She loves him but He loves him

I would asked him again to choose between us two. And if he choose him then surely I will not try to step in his life even though I love him too much. In love sacrifice plays very important role, so I will prefer to sacrifices my Love for his Love.

Actually, I had a boyfriend back then that I never knew from the start that he was in another relationship with another guy. I was shocked of course. I wanted to cry when I found out. I told him that I do not feel comfortable that he is still in that relationship while we are involved with one another. He promised he would stay away from that guy. I just believed him when he said it. And I never asked about it anymore. I loved my boyfriend, and that was all that matters. If he really left him, I do not know...until this day.

I don't think there is anything "wrong" with your friend liking a guy that likes a guy but it would probably be a good idea to consider that he just may not be attracted to her. If it ever came around to where they got together, I think it would totally depend on her self confidence level as to how she accepts it.

I tend to believe that it is somewhat common for people to be confused about their sexuality and for that reason, I would accept a man that admitted that he had had relationships with other men in the past. However, he would have to assure me that it was a thing of the past and he is not using me as an experiment to see if he is able to learn to love a woman the same way that he has loved men in the past. I am probably a much more forgiving person than a lot of other people would be.

I don't have the issue on love preferences, if a guy is having two sides of persona; then you accept him fully, there is no issue. But if you are not aware a person is such, that's a big question.

i think she is playing with fire,if he prefers men she should just keep off,she will remain second place always and will be used just for appearances.she should know thats not a relation that can work.its like me falling in love with my pet and it has a mate of its own, lets remain with our type.

If I were courted by a guy who previously had a boyfriend, I would make sure he was tested for HIV...

She sound desperate to me , if he is already involved she should either move on are wait until he is available . Also if he is gay , why would she want to be with him ? she sound weird !! I would not accept to be in a trio , she is just plain desperate in my opinion , I would advice her to quite while she can , she is just setting up herself to get hurt .

Well, there's no problem about your friend's part. She likes a guy who likes a guy? That's cool. But, how about the guy she likes? Will the guy she likes show the same type of emotions she is feeling towards him? Always remember, Girls are the ones to be chased... I know that's kind of classic of me but it should be that way. I'm a guy and I hate how women are looked down upon nowadays. Something like 10 years ago, girls wear decent clothing and still they look good. They wear formal clothes and yet they get a lot of attention from guys. Now, the less clothes you wear.. the hotter you are or the more appealing you are. I have a girlfriend and she's not conservative... she's also wild but i keep on telling her to only be wild when with me privately.. because seriously.. who's going to respect a girl who's not even respecting herself?...I miss the demure girls! anyway, I'm getting a little bit off topic here.. going back! What I wanna say is.. She shouldn't chase the guy. She just likes the guy right? Stop it there, and don't let it escalate to "love". Loving a guy you don't even know is just pure stupidity and just a waste of time.

Well first of all if he has a boyfriend I would not try to pursue him any more. Because he is already taken. Now if they were not together any more, then what are his feelings towards her. Does he like her back. If so, then sure she should give him a chance and see how things go. I would give him a chance, yeah maybe at one time he liked guys, but now maybe he likes girls, so yeah I would give him a chance. But he would have to remain faithful to me and be honest. Like if he later on decided he just want to be with guys, well then he best have tell me. Or he just not want to be together any more, then he should tell me.

Hmmm...I would probably accept him, as the past is the past and this is where it should remain; however, I would only accept him as long as he had changed completely. I want my guy to be 100% faithful to me, so back sliding is not allowed. If two people are compatible, then sure have a relationship, you never know, they may end up being the love of your life.

I never been in this of feeling.I feel sympathy for her. She should let go of him. Time to start over with a new man that a good fit for her.

I think that is not acceptable to society. I mean one will have an affair to a man who has a boyfriend. I would not get into that relationship even though I love him. I don't think I can really love him for doing that. Anyway, I'm not judging. This is my opinion if I will be in her shoes. have a nice day!

You should not make choices for your friend. If she likes him then, she likes him. Let her choose on her own on what is good and bad for her. You can give her a suggestion but not choices.

chiwasaki, If I'm am in your friend's situation I will certainly accept him for a condition; his relationship with the other man is over and he's now changing really change.Past, is important but it's not so important that it will affect my future and will hinder my present. But, of course it's not that easy let your friend make a very wise decision and think it more than twice for it's about her future.