What does his mean when he keeps talking about his ex-???

I have also experienced the same with my husband before when he was still my boyfriend. I mean it is okay that he tells me about his past, but to constantly talking about his all his ex? What for, right? While he doesn't want me to talk about my past unless he really asks about it. Then there was this incident in the mall. We were on our way to go to the movie theater when he suddenly saw his ex girlfriend. She didn't notice him if he did not actually come over to her. I was like, what the? He came over and as he was approaching he was giving me an overview of how he knows the girl. I got so annoyed! He introduced me to the girl. But I was just like staring at her and never acknowledged her! I turned around and walk away. He caught up with me and got mad why I had to act that way. It was one big fight after.

It is really irritating indeed to have that kind of boyfriend. Don't he know that talking his ex would make her girl feel mad?Don't they know about that thing? well my partner seldom talks to me about his ex,i am the one who always open topic about her and whenever i do it seems like he does not want to talk about her. I hope that his boyfriend will realize that, for us girls it will hurt as if he keeps on doing that. and conclude that he still loves her.

Realized or not people tend to compare love relationship. Some people talk fluently to his / her current lover other just keep their mouth shut. For me, when people made comparison (specially if they doing it constantly) on love relation it mean they still had some feeling with their ex. They know everyone are unique / different but they expect their current lover same like their ex. If I'm in your friend position, I'll better to talk about it with her boyfriend. If he still doing it even your friend already told him that she didn't like it, it mean that boy not ready to make new relation .... that mean they should take a break for a while

Sounds to me the boyfriend is NOT over the relationship with his ex. He will compare his new girlfriend with his ex endlessly. So if she is a smart girl she kicks him out. She will never win this since in his mind his ex will only be better and greater and more loveable. I wonder why she is his ex, don't you?

hi, hmm this shows he didn't forget his ex till now. Its bad to compare his present gf with ex and sometimes intolerable. He should grow up.

She might be just a rebound. Men are not as complicated as women, if they're inlove, they are inlove, if not, people around can tell but not the woman involved. If you're inlove, you respect, so why talk about ex's and similarities most of the time when you know it might hurt the person you love? Makes no sense at all.

I think this happens also with women. I know some who still talk about their exes even in the company of their current boyfriends. Personally, I think this is a bad sign in a relationship. I feel that when someone compares his or her ex to their present one, whether consciously or not, it means that they still have feeling for their exes. They still have some unresolved issue.

the woman are complicated too that`s why sometimes the big difference between man and woman must be united and it`s beatiful if both of them understand each other

many boys have got such habits talking about their ex girl friend when they have the existing or new girl friend. Actually such act of them is bad and no one will like comparing her to other girl specially if she happen to be her Boy friend's ex girl friend. Under such situation girl should make her so called boy friend either stop talking too much about his ex Girl friend or better you will say good by to him, then he can go and spend the time with his old girl friend. If the girl act this way surely the boy will never talk about his ex girl friend nor about any girl he has met in his life with her present girl friend, that too only if he is serious about his present girl friend and ready to continue their relationship. Tell your friend to try out this formula it will work fine and if he is really serious then he will never talk about his ex girl friend in front of her.

Hi, Its comparing the one with the other which is a bad thing. Nobody is really that similar and one should be able to accept the other person as is or else it is a sure sign of discontent, insecurity or maladjustment. There are people who can't get over the past, it just kept on haunting them, the phantoms manifest in the present situation and the comparison begins. Best thing to deal with this kind of situation is to cool off and look at things from a certain perspective other than the present relationship. If things look good, then go on with it, if not, its time to pick up the pieces and move on.

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your friend's situation and i know she must have got frustrated and annoyed after hearing constantly about her boyfriend's ex. I do not know if her boyfriend was doing this intentionally or not but he should have thought at least that if he is talking about his ex then that might disappoint his girlfriend and might possibly affect his present relationship. He should not do anything that will affect his present relationship at the cost of his past relationship. What say?

Maybe he still have feelings for her ex because why he keep on bragging her ex in your front , that's bad ! Like he got no respect for your emotion too. That happens to me , he even don't have intention to tell me about her girl but it was just brought out because he has to explain something then that even makes me flare up ! How much more if being compared then it is really the end. Men are sometimes inconsiderate .

Yes, If I were your friend too I will get annoyed also and feel bad that I was been compared to any of his past girlfriend. Everybody is unique and being compared to other girls most especially my lover's past is so much insulting. And there is no sense to compare because if the past is better than the present then they must be still be together.

Awww, if this happened to me.. I will be his next ex. I think, it is not good to discuss such relationships to the current lover specially if it has been openly discussed between the two parties. Why would he do that??? Is he still attach to his girl... I just can't believe it. such irresponsible and very disappointing. Yes, no more for him. LOL

Intentionally or not,being compared to your partner's ex is the absolute last thing you want to be hearing about in a new relationship..if that doesn't spell it out in big letters "I'm still not over them and ready to move on",then I don't know what does.. And the Guy is so insensitive he goes over it again with a comparison of what the ex and his G/F have in common! So He Picked her because She reminded him of his EX?! talk about your rebound relationship...

It is either they are really good friends or they are not really over with their feelings. I understand your friend. I will not feel comfortable if my boy friend is speaking with his ex. In my case, just to respect my boy friend, I am not communicating with my ex boy friend. I do not think men are complicated. What you see is what you get. I think girls think deeply or think too much about a men's words and action. Hence, misunderstanding and misinterpretation comes in. I would advise your friend to talk to his boy friend about what she really feels.

I hope your friend isn't my ex boyfriend's gf, Im just kidding Well I talked with my ex boyfriend again, and he asked my love life and he told me his love life too. He said he broke up with his gf because he compared her to me, ew comparing girlfriend to ex girlfriend is a big no in a relationship. I told him, if my lover keep talking about ex girlfriend I would do worse than she did to him. To be honestly, it doesnt impress me at all to have my ex bf comparing me with his gf and said I was so much better than the girl. I mean my time with him has over, everyone has different talent, different traits. Maybe in 1 side Im better than the girl, but Im sure she is better than me in other side, so I agree with your points there is no use comparing one person to another person. How is your friend now?

Any one with some common sense would avoid talking about their ex in front of their new love. That boyfriend of hers... pardon my language, is stupid. He should have known better. Even if he didn't intend to hurt his gf, he still should not have brought up such an unnecessary topic. And now he's even making excuses for his behaviour. The best he could have done was apologize and promise not to ever do such a thing again. I scarcely talk about my ex to my bf. We don't have problems with that since I never compare them. My bf is the silly one who asks to be compared, which I totally don't answer. I hate being compared to other people, especially to ex-es. So I know such topics should be avoided. I don't think men are complicated, they are often easy to read and they think simply most of the time as I have observed. Of course, not all men because every individual is different. By the way, if a bf keeps talking about his ex-es. That might be a sign that he still has lingering feelings for his ex, not necessarily good feelings but feelings nonetheless.

Based on the details you've said, the boyfriend of your friend still loves his ex-partner. This is not appropriate to talk or even compare her to his former girlfriend. It was like, the guy is not get over from the previous relationship. They said, if you really have the intention to move on and get into a new relationship, you should love again if you're ready.

Whew! What a boyfriend?! Well, infact ex-lovers can be friends of course. But keeps on comparing your present girl to your ex-one is really absurd. This boy needs to grow up... I understand your concern and I understand the feelings of your friend. But to clarify this out, your friend needs to talk to her boyfriend about the issue. Loving someone has many complication, it is a choice between never give up and just give up...