Things you Regret ,which you have done in past year. And plans for the new year.
By Raj
@rajendraingale (289)
Estado De Mexico, Mexico
December 15, 2012 7:24am CST
Hello guys,
As new year is comming near, every one has their plans of enjoying the last day of the year by boozing, pubs,friends, night outs..but have you ever thought about what you did in the last 364 days of the year....do you guys regret some things which you have done intentionally or intentionally..may be you have hurted anyone..
lets start from today itself..let us share those things with everyone so that in future when we are sitting alone and thinking about the past, we wont say to ourselves that i wish i could have shared it with someone..
they say its always good to accept your fault ..at times when you are guilty..or even if you are not at fault..it makes you feel good..and others happy that you are a tough guy..
lets be good from heart and make a resolution that we wont hurt anyone in the next year..and will always make others smile..
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9 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
15 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, we often forget the things we have done throughout the year in the wake of celebrating the coming of the new year.
I think more than celebrating we should pray that we all stay happy cheerful and support each other at all times. If we become selfish and self centered then the world will become an ugly place to live. We have to love and respect each other and make it a point not to hurt anyone in the coming year.
What say?
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
16 Dec 12
I totally agree with you. We have to help each other and share what we can do to help everyone. Only a few TV shows that side of life. Most of the TV shows bring crimes, corruption, winning things (while all the others lose...), rating, money...
How can we find our good will when all the messages are to do the opposite ?
I wish we all wake up and think again before we do something. We can think a moment and ask ourselves "What will the result be for him/her/them ?" ,"Can I do anything with better results for everyone else ?". It will make us better people to live with.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello subhojit,
Its indeed a pleasure sharing this discussion with everyone.
I totally agree with you, The time is something different when we are celebrating the last few days of the year,forgetting what we did and what we shouldn't. At the end of the day its up to us how to live and make this world a happy place and a reason to live. I strongly believe that instead of wasting money on things like party and other stuffs, we should rather donate that money for a good cause. As its a winter season,why not gather funds and buy blankets to those who stay on roadside. Least the blessing which we would be getting will help to get over our mistakes which we did in the past day..
what say..?
@simpleliving3251120 (498)
• Manahawkin, New Jersey
17 Feb 16
Yes, I am all for resolutions that won't hurt anyone and they aren't just for ourselves but for others. Great post, I hope you had some fun with your friends. What is your New Year's resolution for this year? Have you broken it yet?
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@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
17 Feb 16
mmmmm for the last year 2015..I guess i did some mistakes and worked on it , as far as hurting someone is concern, I´m not perfect, yes I did hurt but that wasn´t intentional and I did worked on that and made things work.
My resolution for this year is to work out more hard on my 6 packs and make it more muscular LOL. I love workout in the gym. I don´t wanna be single anymore and wanna settle down as soon as possible.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Dec 12
Yes you are feel regret which I have done in past because anger on my danger and sweet hubby, some time quarrel with my MIL. But to make any plan about new year then not think till.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello surekha ji,
Kaise ho aap,prarthana karta hu ke aap aur apka pariwar sukhi hoga. Waise pati parmeshwar par ghussa hona aam si bat hai,jab wo apki nahi sunte ya fir apka kaha nahi mante,Zaruri to nahi ke sirf pati hi apni patni par gussa ho sakte hai..
Aur taarikh gawah hai surekha ji ki saas aur bahu ki kabhi nahi jami hai..to agar kabhi kabhi jhagda ho jata hai to use dil par na le..rishte nato me to ye sab chalta hi rehta hai..
And i would suggest you to start thinking about your new plans for the new year..kise pata jo apne plan kiya ho wo apke pariwar ke liye sukh aur shanti laye..
hai na..?
it was nice talking to you surekha ji.
Raj
india
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
16 Dec 12
there are many not more than 7 i can remember and recollect and say it because everyone is prone to making mistakes,either intentionally or unintentinal.
But fact is we must get over it and revamp ourself
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello natlie,
I hope you are doin good. And its k that you can't recollect more than 7, Least whatever you have recall are the things which you think you shouldn't have done, And i guess you would like to erase it from you life.
And yes one has to move ahead as it makes no sense in thinking about the mistake and doin nothing, may be in future you might do something which would help to get over your previous mistakes... :)
@franseman (516)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
What I regret most is that I paid over 20.000 pesos for my then so called 'partner'. He assaulted somebody (well, he was a bodyguard at that time and just doing his work as he told me) and had to pay that amount in order to stay out of prison. Later he went away, didn't keep me informed and also had my ca. with him. 2 weeks ago he blocked me on FB. I'm not one for 'sweet revenge' but after all I did for him (lots more than mentioned here) he blocks me???? Now that's a nice way to say 'thank you' NOT!
Next year I'm planning to make money on the internet by putting up sites etc. And be good for people and animals and our environment!
Happy MyLotting!
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello there my fren,
I am really sorry for what happened with you. To be honest even i am facing the same kinda problems these day..trying to recollect my money from frens ..and they don't even bother to receive my calls.
Well at times you think that you shouldn't have made such frens in the first place, But later it makes you realize that atleast you have learn't a lesson from such person who are not trust worthy. Money is something which you can earn from anywhere but not the trust.Personally, now i have decided to make only selective frens whom i can trust.
I wish you best of luck my fren for your plans for the next year and trust me you will earn more than what you have lost..
raj
india
@prettyshe (32)
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16 Dec 12
forget the bad things happened in my 364days past and to continue cherish my never ever forgetable moment in my life and that is I gave birth to my son...
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello there,
Congratulations dear, I hope you and your son are fine and i pray you two should be smiling always..its really a nice start for you to enter this new year.As this is the most precious moment in a womans life, I know you would do all good things possible for you kid.
Wishing you best of luck and lots of happiness.. :)
raj
india
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
Thanks sheryl,
And it would be an honor for me to get a fren like you..sending you fren request.
So are you from india or some other country..coz you look like more of an indian to me..!
And you must be thought of a name for the child right..? would you like to share with our frens ..and how old is he by the way..?
Raj
india
@prettyshe (32)
•
18 Dec 12
hallo raj,
thank you for your words of encouragement and thank you also for the prayer..
I wish also you have more power, good health and more blessings to come..im looking forward to be your friend...thanks
regards,
sheryl
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
hi there rajendraingale, oh, so sorry about the multiple questions, haha you got it right, i really had a lot of things going on in my mind! :D I really am excited about the year that is to come soon. :D And yes, i reflect about how the year was, it was sure really a good year and i hope to make it better next year.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello there,
I wish you best of luck , and I want you to make sure that whatever you do, you should always try to make others happy. If you have done some mistakes, its k, coz we are humans and we tend to make mistakes..but when we realize the mistakes..we make sure not to do it again..
I wish you the best year ahead fren.. :)
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
16 Dec 12
Actually things do not went very well for me in this year,so I really wish things will go better next year and firstly I really need to have a much better job,and of course,wish everything goes well with me.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
18 Dec 12
hello there,
Oh dear, I am sorry for what happened. I guess its something related to you job . Well there are things which comes our way and we have to face it, But what matters is how you face it.I cannot imagine what you have went through, nor the condition which you have went through,but i can assure you one thing that u must be very tough to face those problems.
If you feel appropriate, pls share it with our frens on mylot, May be they can help you out in some or the other way.And if its related to job, I can assure you one thing that you will get a nice job soon.
@ccmacarayan (188)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
Personally, I don't entertain regrets but I make it a point to learn from mistakes. Mistakes makes us better persons---that is, if you learn from it. Should the same mistake happen again we are better prepared to respond to it and come out with a better outcome.
It should be our ultimate goal to always do good to everyone. My motto is, "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you."
