Tall..dark..handsome.. Is it still the ideal man for women?

I like handsome man, he may be not tall, as I am not very tall, so it doesn't matter if he is a little short. Sometimes short handsome man attract me more. I like light colour skin.

Tall dark and handsome.....is not really my thing. Looks don't matter so much as the personality behind the looks - someone who is cool, nice, into civic engagement/charity/causes stuff, who may or may not listen to good music, and is a non-pretentious, genuine person. The last part seems to be the hardest to find. Those are my qualities. What about you?

Excuse my interference to a request made to the girls. Let me just say that for you girls, it's much easier to be picked up by a guy who asks you to go out with. For us men, however, it is already more difficult. End of my speech.

From girl's point of view, It doesn't matter what color does the boy have. It doesn't matter black,brown. The girls only sees that he is handsome or not. Along with the physical features the behavior or the personality plays an important role. It is very important to have a well matured character or behavior which everybody loves.

I think we all look for something different, and sometimes we don`t even know what we are looking for.

When you are buying food you are looking for taste, When you are buying shoes you are looking for comfort, when you are buying jeans you are looking for fit, when you are buying lipstick you are looking for shades to fit your skin tone, when you are buying shirt you are looking for design, when you are buying perfume you are looking for scent, when you are buying for bag, you are looking for durability. What more when you are looking for man aren't you going to have standards too?

when i was around that age, i was looking for a tall dark handsome guy too. i don't know if i should count myself lucky or unlucky. i met a guy like that and he kind of express interest in me. sadly, i didn't feel a thing for him so i stayed away. since then, i have come to realise that the person i fall in love with is not necessary the kind of man i imagine him to be. i don't know what exactly it is but maybe you can call it love. i want a man who send tingles down my spine and my little finger. it doesn't matter how he looks, how much he earns or what he does for a living.

Some girls are really looking for a man that adjectives that you describe during high school and college days. In the end, it really not be happen. Some girls are going for good attitudes for man.

None. I've always just been looking for someone I spark with. Tall is nice, but handsome is like beauty in that it's in the eye of the beholder.

I don't have any specific traits that I would like my partner to have. It just nonsense. We can't really say that we will find the exact guy like what we dream and want. It can just be anyone. That's the reality.(^^)

hi, yes for me that is my ideal man,but not all women wanted that tall and dark,because i have a friend who wanted her man is white because for her white skin is a neat and clean person,other women wanted that their man is chubby or a little beat chubby.

My kind of guy would be funny and smart. For the looks I don't really look for handsome but it is a bonus. As long as he looks normal and not ugly.

Ha! I like all kinds of men, but they don't have to be tall, dark and handsome. I would like one with sandy hair and blue eyes. Just putting that out there to the universe I'm more interested in someone with common interests, kind, caring, non-smoker, loves kids, values family and a decent human. Those are the qualities I am really interested. I also want someone who takes care of himself and is health conscious.

My ideal man when I was teen was tall, white and handsome. Well, God gave me exactly what I was look for. But I know there are some cases, my friends ideal guy didn't happen. He married opposite to it. but she's so inlove with him from head to feet. I think, the qualities were lookin for doesn't fit to the person as long as there's love :)

I can't speak for the rest of my gender, but I can speak for myself. My husband is about 6 feet tall, and is almost bald, with a bit of grey hair remaining. I love him because he is who he is, not because of how he looks. I've met a lot of guys who look good according to the stereotype of what good looks can be, but they have turned out to be complete idiots. Looks don't alwas matter. It's what's inside that counts.

When I was young, I actually preferred shorter men. Those 6 feet and over made me, at 5 foot 1 inch, feel like a child. I got tired of looking at their belt buckle. I finally found a man the right size four me. M¥ husband of 57 years was 5 foot 7 1/2 inches when we married. Of course, he has shrunk some now, but so have I. Somehow, we small people produced a 6 foot tall son, whose son is 6 foot 3 1/2 and still growing.

Yes, but I have more standards for his personality than appearance. For the appearance its like two things: dark hair, 5' 6" - 6' , must look good in glasses Because I have this thing. about. glasses. I promise its nothing pervy Then personality its like a list of 20 or more things that I keep adding to. I probably expect too much, but it can't be helped.

You will get very easily cheated. Men must be verified by his attitude and behaviour with others especially with persons below his his standard. Look sometimes matters, I don't disagree with you but it's very treacherous.

Honestly, I was never really one that was attracted to the tall dark and handsome type. Instead, those thing that I was more interested in was to meet a man that had a wonderful sense of humor and who was a beautiful person on the inside. I wanted to meet a man that had a great work ethic and who wanted to spend a lot of time with family. Looks were not at all important to me a long as the man had a great sense of humor and was a very kind soul.

When I was in school, I used to think that the ideal man is one that is tall dark and handsome. But all these are physical attributes. You cannot live on tall dark and handsome. You need a man who is also responsible and sensitive towards your needs. As I grow older, I look pass the physical aspect and look for a man who can take care of me and my children (or rather our children) and I believe I have found him.