Some member criticise my english language
By AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5219)
Malaysia
December 14, 2012 9:52pm CST
Ahh some member have criticise my english language with response. That response had been delete. I feel sorry for someone who is comment in that response. I still angry with that person who is make that response. Try to act smart but offend other people. Grrr! :(
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36 responses
@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
15 Dec 12
Well you know they are not allowed to do that. At least the comment has been deleted and if it does ahppen again and they are attacking or critisising you then report them right away! There is no room on MyLot for that sort of behaviour
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 12
hi babycheetah thanks you said it better and more concise than I could
way to gol
@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
15 Dec 12
Thanks Hatley! I just get so sick of all the negatives and things like this in the world. I come on MyLot because it's such a nice community, a place where you can forget about bad things tht go on for the most part and then you see this member getting picked on by another. It's appalling!
But you've brightened it with your comment
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
He critic me but i see he also not good enough. It appears he is trying to incite me to stop from mylot.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
maybe that member was trying to say "i notice that your english is not that good, it's the same with me, and i'm so glad that is allowed here because i want to improve my english, too."
sometimes when english is not your native language, what you write is not the same as what you really want to say, and so it is misinterpreted as a criticism, but the truth is you have no intention whatsoever of "attacking" anyone.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
15 Dec 12
Hello hereandthere, I agree with you that it is easy to misinterpret a person's intent. This can easily happen if someone is using their native language, so it has to be more likely for anyone speaking another language.
I can remember a time when quite a few members here had real difficulty with English and it was sometimes hard to actually understand the true content of the post, but most members now seem to have an excellent understanding of English. If a sentence can be understood then clumsy wording or grammar are not that important.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
He say like this, 'where are you from? I see your english just so so'. He not response a topic i discuss. It's out of topic.
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@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
This is his full response 'where are you from ,your english is just so so. i can find out that you are new here,maybe you want to get paid fast ,so you cant stop starting new discussion. time marches on ,you will fell boring and leave mylot.because the earnings is too few for you to insiste'. From what i see he try to make me leave mylot that why he say like that.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Dec 12
Don't be angry, ever! Being angry is negative and we should always be as positive as we can because that is when we get the best out of ourselves!
No-one has the right to criticise the English used by another Lotter here, not eventhose who have English as their first language as they (we) make many mistkaes too.
I admire those who don't have English as their fist language but choose to come here and jpoin in the discussions just the same. I have seen many improve over time while they are here. Keep it up friend and don't let these comments disturb you in any way at all. Admin is here to take care of them, as you have seen
Was this user who cticised you an English teacher with a chip on their shoulder I wonder?
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Dec 12
Gosh I made so many typos in that response!
I love your positive attitude! Continue like this and you will do fine here!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Thanks mysdianait. Haha i dont know, maybe he is a ghost bot. Ghost bot is different with normal bot. It's smart, it can start discussion, response and comment. Ghost bot also can criticize other people here. Dont think seriously. It just a joke. XD
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
That ghost bot is from China. I dont know if he still active because i see he is to boring with mylot and say we not earn a lot of money in mylot.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Hey, Akamarukei! I am sorry of you feel you were sort of "harassed" in a way. Sometimes, this happens but it really doesn't mean that they really wanted to correct your grammar per se, but rather they would wish that you can explained your post much better to avoid confusion among members and so that members can be able to provide you with a good response.
Just don't take it too seriously. You are not alone with this. Just do not be discouraged with negative feedbacks. It should encourage you more.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
I see a lot of member response in my discussion. That mean they understand my discussion. Not only he criticize me but he try to make me stop from mylot because he say i will feel boring here.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
Really? That was really rude. Well, just the same, just don't mind having those comments. Some would just be so insensitive at times. That should not stop you from being here at Mylot. Besides, Mylot did not say that anybody who has poor grammar should be banned from using the site. Just enjoy yourself. Take it as a challenge.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Yeah he should not say something like that. For me it is rude. I not say i'm boring here i think that is what he feel. I think he try to find another partner with him to leave mylot.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Dec 12
Hi Akamaru!
Are you looking for me? Yes my comment was also deleted, he he . Anyway it's part of the game. Let's move on. There are more important things than remembering the pain caused by other people.
We are here to learn new things everyday, to improve, to make new friends and of course to enjoy life.
Have a nice day!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
ARIES1973 my comment also delete there. Not only his response delete but i also receive from mylot notification Your answer comment has been deleted because of the following reason: criticizing the English/spelling abilities of other members. Hmm i think i not do like he do and you also follow that response. Did you see any part of my comment there critic about his english?
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Thanks for explain that renkinjutsushi. I'm just worried if my comment violates the rule here.
@renkinjutsushi (716)
• United States
15 Dec 12
AkamaruKei, please don't get bent out of shape over the notification you received. myLot sends the same message to everyone involved in a deleted response thread. The reason that they gave is the reason the response was deleted, not the reason that your comment was deleted!
Lamb started a discussion on the subject a while ago. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2717121.aspx
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@else22 (4317)
• India
15 Dec 12
Hi AkamaruKei,that's against guidelines.There are a lot of members of Mylot who are not good at English.They commit a lot of grammatical mistakes.Nobody criticizes them.It is really painful to know that you are criticized by some members just because you don't have a good know;edge of English.Mylot guidelines do not approve of this.I commit many grammatical mistakes too.English is not my mother tongue.Nobody should expect me to be perfect in English or any other language.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Yes english also not our native language. I know my english not good enough, he should not say something like that.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Well, you can always report every rude comment/s.
That's the best thing here in mylot
We cannot avoid rude members, but you don't have to worry because we are all safe here.
Admin will surely give proper action for those members.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Yes we cannot avoid rude member. There some people is rude. I not worried about them. I feel happy with a rule in mylot. Nobody can teased other member here.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
15 Dec 12
Most likely this person has never tried to learn a second language before. It is hard work for sure!
@keeperdream (381)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I am sorry that that happened to you. You are welcome here at mylot even if you have bad grammar. Not only can you have discussions and make some $ doing it, but also if English is not your first language it is a great place to learn!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 12
Yeah all member is welcome here. Nobody can say a negative things to make some member leave mylot. I'm still in learning process and improve my english.
@miyazaki12 (429)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Hi akamaru! Don't let yourself be affected by such people. You're grammar doesn't define you as a person rather it is your behavior that shows people what you truly are. Some are just really harsh when it comes to their words. Don't let yourself be depressed and the more... don't stoop down to that person's level. That person may not know how to define manners and good conduct.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Dont worry. I will not stop from mylot because of that. Handsome boy like me not give up easily. :D
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@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
oh!
maybe the person criticize you is the same person that have done to me too..
last few day, but i cannot remember the person name.. haha..
but , i don't really care. if my post have been response by so many people, means that they understand my english, so i don't think its a big problem for me to be here.
at least i try to keep my discussion goes on, reply to all that reply me back..
i hope u forget that person and keep enjoy your day here
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Yeah he critic about me but his user rating very low. He should try to improve himself first before he critic me. I always receive a lot of response when i start discussion that mean a lot of member here understand my discussion. I think maybe he jealous with me.
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
15 Dec 12
Hi Kei, how are you?
Well, you got your answer from the previous responses anyways. I just dropped by to say to you as your friend that, no matter who tells you what about your english language, as far as others understand your english, you are doing perfectly fine
There are room for improvement and you will be better in your english language than the best..hope you understand what i am saying.
Don't let your morale go down buddy
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
The only way to improve english is in mylot. I try my best to create discussion, response and comment. I still on the way to reach 10 star. I not give up because of him.
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
15 Dec 12
Yes you are right friend. I too learnt a lot about english on mylot and i am still learning. It is such a vast language. The more you learn, the more it grows. Forget the stars, just focus on what you do
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
prash133 do not worry mylot does not delete your discussion, response or comment because of your grammatical error. They just delete if your discussion, response or comment violate any rule here.
@emavs9 (63)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I'm sorry that happened! Your english is clearly getting very good! It seems that it is not your first language but I can still completely understand what you are saying and English is a very hard language to learn. I hope nobody treats you with disrespect here again.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 12
I have a lot of my facebook friend is outside from my country. I always use english to talking with them.
@triplejazzm51 (1373)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Hi! just don't mind them Akamaru, go on with your activity her in mylot. Someday you will be writing good english. In mylot, we are here to gain friends and discuss topics we feel like sharing with the rest of the members. We are also here to learn lot of things including english. For me, for as long as i understand what you want to express or say is good. Just keep on posting good discussions.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
No his response not make me to quit from here. Only he will sad for what he done for me. I will keep sharing something at here
@mrsuniega (786)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Oh that was so below the belt. i think that person think to his or herself so smart. No one is perfect here in the world respect what others can since we do not really know them. we don't have to judge others based on the capacity of language. I tell you that person is pathetic.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
How come he want to judge me because i do better than him. His rating still below than 100 and not active but talking like he been a member for a years here.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
we can't please everybody.. there is always a negative thing that will always throw or say on us.. so don't mind those kind of people all they have is to criticize ohers.. but you can also take it in a positve way so you will be more eager to learn english.. that is actually why am I here its to practise more of my english..
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Most people thinking english is easier but in fact it not very easier. Maybe people still can understand what we say but it is still have grammatical mistake. I not study anymore so i just can improve my english in mylot.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Yeah i not care what he say. I will always start a discussion everyday because i'm addicted to start discussion now.
@valerievy (162)
• Guam
15 Dec 12
Don't let those people put you down. No one should criticize you for your English language. They should instead praise you that you are able to write understandably. I'm glad to know that those people's comments were deleted because if they have nothing nice to reply, then they shouldn't post it. I hope no one else tries to offend you or anyone else on mylot anymore.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
I will appreciate if he really want to help me but what he is doing is like mocking me.
@udayakumar671 (2)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
we should not get angry with those who criticize because we can improve our self at that time. just think after those people criticize you was very careful about your English language so do not get worry just think positive. think all is well.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
I not care if he just criticize my english. What make me feel angry when he say i will feel boring here and leave mylot.