tradition for Christmas over the years. However because some of the family members and friends live far or maybe busy, they send Christmas greetings through Christmas cards to their loved ones. I understand where you are coming from. At this time where communication should be fast and easy, your friend should have personally get in touch with you. I'm sure you miss your friend and you want to know what's going on with his/her life. Or don't you even have any connection in any social network sites like facebook where at least you could share some photos? We'll I guess your friend still value your friendship, the fact that a Christmas card was sent to you. How about you trying to contact him/her instead so you could connect personally once again. For sure both of you will have a merrier Christmas. Merry Christmas to you!
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I intend to respond with a personal letter. It's nice to keep in touch, and her card has reminded me that I'm not very good at it myself.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
8 Dec 12
About half the out of town cards I get contain an annual news letter that lists the achievements that they and their children have accomplished over the past year. The problem with that is that we've reached the age where our accomplishments mostly consist of finally finding a doctor for our ailments.
@GreenMoo (11834)
19 Dec 12
that made me laugh! We used to received annual letters too, but don't see so many any more.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
9 Dec 12
I have gotten two so far. My cousin is first every year! This year she was a few days late. I usually have it the day after Thanksgiving! I only send 2 or 3 now, because I have a problem writing. Sometimes I include a personal note if it is someone I haven't seen and used to see all the time, but usually not.
@GreenMoo (11834)
19 Dec 12
your cousin obviously uses thankgiving as her mental prompt for sending them.
• China
9 Dec 12
It is a little early indeed,there are two weeks to go before Christmas.However It was nice for your old friend to think of you at this moment,because you don't keep in touch with each other so often.Over here,greetings card seems to be out of date,it is replaced by using mobile phone to send a message of greeting ,even if it seems to me that it is less respectful than the greetings card.
@GreenMoo (11834)
19 Dec 12
I agree with you about mobile phone greetings, and I feel the same way about ecards.
• United States
7 Dec 12
I don't think sending them and recieving them is a bad thing. I mean i understand people could just call but i think people send them out cause its a christmas cheerful thing to do. I like recieving christmas cards a lot. It feels good to get christmas cards. But people are different though. Which isn't a bad thing.
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
If we were all the same, life wouldn't be half as interesting!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
6 Dec 12
Yes I send cards and yes I include a personal note..sometimes a letter catching everyone up on what's been happening. I love getting Christmas cards....just love it!
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I'd love a card with a personal update. It's the ones that just contain a signature which I have issue with.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Dec 12
It's actually been several years since I've sent out Christmas cards because of the fact that it has simply gotten too expensive to send them out. When I was sending out Christmas cards, I was always including a short note about what we were doing in the cards. The reason that I did that is because there were a lot of people that I didn't have the opportunity to talk to on a regular basis, but who I know do care about our family. For us, we've received one Christmas card already from my in-laws, but that is all. In fact, I have to say that I don't expect too many more cards because they are expensive, like I said before.
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
The postage does soon add up. I reserve them for those I really want to send one too, not my whole address book.
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
7 Dec 12
Well we haven't gotten any Christmas cards either. A long time ago we used to get a lot of Christmas cards in the mail. Now we would be lucky to get a couple. The cards we do get don't have very much written on them. Just the name of the sender and our names. Nothing really personal about the card either. It must be just a nice gesture on their part that they took the time to actually write and mail them out.
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
It IS a nice gesture, but I'd really appreciate a little note or something too.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
That is good. I miss that thing that one can receive christmas card from postman. Nowadays, they send christmas card through online. Have a blessed Christmas in advance!
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I would never send a Christmas card online. To me it implies that the sender really can't be bothered to do more.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Receiving christmas card is quite emotional and sentimental. Today some people send christmas card through online unlike befor one is going to receive it from postman. I miss that thing and then you are going to open the envelope and read every word in it. It is more personal. I think sending cards is good and meaningful. Hae a nice day!
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
I like ecards even less than impersonal ones. It implies that the sender hasn't been bothered to put pen to paper, although I do appreciate that it's cheaper.
• Australia
7 Dec 12
ohm,i haven't receive a christmas card yet..its a bit early anyway!But some people send it early especially when its outside on your country just in case they arrive it in christmas time..I always sending a card to my family,i just write a simple note wishing a great christmas time,and not like your writting a letter to them on the card..well,you can separate a piece of paper and write everything on it
@GreenMoo (11834)
9 Dec 12
It's nice to have more than just a signature inside a card. A note it great.