Should I Continue What I Feel For Him?
By mhaiiii13
@mhaiiii13 (17)
Philippines
December 18, 2012 9:36pm CST
Urghhhh. I Hate It. I Think I was already inlove with him. I think the feelings is not mutual. :| I don't know what to do. Should I continue what I feel for him or I should ignore it as soon as possible? I think he has a loved one also. Like what others say "We ignore the one who adores us,and adore the one who ignores us." But I can't help it. If I can only teach my heart who to love,I would really do. But I can't. I'm already stuck with him. Can you help me guys? What is the best thing to do?
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6 responses
@mhaiiii13 (17)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
I already shared my feelings for him· We chitchat one night and now,I'm hoping that that chitchat will happen again· But I hate it,I can't get rid of him·
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Hello, mhaiiii13! How have you been the past months? Has there any development with the guy you were referring to? I hope that somehow, you are happier now.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Mar 13
hi maiiii13 since you are still young and you think he is already spoken for fignore him and concentrate on find someone who is
your age and not spoken for. Otherwise you are in for some big hurts. If he is free and shows he is into you then make a few moves. If he is free and has feelings let him come to you.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
19 Dec 12
I don't think it's possible to forget someone trying to, I think the right time when the lesson or whatever karma we have with that person is done they just disappear from our mind and hearts. I realize that all difficult things in life were meant to teach me something and on top of that all are relationships, there are those that hurt.
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@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
19 Dec 12
hi there,
Its a normal thing at your age dear, so don't take it so seriously. first ask your heart weather you really love him or not, as you said you think you was already in love with him. When you are in love with a person, you are in love till eternity. And to avoide the confusion, don't ignore him, it will make you think of that person everytime, instead be frens, check out how things workout between you two. you should check you likes and dislikes and how you react to a certain situation and other stuffs. May be then you would realize the actual thing that weather its love or just an attraction.
raj
india
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@misjoseph (162)
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28 Dec 12
Since you love him so much you should try and see how he also feels for you... because you saying that you have feeling for him and he might be saying to a friend he love you as well... So you should talk to him about and other thing... Example you can ask him to help you out in something and see how he reacts then you will be able to determine weather he love you or not...
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