silence is a girl's loudest cry
By liezel25
@liezel25 (292)
Germany
December 18, 2012 8:25am CST
I believe in that quote because I can relate to it. I don't have to show my pain and anger sometimes like when we had a misunderstanding or argue. Im not the same as any other girls/women that they can express their anger through shouting and so on. I'll keep my mouth shut and in my mind I'm crying a lot. How about you ladies out there? Or if your a boy, do you also do it too?
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
I kind of agree to that too, since people these days shout a lot, especially in our neighborhood.. it would be shock if the usually noisy people would become quiet all of a sudden. I do this too, whenever i feel really angry at someone i just go silent and they'll get what i mean, or just figure that something's wrong..
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
I agree. I am not like any other woman as well, i am never the type who would shout, talk and keep on nagging on someone when i am not feeling okay with something. When i am hurt, i would be silent that my man would know something is bothering me, and would think what he might have done to offend me... and then he would know and try to see... he he i think mostly guys are ike this too, they aren't the vocal ones... they are not as open as many girls are and so if they are offended or if they are silent, they could be thinking of something... too, like us girls who cry inside.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
19 Dec 12
In my view its a bad thing as it hurts you a lot inside and atleast those who care for you from heart. I know everybody can not be trusted in this world but whom you love or trust at least you should share your thought once with that person. Maybe that person would guide you through and this way you will also get a chance to lighten your heart and keep yourself away from emotional and mental sickness. So take care of yourself.
@Erynn14 (357)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 12
Hi there, Liezel25.
It is true for me as well. But sometimes, I do complain it out to my friends to express it out. Or else, I will just shut up and keep quiet from anyone who talk to me. This way, I can tell them that I was in bad mood and please do not disturb me so that I can have those things in my mind and slowly clear it away even though sometimes, inside my mind, I cried. But I do not show it out.
This is because I do not want other people to worry about me. Especially my best friends, my boyfriends, my whoever friends and family member surrounding me. I always learn to shut my mouth up at home even though I have the feeling to cry. Just because once I cry, my family members mostly will only say me being crazy and scold me for crying randomly.
So, I learn to keep quiet, and stop my tears from dropping down on my face to hide it from my family members and get scolded. If I really can't, I sometimes will went into bathroom or before I went to sleep, I will for sure to cry it out to express it. I think, silence is actually a good way to hide tears and lessen people from worrying about you. Even we are crying inside.
I'm a girl though. But for boy, I think most of them are. Since people say, boy shouldn't cry because they are boys. So, I'm not sure too. Probably somehow not using the silence way but making themselves happy. Faking a smile hide millions tears. Smile more, even though you have bad things through that you felt like crying. But, smile do help and make yourself feel better.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Dec 12
Sure is.. boy it really used to make my ex husband mad. When I would talk to him for days at a time.Have a great day there... merry xmas.