wedding invitation

i love to see others wedding, its really nice and colorful too. hehe

its has so many responsibility after married, when we are ready for it, we know. it just maybe, i'm not ready yet for it.

i hope i will find someone is the right person, now i already 23, people already keep asking this type of question. i need to mentally prepare as my age keep increase. haha

Well, I think I am all cried out over the relationship. Now, it is just more numb. It is live I know I still care about him, and we are trying to stay friends.. Still, I do not understand why he makes it so hard to be friends with him. The funny thing is that I had this feeling a few years back that we would end up not having a future together. Of course, that discussion only ended in a misunderstanding that created a big fight. Finally, I learned not to have where are things headed discussion any more. So, I just started living my life, which was mostly just work. Well, I guess one of his complaints was that I never asked him enough how he was doing just talked about work. The issue was that if I asked him how he was he would not tell me unless of course I weasled it out of him somehow. I got tired of that I figured he would share information when he wanted to tell me. Plus, I was busy about work. Yes, I talked about work because that was generally the one conversation that would not end up with us fighting and me in tears. I guess it is for the best. It just totally sucks having to start over from scratch. Right now, I have a lot of things that I need to get back on track, so dating is like the last thing that I am thinking about. Anyways, I think I need to take some time for me before even considering lookiing to start a new relationship. Pets are so much better for relationships. My kitty has never made me cry. He gives unconditional love. When can't we find guys like this out there?

Oh, I forgot to mention, I do not recall your comment about fairy tales was that in the discussion about not filling children's heads with fairy tales or something like that? Well, my favorite love story is Pride and Prejudice. Not sure if you have seen it. Elizabeth Bennett and Darcy did not even like each other at first. It was his pride against her prejudice of him for slighting her from being from a lower class family. Well, Miss Elizabeth Bennett was quite the opinionated and outspoken character. I love the wit of her character. It was her outspoken words that made Mr. Darcy realize his faults. In the end, the fell in love. It was a double wedding with Elizabeth Bennett marrying Mr. Darcy and Jane Bennett (her sister) marrying Mr. Bingley (Mr. Darcy's best friend).

u make me remember about my post on fairy tales. hehe... even they good to built creativity, but there are always happy ending. 9years, its really long. u must be so sad that time, i hope that u already overcame that sadness. that's why i don't think much on in. i just get hurt everytime i do. so, i just need to focus on my own future first, later about the family. i also want my own family too. still waiting for the right guy

yes! sometime we cannot go all even we are invited. me too. many of my friends already get married but just few of them that i go.

yup! we cannot rush into making this big commitment.i'm not ready for now, maybe in future, we never know when

still keep up with my studies

i agree

ermm.. i know.. when we are single, we just hoping to have someone , but when we are married, we just hoping to get back the single life

not everyone get married when they are young. yes, i just need to focus on my future first, my education, my career. i'm lucky my family still support me about i'm getting to further my study. i hope that family thing, just will be here when i'm ready for it

i already missed few of my friend's wedding. it just the are getting married when i was away. but, the are happy now. i see. my time is just not this year. hehe

good for you, u still need the time to take even u already pregnant. but for me, i will just have a perfect family after i meet the right guy. u must be so strong and have family that can support u during that time. u will not rush into it even other people already talking about it. that why i must be prepared mentally when i back home every year

yup! i will certainly do that if they ask from me

oh, we don't have that kind of ceremony. hehe (throw a bouquet). later i will try to share about our traditional wedding, to share with you guys here. maybe i can share few photo too later

u can see your future bride in future time.. hehe people just eager to married young nowdays

i hope i just to wait to long until i miss the great opportunities in front of me. i hope the right person will appear soon

when the time is right, i hope i will find someone that is really for me. but, now, i just have other thing that i will care first rather than think of this problem

the divorce percentage also getting increase each year. for me marriage is really priceless. i don;t want to waste it with wrong person. when the time is right, i will find the right person for now, i just need to focus on my future, my study and my career

i know its great to start a family while we a young. at least when we have kids, people don't say is that your grandchildren. hehe. i hope for the best for you and your girlfriend