People that Skip/Cut the line
By silverfox09
@silverfox09 (4708)
United States
December 13, 2012 12:21am CST
Standing in the Bank or any long line and you notice people getting skip in front of you . How would you react ?
I am always convincing people to let me cut in line people at the back are always looking at me like Grrr . Also I have friends that work in the bank and they would call me as they see me .
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10 responses
@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I agree with you. If I see someone that don't have as much as I do then I will tell them to go ahead of me. But nothing makes me as mad to be standing in line for a really long time and people just cutting the line like the think they own the place. Thank you for your response.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Dec 12
Childhood the good old days lol , I dont just cut them , I ask the person before and they agree . I would never just cut in front of a person without they agreeing. I think its extremely rude if the person just stand in front of you and didnt even ask .
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Dec 12
True even though I do it lol , I hate when I am standing and I see people passing me but I normally dont say anything because I know I am also guilty of the same thing .
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@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Thanks for your response. I think thta we have all done it at some point in life. If nothing else we done it as a child. LOL. But maybe you should start asking from now on if it is ok with a person before gtting in front of them lol the way the world is coming along it people may start getting really mad and a fight might break out. But i think most people are ok with you passing them if you ask if they mind if you go ahead of them. If you tell them that you are in a big hurry or that you only have 1 or 2 items and they have a buggy full.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Dec 12
Hi Silverfox
This Skipping the line was so common here until a few years back. Thank lord, people are learning and many now dont break the Queues. I also had many a times broken the lines and that was long back, when I was at school and college. But then, there was almost everyone doing the same thing back then.
Today, when I see some odd one doing that I at least raise my voice once and if the others in the line join in, things go good for all of us... and if not, still, there are only a handful of people doing this today.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Dec 12
Not a lot of people do it here , sometimes I feel its just me lol but its mainly on my break time so people normally understand ... I always ask a person though , never just stand in front of them .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I just had to laugh when I see your respond ...
If I was the person before the fight I would be like
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I wouldn't let people cut in line before me especially if I've been waiting like forever. It wouldn't be fair to try and cut in front of people who may have been waiting for minutes or hours. Shame on you for convincing them to let you cut . What do you say to get them to let you in line, maybe I should try your tactic in long lines. Lol.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Dec 12
I sometime say shame on me too
You also judge the person on how they look and you can tell the possibility of how they may react . Tell them you have to get back to work before your lunch time is over ( all depends on the time), Convince the person to let you cut then you tell everyone else you were behind / in front of the person , they were saving the spot for you and they will go a long with the story .
Sometime I am telling the truth , now I have more than one friend working there so I dont have to stand in any line at the bank .
I normally allow people to cut before me when buying grocery because they might not have a lot .
@vanz_6 (100)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
In my own opinion, cutting a long line is unfair. The others are there falling in line waiting for their turn restlessly, mostly i'm sure have also other things to do after falling in that line but they still patiently wait for their turn. I myself don't do it, I don't cut line, When I see a cue, I go to the end of the line and wait for my turn patiently. If someone cuts it, i feel quite irritated not only for myself but for the other in line as well. Especially if the person cutting the line is able and in good fit (like, he's not physically disabled, not a senior citizen, etc. cases wherein there's no special line for them), I would feel irritated. But I am not the type though that would immediately tell the person that he's being unfair for going and cutting the line, i would just feel bad and pray that someone would tell him he's doing it wrongly. On the other hand, if the line is short and someone is really in a hurry and has a few transactions only, for example in a grocery store perhaps, he's just going to pay for one or two items, and I am going to pay for like 19 items, i usually let him go first, it's okay with me. Depends on the situation.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Most places have special line for people that are not able . It is unfair but I do it lol not all the time just when I am in a hurry, I know other people may be in hurry too . I am happy I dont have to do that anymore , I can call ahead and go straight to the tellers I know in the bank .
I normally allow people to go before me in supermarket also , even if they have more than 10 things as long as they dont have as much as I do . Because there is normally a line for people cashing out less than 10 tings at our grocery .
@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
I hate those people, I wish they self-discipline. I would confront him or her right away. It should be corrected, I've been in the line and suddenly cut by someone. Good day!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Lol I would see people be like , I would say I was here I just went out for a while and ask this person to save my spot .
When I am in a long line I know someone cut in front of me I am also pissed ( but never say anything ) but if the line is short I would normally not mine them . Sometime they would ask if they can please go in front because they are in a hurry , I would normally ask that too and because people can see my uniform they believe me .
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 12
In the bank there are two lines. One is the ordinary one and another one
is priority line for priority premier clients of the bank or senior citizens.
We just hate it when people cut the queue because I believe in 'first come
first serve' basis. Everybody's time is valuable too. In your case is different
because you have privilege - you have friend that works there!
Nowadays. our local bank using Qmatic that is base on queue number. The digital
board will instruct the holder of the given number to go to the next available
allocated counter. No fuss of cutting queue ...
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Dec 12
Yeah thats how they do it here also , you will see the next available counter , the seniors have cheers to sit on and they dont really have to move until they see their numbers and pregnant woman can also join that line.
I agree everyone time is valuable .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
I wouldn't mind if it was an old man or lady. But otherwise, I wouldn't let anyone go ahead of me when I have had a long time standing in line.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Dec 12
Some places that have long line normally have line for senior citizen and pregnant woman .
@else22 (4317)
• India
13 Dec 12
I don't like it.I often come across long queaue and people standing behind others waiting restlessly for their turn.Sometimes I find myself standing behind all others.I have also seen some people jumping the line to get their work done even if it is not their turn.If someone tries to jump the line,I object and generally others in the line follow suit.They too protest.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I know what you mean , I know some people will react aloud . If I am not in any hurry and I am in the bank , I would stay where I am but whenever I am in a hurry I would call my friend the night before to let they know I am coming in .
@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
I wouldn't mind because i do that sometimes when I'm in a hurry. So I will think that the person is in the same situation. But other people are also in a hurry and their patience is not that long that's why they're angry. Even in grocery stores, I do not feel angry if someone wants to go first and their just using basket and I'm using a cart as long as they ask me nicely and properly.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I also allow people to skip me in grocery store once I have more things than they do . I guess because we do this , it come back to us like Karma . We allow people and others allow us .
Yes some people may be in a hurry , tired , and as you say their is not much patience so that is why they are angry when you get ahead of them .