i want to get married again
By acrossnation
@acrossnation (773)
Malaysia
December 15, 2012 5:04am CST
Hi there MyLotters friends, lately i have this compulsive feelings that i want to get married again. Day in day out i tell myself i want to get married again. I dont know where the feelings came from it just got errupted all so suddenly. Right now i am enjoying my life at my own sweet pace really really enjoying my life. Could it be the many invitations to this wedding seasons at the end of the Year have any effect to my thoughts and feelings
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12 responses
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
Might be your feelings are influenced by by the marrying crowd. You said you're enjoying your life now , so make the most of it for marriage is never made in heaven , we just don't know you might not be happy there. I am not also foreseeing simply expressing my view basing from what i have seen in the public. Enjoy life there is so much more than to life than marrying.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi Angelpink, thanks for responding to my posts, yes i am really enjoying myself now like i can wake up anytime i want, i dont have to prepare breakfast for anyone that means waking up early for the sake of someone else, i have the whole bed to myself, i can have 1 hour of bathtime, i can sleep anytime of the day, ah endless happiness i should say being single. I just wait a little longer to see if i still feel the same by lessening accepting wedding invitations
@nerijorge (53)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
I, too, have the same feelings lately. But I wanted to marry the same person. Our wedding was not the wedding my wife and I wanted so I really hope and planning for another wedding either next year or the following year.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi nerijorge, that is so sweet of you to marry the same person. I wish you happiness for your next wedding. Thanks for seeing the same view like me, it is something that is unavoidable right
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
15 Dec 12
That's probably it, The wedding season. I'm starting to think about it a little more myself probably because I'm getting older and my kids will get older and leave on their own someday. As fun as it is to be single, that is not what I want it to be like my entire life.
Well, I hope that you will find someone perfect for you and don't be into much of a rush because of those feelings.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi cupkitties, thanks for responding to my posts, what you said here it is exactly what i have in mind at the moment, i guess i know what the criteria of a good husband is after attended many wedding invitations and i believe he is somewhere out there. Who knows his resonant is making all the feelings vibrating
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
15 Dec 12
It is certainly not a case of once bitten twice shy with you. Obviously there must have been some good things about your previous marriage that you find yourself missing. How long have you been on your own?
Try to work out what particular area of your life feels empty now. Being married, even if it does not work out, means having someone to share your life and your thoughts with. Perhaps this is what you miss. It may be that the weddings you are attending are bringing back the times when your marriage was happy and you started out full of hope and enthusiasm.
If you are really enjoying the single life why are you thinking of changing it again? You know that the grass is no greener on the married side of the fence.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi CombedaleRoad, Thanks for responding to my post, all the above you said are right. I ve been single and achieved most of my wants on my own and the thought of another chance might be better with collected self. I dont know, the feelings is so strongs and make me posted it here
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
15 Dec 12
I dont.. been there, done that got a great son out of it... Im done.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi mariaperalta, well maybe you re right, guess i should lessen accepting the wedding invitations but i still want to give another shot and really really carefull this time and follow the footsteps of my friends who are happily married 
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
15 Dec 12
Hello acrossnation. To get married, one needs to find someone worth loving all one's lifetime to make sure that one enjoys a happy marriage. I am married and I am happy that I made a right choice to be married with my wife, the right person in my life. Thinking of those years before getting married as a single, I prefer the life of being married with a family of my own. Life is much more convenient and meaningful and responsible with family commitments. Take care.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Hiwilliamjisir, thanks for responding and your advise. Indeed married life is so much better with the right person. Especially i am a woman there are some chores that only man can do it better like killing cocroaches or fixing the lightbulbs
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
15 Dec 12
Hey, many wedding invitations and actually going to weddings make some people weak.
I do know that some people feel lonely and want to get married because they are afraid of being lonely and others just want somebody to be by their side. ( I am not saying you are one of those people) but ever consider the reason why you want to get married? I am sure there's a good reason. We don't feel things just because.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi AdalieM, thank for responding to my post, i like you said "we don't feel things just because" am not lonely for sure but just want to be in it again, i've achieved most of my wants and this could be the cherry on top of the cake.
i like you said "we don't feel things just because" am not lonely for sure but just want to be in it again, i've achieved most of my wants and this could be the cherry on top of the cake.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
15 Dec 12
Do you just want to get married for the sake of being married? I don't understand. Do you have someone in mind that you want to be married to? I would be inclined to ask WHY the compelling need to get married? You are happy with life as it is now, so you have said. A marriage partner should add something to your life, and if you have no significant other that wants to marry you, then chances are nothing would be added.
So many marriages don't last because we marry for the wrong reasons. I wouldn't marry just to not be alone or for security. Those just arent good enough emreasons to give up my life.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
15 Dec 12
You want to get married and this is your choice, feelings come and go during different time and by different reasons, but you need real and strong feeling for your married life. You mentioned you want to get married "again" this makes more clear you were married before and now you are alone due to some reason. Find the best way for yourself if you are ready to go with your married life.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
Hi yucocean, thanks for responding to my post, Yes i was married before and by choice i should say i end up the marriage. I guess it is already in the air that i have the sudden rush
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@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Hi aravocal, thank for responding to my post, just sharing my thoughts here at MyLot, you absolutely right i am the only person who can make the decision
for responding to my post, just sharing my thoughts here at MyLot, you absolutely right i am the only person who can make the decision @acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
HI izzatisa, Thanks for responding to my post, maybe its the blessings from people around me that also give me the courage to think about wedding bells
